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Have I slept with this girl before?

Mycoman

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This one is a pretty bad story, I feel like a stud and an ass all at the same time.

7 years ago, I was 18, I slept with this 15 year old. She had told me that she wanted to lose her virginity to me. I only knew the girl a couple days. I nailed her in a forrest perserve, all nasty, bug bites and stuff, no good at all, and it was a very poor performance on my part. She moved a week or 2 later and we didnt talk again.

About 4 years ago, this girl was re-introduced to me, and I didnt remember her. From 15 to 19 she had changed alot and I just didnt recognize her. I heard later that day from a friend that she was very offended, but she didnt show me that.

Last night I was out dancing in a club, having a particularly good night, getting lots of respect from the girls on the dance floor. This girl I knew from way back when was there with some friends. She came up and introduced me to one of her friends, I was more interested in the music than her friend and didnt pay much attention.

About 30 minutes to close the 2 of them sandwiched me on the dance floor and started grinding me from both sides, then started kissing each other with me between them. My old female friend introduces the girl again, this time as her "girlfriend". They kiss again while both rubbing me. At this point I should have been in total shock, but I kept my cool and ended up taking them back to my place with the rest of thier friends, one other girl and 2 other guys.

Her and her girlfriend were all over me and each other. It started getting way late, like 8am, and her friends wanted to leave, but the one girl said she wanted to come back after dropping off her friends. I ended up going along for the ride to drop off her friends. We were talking about old friends we had in common. Anyways, we got back to my place and I did her real good, a few times. She crashed in my bed with me and stayed till 6pm, when I had to get up and go to work.

So now im at work reflecting on what had happened and thinking about the odds of getting a real 3some with these girls and a thought pops in my head that this girl has the same name as the girl I nailed way back when. And she has the same friends and from the same town and it all kinda fits. Im 95% sure this is the same girl that I took her virginity in the woods 7 years back.

Now what the hell should I do? I cant ask her "hey, did you lose your virginity to me 7 years ago?"

Should I mention something? Should I stay quiet? How should I respond If she brings it up?

Either way her intrest is sky high because of using the DJ tactics, and I rocked her in bed real good, so I dont think she would run even if this situation does blow up. Im not sure what to do other than treat her like a new girl I just met.

Thanks in advance for any advice.
 

dionysius_d

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Just too karmic and weird.

A virgin would never forget her first.. and definitely not in the way she lost it to you on the floor or a forest.

If its the one, she already knows and is playing.. why not just come out with it?
 

Mycoman

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I figured if she was the one, she remembered me for sure. No one forgets thier first. The way she insisted that I dont leave without her seemed a little weird. I dont know if she was just hot for me that night, or if she has wanted me back all this time, or if she was out for some kind of revenge(get me all hot for her and then never call me again). It is too karmic and weird.

Im not gonna get whipped on this girl, but she covers about 90% of my fettishes and she seems very into me, so I dont want to spoil it if you know what I mean.

Can I get a few more oppinions? Should I bring it up or just leave it alone?
 

Mycoman

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I asked her tonight, and it is the same girl. Kinda put a weird vibe on for the rest of the night. But oh well, its nice to have that out of the way. It still feels real weird, but its not like we broke up, she moved and I just forgot what she looked like. LOL I know thats sad.
 

busterchaplin

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I usually don't like to give advice when it's no longer needed, but I think that not bringing it out into the open would have been better, just to keep some tension there. "Does he remember me? Is he holding back?" etc. etc.
Then again, I'm guessing you were really itching to know.
 
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