haven't had sex for six years. can you beat that?

[tony-montana]

and no, virgins don't count. i've only had sex twice... well the second time probably doesn't count cause i never came.. she had to leave early. but yeah, that was back in 2003. i can't believe it's been that long. i guess it's cause i was living in a small town. hardly went out... rejected many girls to be honest. i was way too picky in my early teens. i missed out on alot of casual sex. anyway, now that i am much older. my standards are a bit lower and i've been going on many dates. also i have moved to a bigger state. very busy area.. near the city. so i've met alot of girls. i have a date tomorrow actually. i have fooled around many times since 2003 but never got to the point of sex.

so, anyone else in this situation ?

 

[Leporello]

ah no, my record is six months...

 

[jonwon]

and no, virgins don't count. i've only had sex twice... well the second time probably doesn't count cause i never came.. she had to leave early. but yeah, that was back in 2003. i can't believe it's been that long. i guess it's cause i was living in a small town. hardly went out... rejected many girls to be honest. i was way too picky in my early teens. i missed out on alot of casual sex. anyway, now that i am much older. my standards are a bit lower and i've been going on many dates. also i have moved to a bigger state. very busy area.. near the city. so i've met alot of girls. i have a date tomorrow actually. i have fooled around many times since 2003 but never got to the point of sex.

so, anyone else in this situation ?

Stop living in the past and start looking toward the future.

Make an effort to put this guy behind you - what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

This is simply your comfort zone pushing you to action, dont ignore it.

Anyone can change - anyone.

Start learning seduction, get down to the gym, change your style -

What ever it takes, do it.

This is not a contest, this is about progress.

 

[everywomanshero]

6 years?????? Wowa. You should take up fishing, you have got some kind of patience!

 

[scrouds]

Wow, 6 years. Yeah I have that beat. Ummmm..... 37 and 1/2 hrs? And Counting!

Not everyone can change.... you gotta want it. If you're proud of your 6 years and counting you won't change.

 

[Night Owl]

Ever thought you might be gay? All those wasted years...

 

[fertileTurtle]

No. Congrats on not raping anyone yet. Buy a prosto, so you can at least say you've been fckt.

 

[#41]

I've gone over a year before. Not proud of that, but nothing I did to change it seemed to work.

Really, once you hit like 3 or 4 months with no luck, it becomes harder and harder to keep that positive mindset and confidence necessary to go out there and pull tail.

You start thinking "Dammit, nobody wants to fµck me..." and that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

And no, getting a hooker doesn't help -- if anything, it makes you feel worse that you have to pay through the nose to get something normal guys can get for free with minimal effort.

I feel for ya, OP.

 

[comic_relief]

a week (girls that I am seeing had their period at the same time. I was in hell), but I'm going back to university in two weeks

- comic_relief

 

[Cinamon]

I think my longest stretch was 21 months, after i almost gave my date a stroke in a cheap hotel. I refused to sleep with anyone till I knew enough bout their medical history.... And no, he wasn't old, he was 30 at the time.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's been about a year for me. It takes me one to two years on average to find my next lay.