Has She Lost Interest In Me? This is my story

[Toshelt]

Hi guys , this is very important for me, so listen upp

in december 2008 i met a very cute girl on a nightclub, we danced over 1 hour and had a great time, i always made her smile and she kissed me all over my face. I also tried to makeout with her, but she only kissed me ones on the mouth. but anyhow.... i began to get really drunk later that night and i missed my buss home, so i followed them home and said i was going to sleep at her, she said no, and laughed, but i still followed her ( very drunk)

when we got to her home , she said i could not come in , cause of her mom. i got a hug and got home. when i got home i called her and asked her for her msn adress. when i got online on msn , she nagged on me all the time, in a good way, she sent me smiley said i was cute and was always the first to start conversation on msn. she also called me atleas t every 3 day to hear how it goes. she could also just send me message early at morning to say god morning or call me late at night to talk

but here comes the problem. we had fighted one time, i got angry at her, but we got friends again.... but then as i talked with a friend of mine, and her, who is not from my country and did not undersatnd 100% of what i was saying, i talked to him about this girl who i liked very much... Next day she called me and was ANGRY ASS ****... she said " whatehell is wrong with you , your the dumbest and most ignorent man i know" . i closed the phone and talked to this other guy, our friend. he said to me that he was talking with her last night and told her that i have been talking negative things behind her back , WHICH I DIDNT! i never heard from the girl again....

And the dilemma comes here, why i postet this tread....

we talked a loong time and got friend again, i was happy. but there was something wrong . she never called me as she used to do, she might call me max 1 time a week, and maximum 1 message. she never was the first one to talk with me on msn, she never sent smiley to me anymore and all this talk about how cute and handsome i am , i never heard it again...

now its me who contacts her on msn, and she talks very little..

Guys, has she lost interest on me ? just busy? or is it just that she cant trust me? or was it the fight?

I have to say atlast that i think i was special for her, one time. she is very popular, and before she contactet me almost everyday, things that she dont do with other ppl....im so sad right now

update : i blocked her on facebook and msn, she send me messages but i dont answer. i dont want to talk to her anymore if it dont get back as usual

 

[Captain]

She's lost interest, you're stuck in the friend zone. Forget about her, unless you want to be just friends. You won't be able to get into her pants.

-Don't get too drunk.

Don't "follow them home", unless you're walking with them and talking to them. Then it becomes "walking to their place".

-Don't call girls up to ask for their MSN address.

 

[cali0]

I messed up before, but it's part of the learning process for me. This one girl i used to like. She used to message me on aim and call me all the time. But after one night i got too drunk and messed everything up. I didn't take me that long to get rid of my ONEITIS. Recently, i saw her at a bar with her new bf. I was having so much fun I didn't care if she was there. She tried to make me feel uncomfortable by kissing her bf. But i know i made her more uncomfortable by being happy. She finally came up to me and tried to get some attention from me. All i have to say is MOVE ON!!!! IMO, i think it's over for you. Some girl i used to date heard i said some negative thing about her. Instead of accusing me about it. She confront me about the problem and asked me if I said anything negative about her.

 

[Toshelt]

Thx calio, i think your answer was very good.. yes , im going to move on now, when she dont show me respect , she does not deserve me:kick:

i have 2 move ooonnnnn :rockon: