have you all suffered like me?

descartes

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All my life I have been through hell with women. I'm not trying to get anybody's pity. I am still trying and will try till I die.
But I wanna know if this is just something that happen to most men or if I'm the only one.
Is that all I HAVE GO THROUGH BEFORE BEING A DJ?
 

Chip

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Don't give up,
You gotta make mistakes before you start improving...
 

DankNuggs

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Those who don't learn from their mistakes are bound to repeat them....
 

Bud Wiser

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Chill Out

Hey, something like 80 percent of the guys on this site have been where you are.

Take a deep breath and start with the DJ Bible and absorb and apply the relevant info in the "Tips" section.

Then take it one step at a time and work for those little victories.

How many times have you heard the phrase, "all it takes is an infield single to break out of a batting slump?" It's true, here too.
 

BruticusMaximus

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Yeah, the worst aspect of it for me is the regret though, I know my life could have gone so much better if I'd done things just slightly differently. Then I start feeling like my best days are all behind me and it's a downward slope.
 

Legend

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who has'nt...i get rejected all the time. Most of the time i dont bother even trying because i dont want to feel like shyt. After awhile it sucks but i was patient for a year and found a girl i ended up hooking up with 11 times!!! Even after the biatch rejected me.

Hang in there....things get better. People say that, and its not always true. I know i'm going to Heavan when i die, because i've already spent my time in hell. hahha

One step at a time
 
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Hey.......You quit ****in feeling down over *****es! They're are better things in life! If you let **** like that get to you constantly, it's gonna naturally make you unattractive.

Lighten up, slow down and take it day by day!

You've gotta crawl before you walk!
 

Starman

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Descarte..what exactly about your life sucks?

what do you mean by hell? astring of rejections? or a string of regret? (i suffered the latter)

before this site..(or maybe its my maturity) I never approached women unless I was piss drunk..and by then, unless they were piss drunk too..I would always look like a drunk punk..

Now I can talk to chicks at bus stops , stores, book stores..it gets easy IF..IF you TRY
 

rgeere

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I feel your pain. I spent most of my childhood and teenage years confused and wondering what was going on. Back then I saw rejection as a negitive experience; because I didn't understand what I was doing wrong. Just keep trying to improve yourself and after each rejected you will see what you did wrong and you will see yourself getting closer and closer to that special relationship you always wanted.
 
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