Having Female Friends

[walkguy]

Hey guys tell me its wrong for a married man to have female friends i get told constantly that its not proper to have frendships with the opposite sex from my wife , the 2 of us dont have many "couples " friendships very few and hardly get together with them becise she is uncomfortable with that
she her self has few friends mainly women friends no male friendships and her girlfriends have invited her out but wont or makes up some kind of excuse that she cant come out she has a problem but shouold i give up time with my "girl friends " and not join them in activities even though all of them trust me verymuch and dont mind going out to do things like movies , concerts etc

 

[dietzcoi]

Yes, it is wrong for a married man to have female "friends". Not only is it wrong it is BS. Grown men and women do not have "friends" of the opposite sex... that is high school and college sh1t. If you are married and want to stay married I would suggest you stop what you are doing. Do you want your wife to spend time with male "friends" who I guarantee want to fukk her? I doubt it. Think of it from that perspective.

Besides, get some male friends! What do you need woman friends for, are you involved with a sewing circle or embroidering?

Dietzcoi

 

[Viking25]

As a married couple you guys should adress all problems as such. It's not her or yours issue...tackle it as a couple,you know. It afects you as a couple so you gotta look at that as a couple.When you start separating it like that- bad sign!..I am sure you can find things you both like to do...and meet other ppl in the prosses...male and female.

 

[ShortTimer]

Well what exactly do you mean by friends? Like do you, your wife and your friend all go out together? Are these women also her friends? When you say you go to the movies with them, is it JUST you two or is there a group and / or your wife included?

 

[The_Shnitz]

im sorry but i think its ok to have female friends when you are married as long as you have known then for a long time, i mean im not married or anything but the way i see it is that if you are making new friendships with women then that might be a bit off, but if these women are like lifelong friends or whatever then thats gotta be allright, right?

 

[High Voltage]

You've got to be kidding.

You are entitled to befriend whoever you want. If your wife has issues with this that his her problem, not yours. She is obviously insecure. My god, I wouldn't care if my wife had male friends! I understand that there is a lot of anger on this board, but when a guy and a girl are together it doesn't always mean that they will end up sleeping with each other!

I seriously hope some of the replies were meant as jokes or dolled out with a heavy portion sarcasm.

NEVER change yourself for a girl, even if she is your wife!!

- HV