has a boyfriend yet she asked me to the movies?

[die4me]

This girl has a painfully high IL and the other day I told (not asked) her to come with me so I could do some things. Right after that she suggested a movie, and she asked if my girlfriend was coming. She's in California on vacation, and I told her, and she asked is anybody else coming. I said you can bring your boyfriend, and she said no, I don't want him to. I know for sure that she's going to try something, because she's very agressive. I don't know her boyfriend well but we are aqcuainted and we talk sometimes. I'm not out to steal anybody's girlfriend but I get the feeling that SHE wants to get stolen. Her boyfriend sees her flirt with me, and it's not just verbal and light kino, she backs me up against walls.

Too much interest level? Yes.

But what are your opinions on this? Any advice? Thanks in advance. Positive and negative comments/opinions allowed but once again, to clear it up, I have a girlfriend and I'm not out to steal anyone's girl. (Threesome would be nice though )

 

[squirrels]

In one hand, you have your friendship with this guy.

In the other hand, you have a very freaky piece of azz.

The choice is yours...frankly, if you're more of an "acquaintance" with this guy than a "friend," my decision would probably be "go for it."

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Advice? Go for it. Maybe discuss terms and conditions with her (afterwards, and subtly) - i.e. it's just a shag and you're both going back to respective partners (or become fb's).

 

[dionysius_d]

ah, her unlucky boyfriend.

i couldn't do a wh0rebag like that, just out of principle.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Originally posted by dionysius_d
ah, her unlucky boyfriend.

i couldn't do a wh0rebag like that, just out of principle.

Maybe he's screwing around like a good thing too...

 

[BGMan]

Hmm... obviously she's not all that into her boyfriend.

What I would do is hold back and wait. If possible, don't do ANYTHING until you get the boyfriend to start seeing other girls. If he is a DJ, he will do that, because I know that I wouldn't want a girlfriend who doesn't want only ME. Unfortunately, there are a lot of AFCs out there.

BGMan

 

[becker]

I'd say definitely do not do anything with this girl. You have a GF for christ's sake, and she has a BF. You need to both break up first before doing anything, or else you're asking for trouble. Are you into you current GF more than this girl? If so, the answer is obvious, don't do anything. If you are into this other girl more, break it off with your GF, then tell her to break it off with her BF, then get together.

This one is sort of a no-brainer.

 

[Player_Supreme]

She must be willing to pay for the date also...good job

 

[die4me]

Thanks for the advice so far

Her boyfriend is 100% AFC. She's posted one of his love letters on her public journal and wow - just say that I could never write something like that. Maybe WAY back then before I layed my hands on this site

My girlfriend is inexperienced. I am her first boyfriend basically. We haven't boned and she only likes sensual touching. This girl is experienced and more agressive than my girlfriend. Her boyfriend is more of an aqcuaintance than a friend. He is in college and I'm younger. He would not jump me though. I am planning on breaking up with my LTR but not for this girl.

If me and this girl are in the movies and she starts touching me or trying to get close, how should I react? Should I push away, should I resist? I haven't sexed a girl in ages. Get ass and tell her don't tell anyone? I don't think she'd keep her mouth shut.

It's not right to steal a guy's girl but it is a different situation because SHE is the one pulling stunts on ME. More opinions, what would you do in my position? Thanks fellas.

 

[Tantric]

Well, if this guys is obviously such a loser and AFC, then why hasn't she broken up with him?....hmmmm....she sounds like a biatch anyway posting his love letters and shyte, even if thy were lame. Wouldn't it make sense just to break up with him?

Why are you breaking up with your LTR? If you;re planning on cheating on her, than you obviously don;t like her than much..."Planning" on breaking up with her doesn't make any sense. If you're holding on to her until you find something else, it's a bit AFC...especially because you're not getting any action from her anyway.

If this girl starts doing stuff at the movies HELL NO DON'T BACK AWAY!! If you guys end up making out or whatever (and even through out the evening), DO NOT TALK ABOUT HER BF!!!! Don't bring him up, don't even mention him. Making a move from your end could backfire so I'd wait for her to pull something if she is aggressive like you said.

 

[die4me]

Originally posted by Tantric
Well, if this guys is obviously such a loser and AFC, then why hasn't she broken up with him?....hmmmm....she sounds like a biatch anyway posting his love letters and shyte, even if thy were lame. Wouldn't it make sense just to break up with him?

Why are you breaking up with your LTR? If you;re planning on cheating on her, than you obviously don;t like her than much..."Planning" on breaking up with her doesn't make any sense. If you're holding on to her until you find something else, it's a bit AFC...especially because you're not getting any action from her anyway.

If this girl starts doing stuff at the movies HELL NO DON'T BACK AWAY!! If you guys end up making out or whatever (and even through out the evening), DO NOT TALK ABOUT HER BF!!!! Don't bring him up, don't even mention him. Making a move from your end could backfire so I'd wait for her to pull something if she is aggressive like you said.

Planning on breaking up. I worded it wrong, I have already decided to break up. But my girlfriend is in C.A. remember? She's not allowed to do long distance, that's why I'm waiting until she gets back to break up. I personally think holding on to someone until you find someone else is weak and wrong, and it's like backstabbing to me.

My knowledge and experience has made me confident. Just seeing these things work magic makes you believe in yourself. That's why I know I can do better on my own. It makes no difference if I had a backup or not, and I'm guessing it wouldnt matter to anyone here who's had experience either - the natural DJ or a man who knows the principles of attraction is like a girl showing some leg. lol Thanks for your insight bro, much appreciated. Bump.

 

[Bonhomme]

It may be best to just lay it on the line

Tell her you can see she's hot for you, but you won't go out until she dumps him first.