HB7 refuses to budge....WTF??

foreverace87

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First of all this is an HB7, junior in college and her actions were way out of her league. If she was super hot then her actions would have been justified.

I am waiting at the airport for my connection flight and I see an HB7 sitting by herself waiting for a flight to Canada. So I figured I am not doing anything else , why not practice some game. Here is the convo

Me: hey there, you look bored...
HB: I am bored!! Hahah
Me: well I stopped by so we could entertain each other, where you headed?
HB: oh yea? Haha I am headed to *******. How about you?
Me: I am headed home to *****.
HB: That must be nice , are u coming from *****.
Me: yes I am
HB: so how is it like in your town, is it better than here?
Me: well hell yea it is, why do you think I am going home?
HB: Hahaha
Me: well I have been to many places around the world except Canada, so you are gonna have to show me around!
HB: sure haha but I don't think you will like it
Me: hey listen, I gotta go my flight is gonna board soon. Let's exchange numbers
HB: my flight boards the same time as yours and they haven't called us yet
Me: well I don't wanna miss my flight. ( I hand over my phone for her to put her number in but she refuses to take it)
HB: I don't give out my number haha
Me: put your number in there!
HB: no hahaha I don't give out my number!
Me: OK....and I then turn away from her
HB: well I would only do that i'f I would ever see you again
Me: well duh, ur gonna be my tour guide
HB: Nope! I don't give out my #! Haha
Me: Fine, what's your email?
HB: no haha I am not giving it you! Haha
Me: fine! Last chance!
HB: okayyyyy Baja
Me: alright I am out. Pleasure talking to you. ( shake her hand)
HB: fly safe

Gents? Where the hell did I go wrong here? Please advise, don't wanna make this mistake again
 

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You didn't make a mistake. She simply wasn't into you.
 

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Stop blaming yourself so much, she didn't want to give her number to you and that's it. Move on
 

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I don't think you made a mistake, although I would have talked to her more and made her comfortable with you before going for the number close. Some women will be joyous to give you their number after 3 min, others will take at least 15 min (or more), and others will simply refuse. Don't get stuck analyzing irrational behavior. Move on to another woman who is interested.

PS: Props for cold-approaching. +1 rep
 

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When she said she didn't give her number out, that was her saying she wasn't interested. If you were Brad Pitt, she would've put her # in your phone on speed dial.

You did good for grabbing your balls, but you have lost this battle. Move on to another, she already did!

Case closed.
 

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I think users should get a smack in the head for asking why one girl hasn't given him her number. If this happened over 100 girls, then you can say you might have an issue with something that can be worked on. One rejection literally means nothing, it's a drop in the ocean. You'll forget about this after a week or two.
 

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HB: well I would only do that i'f I would ever see you again
Sounds like she wanted to give out the number, but she was making you work for it

HB: Nope! I don't give out my #! Haha
I would of looked her straight in the eyes with a serious look & said "stop messing around woman & write down your number for me"
Me: Fine, what's your email?
it's not fine, next time try my response ^^

Few good lines you had in that convo though :) well done
 

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Pics or else we can't judge.

She obviously wasn't interested in YOU, but just the conversation alone. She said she was bored, right? So there you go..
 

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Im concerned as to why you would feel the need to post this story on here if you say it back to yourself you haven’t made any mistakes, you where just being pleasant

The way you repeatedly tried to get the number out of her is the exact reason why women think they can play these stupid fvcking games with men

This is how you should of acted

HB 7: i don’t give my number out

You: ok bye
 

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Bingo-Player said:
Im concerned as to why you would feel the need to post this story on here if you say it back to yourself you haven’t made any mistakes, you where just being pleasant

The way you repeatedly tried to get the number out of her is the exact reason why women think they can play these stupid fvcking games with men

This is how you should of acted

HB 7: i don’t give my number out

You: ok bye
But at the end of the day, he did not get the girl. She likely has many options in her iphone anyway.
 

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it dosent really matter op states shes a mere "hb 7" so im assuming some fairly average looking woman

he was in an airport wanting to kill some time so ran some game it didnt work no biggie

this is nothing more than basic practice speaking to women its hardly next level game lol

she was never going to lead him to the toilet and pull her panties down after 10 mins of chit chat :rolleyes:
 

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Bingo-Player said:
Im concerned as to why you would feel the need to post this story on here if you say it back to yourself you haven’t made any mistakes, you where just being pleasant

The way you repeatedly tried to get the number out of her is the exact reason why women think they can play these stupid fvcking games with men

This is how you should of acted

HB 7: i don’t give my number out

You: ok bye
This is EXACTLY what I am doing next time (minus the ok bye, prolly just walk away without saying anything) , instead of sitting there like a puppy asking for a stupid farking #....biatches and their farking egos!
 

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Robyn923b said:
I don't think you made a mistake, although I would have talked to her more and made her comfortable with you before going for the number close. Some women will be joyous to give you their number after 3 min, others will take at least 15 min (or more), and others will simply refuse. Don't get stuck analyzing irrational behavior. Move on to another woman who is interested.

PS: Props for cold-approaching. +1 rep
Bingo!

Also, if she refuses to give you her phone number point blank, walk away. Don't go down on your knees asking for lesser contact options!! Even if she gives you her email or fb or whatever, it will be meaningless.
 

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foreverace87 said:
Me: hey listen, I gotta go my flight is gonna board soon. Let's exchange numbers
HB: my flight boards the same time as yours and they haven't called us yet
Me: well I don't wanna miss my flight. ( I hand over my phone for her to put her number in but she refuses to take it)
looks like you were too eager to get her number, she saw that, plus a lack of interest.

after she refused to put her number in, thats when you walk away and accept it, don't keep forcing her to give out the number, she will never give it to you, you look desperate and will feel like an idiot for doing so.

foreverace87 said:
HB: I don't give out my number haha
Me: put your number in there!
HB: no hahaha I don't give out my number!
don't work like that to get a number, don't keep asking for it, you look desperate, very beta, if she refuses the first time, forget it.

foreverace87 said:
Me: OK....and I then turn away from her
HB: well I would only do that i'f I would ever see you again
she is saying she won't ever see you again, so no number, she's not interested.

foreverace87 said:
Me: well duh, ur gonna be my tour guide
HB: Nope! I don't give out my #! Haha
she refused to give out the number, why are you still flirting with her?

dont flirt with girls who have no interest.

foreverace87 said:
Me: Fine, what's your email?
HB: no haha I am not giving it you! Haha
you ask for an email after she wont give the number?

you made yourself look weak by going for an email, still begging for her contact info, never downgrade, if she doesn't give the number, she isn't interested, leave it alone.

foreverace87 said:
Me: fine! Last chance!
HB: okayyyyy Baja
Me: alright I am out. Pleasure talking to you. ( shake her hand)
HB: fly safe
:crackup:

don't do that again man, you looked very weak.

why the hell are you shaking her hand for nothing after she embarrassed you?

foreverace87 said:
Gents? Where the hell did I go wrong here? Please advise, don't wanna make this mistake again
she had no intentions of giving you her number, you kept pushing for it, that's where you went wrong.

if a girl refuses to give the digits when you hand over the phone it's game over, quit making an ass out of yourself by dragging on the convo begging for her contact info, never shake her hand when you got nothing to show for it.
 
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