ACTION DATES-now these types of dates are ideal. You are not just there to meet her, you are doing something together (playing pool, mini-golfing, air hockey, etc) The activity acts as a safety net AKA Buffer Zone.. You are not seated directly across from them, the tension tends to be a little lighter as the focus is presumed on the activity and not directly on them. Touching is natural , kino is possible as you can show them how to stand, hold the stick, position them, high five for a great shot, etc. Bounce potential is attainable. A good tip would be to play for favorites……you could start off with playing for a dollar, then move up to hugs ‘n’ kisses….if you are really bold and she is adventurous increase the bets. Loser has to give the winner a rock star kiss, back massage, oral, etc.
Your goal is to associate having a good time with you. When you are seated across from one another in a public place like a coffeehouse it can be stressful, adversarial, there is very little personal space. It’s a lot easier to bounce, kino, redirect focus on the Buffer zone on action dates.