harriden laments: My mortifying moment at the Christmas party and why it's hell to be 48, alone and desperate

[MatureDJ]

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...moment-Christmas-party-hell-48-desperate.html

But men have no idea of just how sad it is to be a single, middle-aged woman looking for love. I had no idea either until it happened to me.

At 48, I find myself alone and desperate. I want a man but find myself competing with women half my age.

Being middle-aged sucks anyway. But when you are middle-aged and looking for love, it sucks 1,000 times over. Just when I'm desperate for a relationship, the chances are fading. When I was in my 30s, I had a brilliant social life. A partner would have cramped my style. Now I don't want to be out dating. All I want is to snuggle up on the sofa with someone. And that someone is impossible to find.

my opinion: Oh my, she looks like one of the Monty Python gang dressed up as a woman.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Wow

 

[Dr.Suave]

it´s like a horror story for women.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Oh after she dropped all the guys looking for intimacy in her 30s cause attention at the club was too much of a temptation, now complains that no man wants to cuddle with her on the sofa cause girls half her age are a better option?

I wonder why she wants to relax at home now...maybe cause the competition outside is robbing her of all the attention?

Anyway get this messages and articles and spam them in any girl forum, make sure they all know that the will get from men the same feedbacks that average men get from women before their 30s.

A middle aged single men probably found a balance in his life and appreciates the freedom and the quiet.

A middle aged single woman after a life of validation and special treatment finds herself alone and undesired even for a brief chat, just like a drug addict that run out of money after a life of parties.

Anyway they get no sympathy from me, they had all the currency needed to be happy but they wasted it on expensive trips rather than buying a house and now they cry they are not even welcome under the bridges.

 

[Vivacity]

I have no sympathy. You run, run, and run and make beta men chase, chase, and chase until you hit the wall.

It is when women reach 40 they get to senses and get a sense of reality. I have seen many cases.

 

[wifehunter]

I have no sympathy. You run, run, and run and make beta men chase, chase, and chase until you hit the wall.

It is when women reach 40 they get to senses and get a sense of reality. I have seen many cases.

Yep, that's reality.

 

[zekko]

Damn, she looks terrible for 48, especially since she doesn't appear to have let herself go (get too fat). Seems like a lot of women are like this when they get older, either they get too fat or their skin starts to look like crepe paper.

Funny, I had just made a post a few days ago about how I was surprised how so many women handle the loss of their youth and beauty so well. It's like going from driving a Ferrari on the race track to pushing a scooter. We were saying a lot of them form an identity out of being mothers and live vicariously through their children. I guess that's not the case with this woman here, she doesn't have anyone.

 

[RickTheToad]

Damn, she looks terrible for 48, especially since she doesn't appear to have let herself go (get too fat). Seems like a lot of women are like this when they get older, either they get too fat or their skin starts to look like crepe paper.

Funny, I had just made a post a few days ago about how I was surprised how so many women handle the loss of their youth and beauty so well. It's like going from driving a Ferrari on the race track to pushing a scooter. We were saying a lot of them form an identity out of being mothers and live vicariously through their children. I guess that's not the case with this woman here, she doesn't have anyone.

Sad fact. This will become the norm as less and less ladies want to have kids or freezing their eggs to have children in their 40's. Interesting fact, IVF is less than 10% effective after 41 (source - https://www.advancedfertility.com/fertility-after-age-40-ivf.htm). I dated so many ladies in their mid to late 30's and they said they've frozen their eggs. Even I, as direct as I am, couldn't break it to them that the chance that they will have a baby through IVF in their 40's is very slim. They would have a higher chance naturally than through IVF during that age range. Unless, well the lady is going through premenopause. I experienced that not too long ago too with a lady. She'd got so dry during sex she had a hard time walking the next morning. She actually put an ice pack between her legs (which, come to think of it, I never got that ice pack back).

Here here for feminism. They themselves are changing the minds of the ladies one by one. Yes. go start a career and forgo your birthright of any and all animals (humans are animals). So stupid.

 

[zekko]

She actually put an ice pack between her legs (which, come to think of it, I never got that ice pack back).

Did you really want it?
Maybe some of these women could hire a surrogate womb if they get too old to carry a child themselves.

 

[AJ84]

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...moment-Christmas-party-hell-48-desperate.html




my opinion: Oh my, she looks like one of the Monty Python gang dressed up as a woman.

No way she is 48, 68 maybe. She also looks very unapproachable.

 

[Who Dares Win]

No way she is 48, 68 maybe. She also looks very unapproachable.

And the bird nest haircut surely doesnt help...

 

[sosousage]

she looks like 60yo tranny with weird neck and pretensional face expression

 

[zekko]

No way she is 48, 68 maybe.

She could be lying about her age, she wouldn't be the first. She does look REALLY bad for 48.

 

[Mike32ct]

Way too much sun.

 

[AJ84]

That's why we call it "hit the wall" here.

Most women become unattractive in period of 3 to 4 years somewhere in their 30s to early 40's unless heavy cosmetic surgery support kicks in.

I’ve seen lots of attractive women in that age range. In Toronto I notice many older women are fit and put together while more and more girls in their 20s seem to be dying their hair blue and green, wearing burlap sack pants and joining the SJW cult. It’s such a waste of young beauty but it is what it is.

In any case this one didn’t hit the wall. The wall hit her at 150km an hour.

 

[AJ84]

She could be lying about her age, she wouldn't be the first. She does look REALLY bad for 48.

She does. 48 is not geriatric and she looks geriatric. Unless she’s a chain smoking sun whorshipper. The outfit also makes her look much older.
I do wonder if it’s a satirical article because she actually does look more like a man.

 

[zekko]

I do wonder if it’s a satirical article because she actually does look more like a man.

I hate to admit it, but she does look a lot like a man in the face. And that dress hangs on her very oddly. I don't think the Daily Mail is a satirical publication though... maybe not very reputable. If the politics over there is like it is here though, maybe she just self identifies as a woman so they report her as a woman.

But I definitely agree, if that's a woman there is no way she is only 48. I've had older women lie to me about their age on more than one occasion. Makes me laugh because a LOT of guys here recommend lying about your age. I always associated that with being a feminine thing to do.
She couldn't have that much sun damage living in the UK, could she? I guess they travel through Europe a lot though.

 

[RickTheToad]

I hate to admit it, but she does look a lot like a man in the face. And that dress hangs on her very oddly. I don't think the Daily Mail is a satirical publication though... maybe not very reputable. If the politics over there is like it is here though, maybe she just self identifies as a woman so they report her as a woman.

But I definitely agree, if that's a woman there is no way she is only 48. I've had older women lie to me about their age on more than one occasion. Makes me laugh because a LOT of guys here recommend lying about your age. I always associated that with being a feminine thing to do.
She couldn't have that much sun damage living in the UK, could she? I guess they travel through Europe a lot though.

Nah, she's real. She's an author, just the pic is real bad. She's now 53, with bad skin prob. due to her living fast and traveling days in her 20's - early 40's.

https://winteryknight.com/tag/kate-mulvey/

https://www.nakeddivorce.com/blog/emasculation/
https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/393540.Kate_Mulvey

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I feel my ex-boyfriend has stolen the best and most precious years of my life.

Yea, the ex STOLE that from you.

Jesus.

 

[sangheilios]

I didn't read through everything on here, but she looks WAY older than 48, hell she looks way older than my 62 year old mother. This woman looks like she either spent a lot of time in a tanning bed or smoke a lot, or maybe both.