Have you ever checked your SIGNIFICANT OTHER's phone? It may surprise you

[richguy]

For those who are in committed relationships,

Have you ever checked the messages on the Phone of your partner?
The answers will surprise you.

There is 100% chance she is flirting with another guy.
There is 98% chance that that flirting may lead to something else
There is 90% chance you will find some evidence of cheating.

What are your thoughts on this?

 

[Tictac]

67% of statistics are made up on the spot.

Yours for example.

 

[JohnChops]

13% of *******s are given by trannies
99.34 % of posts on SS are by gay men

 

[richguy]

Log into your significant other's phone,

and post all of her messages here.

I was surprised to find out how many people wanted
to be with my significant other.

 

[jimmy18]

Log into your significant other's phone,

and post all of her messages here.

I was surprised to find out how many people wanted
to be with my significant other.

After knowing you for 3 minutes, I'm not surprised.

 

[Skyline]

For those who are in committed relationships,

Have you ever checked the messages on the Phone of your partner?
The answers will surprise you.

I think PairPlusRoyalFlush has done this about 90% of the time, but I made that statistic up on the spot.

 

[El Payaso]

Especially if she's secretive with her phone.

 

[zekko]

67% of statistics are made up on the spot.

Yours for example.

^This.

 

[richguy]

Bump for advice,

How many people have checked their SO's phone?

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Here we go.

a. If she's cheating on you, you will eventually find out.
b. Girls get extremely good at hiding evidence of cheating. I remember looking at my ex's phone once when she left it at my house and it looked totally clean, apparently she was deleting the calls and messages from the guy she was talking to.
c. In co-relation to a., trust what your gut tells you. If it feels like she's not being honest, it's time to start looking for a new girlfriend.
d. Never confront her even if you find evidence on her phone. Just dump her right away without any explanations.
e. Never mention the fact that you snooped her phone. She will use it against you and you will lose TONS of value.
g. Checking her phone will feed you with insecurity. Sometimes you'll see guys hitting on her, sometimes you'll overestimate her relationship with a coworker or an orbiter and it will destroy your relationship, so you shouldn't look at her phone.
g. Most importantly - NEVER LOOK AT HER PHONE.

 

[Tictac]

Why is your problem something for me (or anyone else here) to worry about?

 

[No.Danny]

No thank you. Because she MIGHT be talking with other guys. maybe even flirting. But I for sure am doing the same.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

^ That's a very unhealthy mindset to have

 

[MattTheW]

Here we go.
a. If she's cheating on you, you will eventually find out.

Her actions around you will eventually give it away

b. Girls get extremely good at hiding evidence of cheating. I remember looking at my ex's phone once when she left it at my house and it looked totally clean, apparently she was deleting the calls and messages from the guy she was talking to.

I don't have a "significant other" but girl I'm "talking to" does
And she deletes every text message between us and removes call history as well - although I think she has me by my real name in her phone.....

c. In co-relation to a., trust what your gut tells you. If it feels like she's not being honest, it's time to start looking for a new girlfriend.

Very true - your instinct is always better at picking this sh1t up than your head

d. Never confront her even if you find evidence on her phone. Just dump her right away without any explanations.

e. Never mention the fact that you snooped her phone. She will use it against you and you will lose TONS of value.

Yeah - you say you saw her phone and you suddenly become the bad guy lol

f. Checking her phone will feed you with insecurity. Sometimes you'll see guys hitting on her, sometimes you'll overestimate her relationship with a coworker or an orbiter and it will destroy your relationship, so you shouldn't look at her phone.

g. Most importantly - NEVER LOOK AT HER PHONE.

AS C really - trust your instinct, its so easy to hide things on the phone, look for easier tells, like not spending much time with you, or if the phone rings and she leaves the room for one call but stays there for others
Or misses a call and then texts immediately after when you are in the same room......

 

[richguy]

Never check their phone?

That is BS.

Tell your SO, they have either have to let you see their phone or end
the relationship.

And as far as deleting messages and stuff,

that is fine.

Just use your SO's phone and start flirting with the guy
and get the guy to send you a pic of their "you know what",
and then you will know what is up.


(e. Never mention the fact that you snooped her phone. She will use it against you and you will lose TONS of value.)

That is BS, if she does not allow you to use her phone, she is hiding something!!

 

[Cerwin Vega]

richguy, you must be new here so welcome aboard!

Now sit back and enjoy the ride.

Tell your SO, they have either have to let you see their phone or end
the relationship.
Right...because ultimatums always work with girls.

Just use your SO's phone and start flirting with the guy
and get the guy to send you a pic of their "you know what",
and then you will know what is up.
That is so stupid and reeks of insecurity that I'm not even going to bother thinking of a reply.

That is BS, if she does not allow you to use her phone, she is hiding something!!
I don't like her using my computer either, am I hiding something?
YES! I don't want her to know all of my dirty secrets. If my ex were to read all of my posts and the guy's replies she would probably kill herself for being such a terrible person.
The thing I'm trying to say is, you don't need to know everything about her. If she doesn't tell you something, there's a reason behind it and it's (most definitely) not always cheating. She might've been asking her female friends for advice on how to turn on you, how to seduce you into a relationship with her and other stupid **** we men do as well. She would be very embarrassed by it and you will be classified as an insecure jackass.

Why are you trying so hard to find out whether or not she's cheating? If you suspect her then just (c.) go find another girl.

When I cheated on my ex (double standard much huh? but you guys can relate to me) I made sure all the calls and the texts were hidden and she never found out about them. I would never let her anywhere near my phone and computer since day 1, she would always get pissed and fight but she never left me because I had my privacy.

 

[Zarky]

to a certain extent OP has a point. The vast majority of women have orbiters. Might not be for sex, but it's at least for attention. They keep them on a leash, the length of which varies.

Chicks with many orbiters have self-esteem issues.

 

[No.Danny]

And what type of self esteem issues does a guy like him have?

 

[richguy]

And what type of self esteem issues does a guy like him have?

I don't have any self esteem issues, but there are many guys out there with their SO's cheating on them which they have no idea about,

am I right or am I wrong?

Here's the way to find out:

Just use your SO's phone and start flirting with the guy
and get the guy to send you a pic of their "you know what",
and then you will know what is up.

Once you have the picture of the "you know what",
show it your SO,

The "we are just friends" line ain't gonna work anymore,
and the truth will be exposed.

 

[richguy]

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