ziogothica
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Sorry if this is a bit long i'm trying to generalise it as much as possible. i've never posted anything before here but I have a situation I need help with.
I go to college, (tons of girls
) and i've been friends with this girl for a few months (just friends, I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time). She's never really seemed to show that much interest in me except for the odd parties when we've made out but that's all. She's always been following me, being with me recently rather than any of our other friends. Shes constantly playfighting me and biting me even o.o She's quite immature and crazy-like though, so it could be how shes like with other people.
Recently we've been rely close, teasing games e.g she brings her head like literally 1 cm away up to my face then quickly pulls away. The last time i saw her, few days ago, she was holding my hands secretly on the bus back from college. We even talk about rather erotic things we'd do to each other (but it could be just joking).
Now I could make a move on her, next time we bring our heads close, i'll, you know, quickly kiss her before she can take her head away. See what happens, I think 50/50 chance of it working personally, she cud just be a general flirt with anyone.
But theres this other girl who ive rely recently met. She 100% wants to f**k me and is arranging times we'd be doing it and such. So basically I cud have her right now if I wanted to. 99.9% guarantee.
SO MY CRISIS- I don't know what to do. I want the first one more than the second. But I dont want to lose both. If i got with the 1st it wud most likely be a relationship not a one-off which means i wudnt hav any chance of getting the 2nd. Or I cud take the easy way out and get guaranteed someone with the 2nd.. but I wud then hav most likely no chance of getting back with the first.
Shud I make a move on the 1st and see where it goes from there? Or have i already lost her, and so best shot go for the 2nd one.
I guess it's a bit of a risk factor
Please give me your wise words.. Thanks
I go to college, (tons of girls
) and i've been friends with this girl for a few months (just friends, I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time). She's never really seemed to show that much interest in me except for the odd parties when we've made out but that's all. She's always been following me, being with me recently rather than any of our other friends. Shes constantly playfighting me and biting me even o.o She's quite immature and crazy-like though, so it could be how shes like with other people. Recently we've been rely close, teasing games e.g she brings her head like literally 1 cm away up to my face then quickly pulls away. The last time i saw her, few days ago, she was holding my hands secretly on the bus back from college. We even talk about rather erotic things we'd do to each other (but it could be just joking).
Now I could make a move on her, next time we bring our heads close, i'll, you know, quickly kiss her before she can take her head away. See what happens, I think 50/50 chance of it working personally, she cud just be a general flirt with anyone.
But theres this other girl who ive rely recently met. She 100% wants to f**k me and is arranging times we'd be doing it and such. So basically I cud have her right now if I wanted to. 99.9% guarantee.
SO MY CRISIS- I don't know what to do. I want the first one more than the second. But I dont want to lose both. If i got with the 1st it wud most likely be a relationship not a one-off which means i wudnt hav any chance of getting the 2nd. Or I cud take the easy way out and get guaranteed someone with the 2nd.. but I wud then hav most likely no chance of getting back with the first.
Shud I make a move on the 1st and see where it goes from there? Or have i already lost her, and so best shot go for the 2nd one.
I guess it's a bit of a risk factor
Please give me your wise words.. Thanks