having a mistress

[strey]

rather than immediately get divorced, why not have a mistress and prolong the agony? j/k. but my questions are

1. how do you know a women will be down to be the "other woman", and not sabotage you marraige?

2. should i even mention being married with kids to a potential hookup? or just say nothing about it?

i had a thread a couple weeks ago where i mentioned i was over being married and just wanted out. but then this little tight ass came along and my outlook changed. im treading on new territory here, but the game is the same , i think. its not that im an ******* or anything, i just love spitting game and getting pu$$y

 

[Desdinova]

rather than immediately get divorced, why not have a mistress and prolong the agony?

A lot of the guys on here are going to give you 5hit for not just leaving your wife. Lots of 5hit can get complicated when you're married and wanting out (usually the financial end of it). All I can really suggest with this is have a game plan for seriously ending your marriage. You need to realize that your marriage is over and you're eventually going to need to get out of it. Put this game plan together BEFORE you go out looking for a female toy.

Only YOU know what your situation is, so it's difficult to judge your situation along with your reasons and needs for finding a mistress.

1. how do you know a women will be down to be the "other woman", and not sabotage you marraige?

A woman who is single and competitive will have a high potential to fvck up your marriage. A woman who is married or has a live-in BF will understand your situation because she doesn't need YOU sabotaging her relationship either. In other words, look for a woman who's willing to cheat on her man.

2. should i even mention being married with kids to a potential hookup? or just say nothing about it?

Again, if you hook up with another woman who's already with someone, this stuff won't matter. Your entire relationship with your target is purely based on attraction and sex. It is NOT based on romance and plans for the future. You do NOT want to have the mindset that the two of you are going to eventually leave your mates and be with each other. It doesn't work that way. The two of you are together to fill the voids that exist in your relationships.

Having a mistress is fun and exciting. It makes you feel like you have a high school girlfriend again. The reason for that is the excitement and fire you felt in your marriage is long gone, and the mistress re-ignites the fire.

im treading on new territory here, but the game is the same , i think. its not that im an ******* or anything, i just love spitting game and getting pu$$y

Don't let your d1ck get you into trouble. Along with the fun and excitement, there's always risks. Your wife might suspect something and spy on you, she might catch you, your mistress's bf/husband could come at your ass with a shotgun, your kids could find out, etc.

I had to terminate the relationship with my mistress because she was careless with her phone, and her live-in bf went through it and read all our messages. Six months later, I ended my marriage.

When I initially decided that I was going to find myself a mistress, I downloaded an ebook on the subject. It was a very good read, covered a lot of bases, and much of it is in-line with the techniques and viewpoints discussed on Sosuave. It's a free download, all you need to do is request it from the author and he'll email it to you. Here's the link:

http://www.cheatmanual.com/

Good luck with whatever happens in your future.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Strey,
At thirty,having a mistress in the true sense of the word is not an option....You just don't have either the money or the time...
Fvuck Buddies are a different proposition and probably the only way open.....Coming back to your original questions,which ask firstly,whether a significant other will try to wreck your marriage? In my experience Yes,unless she is in the same situation herself,with just as much to lose....The second query as to a full disclosure of your situation....Again,in my experience it is not necessary,usually they never ask,but there is an implicit understanding,usually two way,that you don't ask any questions,I don't tell any lies.

 

[Bible_Belt]

For a single woman to make a good mistress, she needs to have some sort of self-esteem issue. BPD women are always mistresses to somebody. Otherwise, the low self-esteem can come from a history of abuse, or maybe she was fat for a long time but now isn't. Mistresses always view themselves psychologically as having a low value, which is why they accept the deal in the first place.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

I would say it depends what you have to offer...a lot of mistresses stick around because the dude is loaded or has high social status...she may stick around to fvck you but she has some dibbs in what you have too...

She may secretly dream of being your wife at some point also...replacing her. I've heard of that happening a lot too -- they were down until they realized their role (they were never going to be wifey#2), and that's when they get pissed.

Strey ... your name "strey" denotes you are not streying from your wife ... if you are that unhappy why don't you just end the situation?

I mean how long do you really want to drag this thing out?

When will the cards change?

 

[Szyzzlin]

rather than immediately get divorced, why not have a mistress and prolong the agony? j/k. but my questions are

1. how do you know a women will be down to be the "other woman", and not sabotage you marraige?

2. should i even mention being married with kids to a potential hookup? or just say nothing about it?

i had a thread a couple weeks ago where i mentioned i was over being married and just wanted out. but then this little tight ass came along and my outlook changed. im treading on new territory here, but the game is the same , i think. its not that im an ******* or anything, i just love spitting game and getting pu$$y

1) There's an attraction to married men since they are already "taken". Women want what they can't have. Alot of women will be the "other woman" since they invision you leaving your wife for them.

2) Don't mention it until you're deep into the relationship and have to bring it up.

Married or not... guys are always gonna wanna nail other girls. I'd keep your wife and nail girls on the side. If that doesn't workout, then divorce her.