Having ugly friends with you

[LeMac]

I made a thread a while ago about going out alone. I've found a likely alternative with a group of "buddies" (a group of mostly acquantices). One is a handsome guy from what I can tell and is pretty cool, though some of the other guys in the group are rather...lame, for lack of a better word. Call me shallow or whatever...I am. But, I do think most of you would be aware of what I'm talking about though.

Anyways, what could I do to offset any negative image that might come from this in regard to girls, or is it just an overall not-good-idea to ahve unattractive people with you?

 

[NFC]

I don't know.. sometimes it can work in your favor.. like if you are the most attractive of the group.. obviously all the attention will be on you. Then again, if you have good looking friends.. it does show social proof. I'm by no means ugly.. I'm pretty attractive.. but out of my group of guy friends, I am one of the weaker links, because I hang out with a lot of attractive dudes with good game (not trying to sound gay here.. but it's true) so it does become a pain in the ass.. I usually end up getting the sloppy seconds, but then again.. sometimes I pull some amazing chicks that they can't so.. Idk. I say if you're hanging out with someone.. and it prevents you from being youself.. i dont think you should hang out with them but its up to you man

 

[Wyldfire]

If you're confident enough to go out alone, that can work very well for you. When I had moved to a new town and didn't know anyone I felt like going out and doing karaoke so I just went by myself. There are always people sitting at the bar and if you're someone who isn't shy and can easily make conversation going out by yourself is a good way to meet the most people in a new place. If you go in a group you tend to stick with your group more. If you go alone you are more apt to branch out and meet new people. I guess you have to have the right kind of personality and be pretty extroverted to make going out alone work well for you, though.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Wyldfire, common social dynamics dictate that females can go out alone and easily find company for the night. It's a much different dynamic for males.

Now that being said, with some good observation skills and the will to meet people, a man can find company too.

Last year when I got into the whole "sarging" thing I was amazed how I could go out alone and find other guys to wing with. Just through simple observation and basic social skills.

Now to the OP: I think it might have been Style who talked about going out with people of better or worse looks.

There were two contrasting outcomes.

If you are better looking than your group, then your value may be lowered as you are perceived as part of an ugly group.

If you're group is better looking than you, then this may contrast your "unpleasantness." You will be percieved wosre than you are because of the contrast in you and the good lookig people.

I think both can apply. I've noticed who a girl goes out with can affect my opinion of her looks.

You ever been attracted to a girl and then see her with her friends and all of the sudden she just looks plain compared to them?

Or a hot girl who is GENUINE friends with an ugly group? It kind of makes you think WTF.

Ideally you should go out with average people and be a LITTLE better looking or stylish. BUT, I wouldn't sweat it either way.

I think the only thing you should really worry about is socially inept people. Cause regardless of what a girl thinks of you, you can't game her if you have somebody who doesn't know how to act in a given situation, killing your game.

 

[Bigfatasspimp]

Jus cuz they ugly dont mean they aint coo. stop being such a hatin ass nigga

 

[verysuave]

I made a thread a while ago about going out alone. I've found a likely alternative with a group of "buddies" (a group of mostly acquantices). One is a handsome guy from what I can tell and is pretty cool, though some of the other guys in the group are rather...lame, for lack of a better word. Call me shallow or whatever...I am. But, I do think most of you would be aware of what I'm talking about though.

Anyways, what could I do to offset any negative image that might come from this in regard to girls, or is it just an overall not-good-idea to ahve unattractive people with you?

There are downsides to going out and sarging with ugly friends.
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1. All of them would want you the same level as them. I think theres a chance they might end up **** blocking you. They might say somethiNg STUPID and ruin your game which they usually do. ( i currently have a friend like this)

2. They will get jealous of you which will end up as your last night hanging out with them.

3. You will end up by yourself again or try finding guys with the same game as you.


Just my opinion from my experience. I was in a group of 3. 1 attractive and 2 fat ones (i was one of them). At least that's how I felt from my point of view. Guess what happened, we rebelled against the good looking guy who was too ****y we thought.

So, I would never sarge with ugly fat dudes with low self esteem.

I would just keep these ugly cool friends of yours on the side and hang out with them when theres nothing to do... Never take them out when sarging or with your women friends.

 

[Bevo]

If they dont try to block you, i see no problem, but 90% of the AFCs use 90% of their brain only to pull down others into their own misery.