There is a chick I met down her when I first come down here. I know she was attracted to me at first because I overheard her say so to my roomate. I also liked her. However, after hanging out a few times in groups (never for more than 45 mins) we grew apart as our personalities didn't seem to gel.We basically stopped talking to each other after that. This wasn't because of a concious choice but because of circumstances. The only concious part of this was that we didn't go out of our way to talk to each other. We have class together and live in the building. She doesn't have a car, I do, so midway through the semester I offered to drive her home with me. I didn't do this as a means to "get" her but simply because I wanted some company on the drive home. The first time I did it she was surprised and virtually everyone had left by that point so we went alone. However, the next two times she found someone else to come with us, the first time it was her roomate, the next time it was some guy she kind of knew who also lives in our building. Yesterday, though, she didn't try to find anyone else, even her roomate. This suggests that she may have wanted to be alone. She is usually very talkative, especially about herself. However, yesterday she was unusually quiet. She basically only spoke when I said something that prompted a reply. The other unusual thing that happened on the ride home was that when the Weezer song "Perfect Situation" came on, specifically the lyrics "What's the deal with my brain? Why am I so obviously insane?
In a perfect situation, I let love down the drain" she looked at me and kept looking at me for a few seconds. Could she have been thinking of me at that moment?
In class she would always look at me, often for an extend time. That kind of stopped in the middle of all this but yesterday she was at it again. She probably did it more yesterday than any other day, and did it while I was looking at her. One time she kept looking at me for what seemed like 5 or 6 seconds. I made a mistake and didn't lock eyes with her. I looked at her, away, repeat three times. Each time she was still looking at me.
Has her interest in me been revived? Or was her odd behavior just another one of those weird things girls do? Of course, the only way to surely find out is to make a move and I will do that. I just like to know as much as possible about the situation before doing anything. The only sticking point is that nothing happened for three months and it will be odd if I suddenly do this, but if she is interested it won't matter.
What could have made yesterday different than other days? 1) we are here in DC for a semester and will be leaving soon. If something is going to happen, it has to happen ASAP. 2) She knows that I tried to get with a chick that she knows. Perhaps this created some jealousy in her. 3) This is probably the weakest possibility, but I got a haircut for the first time in three months lol. I also had been slacking in recent weeks and didn't gel up my hair and even showed up last week without having shaved for 4-5 days, so I had a significant beard. I was looking my best in quite a while yesterday.
Just give me your 2 cents. Any reply will certainly be interesting.
In a perfect situation, I let love down the drain" she looked at me and kept looking at me for a few seconds. Could she have been thinking of me at that moment?
In class she would always look at me, often for an extend time. That kind of stopped in the middle of all this but yesterday she was at it again. She probably did it more yesterday than any other day, and did it while I was looking at her. One time she kept looking at me for what seemed like 5 or 6 seconds. I made a mistake and didn't lock eyes with her. I looked at her, away, repeat three times. Each time she was still looking at me.
Has her interest in me been revived? Or was her odd behavior just another one of those weird things girls do? Of course, the only way to surely find out is to make a move and I will do that. I just like to know as much as possible about the situation before doing anything. The only sticking point is that nothing happened for three months and it will be odd if I suddenly do this, but if she is interested it won't matter.
What could have made yesterday different than other days? 1) we are here in DC for a semester and will be leaving soon. If something is going to happen, it has to happen ASAP. 2) She knows that I tried to get with a chick that she knows. Perhaps this created some jealousy in her. 3) This is probably the weakest possibility, but I got a haircut for the first time in three months lol. I also had been slacking in recent weeks and didn't gel up my hair and even showed up last week without having shaved for 4-5 days, so I had a significant beard. I was looking my best in quite a while yesterday.
Just give me your 2 cents. Any reply will certainly be interesting.