Immortality
Don Juan
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- May 7, 2014
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Ok so I'll save you guys some reading time by making fairly brief. I FAILED to listen to some of you on the forums and after suffering a breakup with a girl 3 months ago I broke everything I cherished. She tried to keep me as a friend post breakup which apparently is a sign she was suffering, but I kept thinking I was gonna lose her if I went no contact. Instead of just letting her figure things out I acted like a beta and became a COMPLETE 100% needy individual. As of today I finally let her go. I told her she is free cuz I know she likes another guy and has feelings for him. They met 3 weeks ago, but I had seen her 2 weeks ago and she seemed very happy around me. Now rather than make anymore mistakes I avoided trashing on the new guy at all. The problem is I have EXTREME oneitis. This was my first GF and I was her first BF. She has told me she doesn't 'feel' the same anymore tho. I've basically just accepted defeat, but I wondered if any of you have ever acted clingy, then changed to an alpha and actually won your girl back? I have some regret cuz I feel like I would have won her back if I would have just went NC, but after acting so clingy I think I may have destroyed everything. She seemed a lot happier when she told me about this new guy and I just accepted it so not really sure what that indicates lol. I don't know if that indicates I've been friend zoned or what, but I need some advice on what to do and if you guys have ever been in that Beta/clingy stage and how u turned it around if you did!