HB8 shows disinterest entire date, but then kiss closes ME at end of date?? WTF??

[marmel75]

Just got back from a date with an HB8...gave me what I considered a pretty big IOD right off the bat when we met and I purposely picked out a table with a booth and 2 chairs. I said let's sit down here and pulled out a chair for her as I sat in the other one. She then said "No I'll sit over here" and sat in the booth instead...putting her over arms length away from me...so I just leaned back and played it cool...didn't really put too much effort into the convo cause I figured this was going nowhere, just was going to stay until I finished my beer.

Then I decided to check again just to be sure. So I ran the Strawberry Fields routine on her and waited to see what she did with her hands when she opened her eyes...she immediately pulled them away. At this point I just was like F it, not interested, so I just kept chilling.

Finished beer a few minutes later and told her I had to bounce because I had to be at work in the morning, and she was like "Yeah, I gotta get up early for my classes too, etc..."

So we get to her car and she asks "So where did you park?" and I turned and pointed in the other direction. When I turn back around, she is literally in my face and pulls me in and kisses me on the lips for about 10 seconds, and says "I've been wanting to do that all night..."

Needless to say we have another meetup planned, lol...

WTF is up with that?? Girl gave me no sign of interest whatsoever but then kiss closes me at the end of the date???

Women are fvcked up I have determined...

 

[Slickster]

Maybe it shows that you don't have overanalyze this stuff so much and do silly routines to get girls.

Amazingly enough, just being cool works!

 

[ckdon2]

well fvck. I wish the woman I'm seeing would do that , lol xD

 

[marmel75]

funny thing is, the first read almost always turns out to be the right one...this is actually the first time it hasn't...I actually love the strawberry fields routine because its really simple and there are so many ways to go with it...most girls crack up when you explain it to them...

girl just texted me and told me she had an awesome time and can't wait to see me again...

I wanted to tell her if she thought that was awesome she must really go out with some lame @ss dudes...that was like me at 25%, rofl...

 

[sylvester the cat]

She went on a date with you. Some would say that's a pretty big IOI...

 

[marmel75]

She went on a date with you. Some would say that's a pretty big IOI...

true, but I have found that its a little different when u meet someone online rather than in person...you've never met the person irl, so you can usually tell within the first few minutes how its going to go...

 

[ArcBound]

This is why I always say stop looking for IOI's. Sometimes those who give you none want to bone you the most and sometimes those who give you many are stringing you along or AW's. You can't tell unless you put yourself out there on a date.

 

[Mike32ct]

When determining a chick's interest level, what happens during the date doesn't mean jack. It's how she acts when she walks out to the car and kisses or doesn't kiss you.

Flirty, giggly, fun girl all night and no kiss or reluctantly gives you her cheek to kiss or runs to her car at the end = bad

Boring cold ***** all night but makes out with you or gives you a long lip kiss or several quick lip kisses in a row at the very end of the date = good

I think both men and women know a date is a pointless formality. It's ALL about the kiss or more at the end.

Write this down and tape it to your refrigerator guys. It took me years of fun, flirty but no kiss (or cheek kiss) one date wonders to figure out the pattern.

If she's fun AND gives you a real kiss at the end, well that's the ideal.

 

[Stagger Lee]

It wouldn't be so odd that after all that she was receptive to you kiss closing her. However, it is odd that she shown disinterest yet kissed closed you at the end. Even girls that show lots of interest rarely seem to take matters into their own hands and kiss close you.

Usually I can tell when a girl is not interested from the moment we meet, but like Mike said it isn't always clear and nly want happens at the end tell the real tale.

On a meet up, women often hide their interest or on the other hand act polite when they're not interested. I never believed you needed to kino, kiss or get a lot of IOI from a girl before you could close her. As long as she's still there, talking to you all you really need is to pitch the offer to go home together.

About the only reliable IOD that I've noticed was when a girl disagrees with every little thing you say.

It would be interesting to see what she does next time you meet up.