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Senior Don Juan
What are your goals in life? What do you want in life? How would you rate the quality of your life? What do you do with your time? Are you truly happy?
Some questions to think about. The last one is the one that I’m going to focus on today. I have noticed something that happened to me, and I can imagine a few others as well.
When I first came to this site. I thought to myself, “This is it!!!!! The answer to all my problems. Here is the solution to all of my difficulties with girls!!!! This is why I am not happy, because I cannot score with women left and right!!!”
Recently I realized something. In today’s world, society makes things “right” and “not right”. One of the things in today’s society that destroys peoples’ lives is the fact that people mistake pleasure for happiness.
Most guys think they should be happy if they can score with women left and right. The guys who get laid every night believe they should be happy, but for some reason they aren’t. People believe that if they have material things, then they will be happy. They believe that since they aren’t a millionaire, they CAN’T be happy.
Humans want. Humans want and want and want. This is a basic quality of Human Nature. There is one thing that all humans naturally want though more than anything else. Happiness. Every human wants happiness and contentment. The problem is how people think they will achieve it. The very purpose of our lives is to achieve happiness.
Some people believe happiness can never be achieved. It can. Happiness can be achieved. To be truly happy, you must reflect on things that you have, and not things that you don’t or cant have.
Keep in mind our purpose in life, to achieve happiness. Now, here’s a strategy to help you out. Base every decision you make, on the question: “will this make me truly and ultimately happy?”. Now remember, you must look at it from a big picture point of view. Although something may bring momentary pleasure, will it bring you ultimate happiness? Will having that one who has brought you one-itis for years truly make you happy? No, it won’t. It may bring momentary happiness and pleasure, but over time you will return to your normal state of how you feel right now.
Most guys think this, “why aren’t I a Don Jaun? I try and try and try but no girl wants me! As soon as I could figure this out I would be happy and be a true Don Jaun”
Or here’s another one, “I score left and right!! I can get girls any time I want them!!! It seems though I am not happy, It seems like every time I want to be happy, I must go after another girl. I SHOULD be happy though!!!! Having girls SHOULD make me happy!!!!!!”
But for some reason it doesn’t. Why? Because you rest your happiness and your life in other people. Will it really make you ultimately happy? Will having that one night stand with that skanky ***** really make you happy? Or are you just doing it because you think it is SUPPOSED to make you happy?
Pleasure vs. Happiness ROUND 1!!!!!!!
Pleasure: I am the ultimate stress reliever!!!!! I am what man lives for!!!! Without me there would be no happiness!!!
Happiness: Really? Is that so? You say you are the ultimate stress reliever. You may relief stress for that specific moment, but ultimately you will build stress creating an unbearable desire in a man.
Happiness: You see? To achieve me takes discipline, motivation, and intelligence. Any fool with a mind can indulge in pleasure.
Pleasure: So I am easier to attain!!! I am superior!!!!!!
Happiness: Sure you are easier to attain. But if man would stop and think for a second, they would realize pleasure does not lead to happiness. They would realize the harmful effects in indulging in pleasure every time they have a desire for it.
Happiness: The purpose of every man’s life is to achieve happiness. You are an illusion created by society to prevent people from achieving me. You destroy life. The only reason why people indulge in you is because, A) it is in their human nature and B) they believe it will lead to me.
Happiness wins. You know why happiness wins? Because happiness is what everyone wants. Most people do not know how to achieve it though. Only you can achieve it. I will tell you this. No material item, no person, and nothing you can see or touch will make you ultimately happy. You have a mind. That is all that is required to achieve happiness. And finally remember to always ask yourself when faced with a decision, “will it make me ultimately happy?”.
Some questions to think about. The last one is the one that I’m going to focus on today. I have noticed something that happened to me, and I can imagine a few others as well.
When I first came to this site. I thought to myself, “This is it!!!!! The answer to all my problems. Here is the solution to all of my difficulties with girls!!!! This is why I am not happy, because I cannot score with women left and right!!!”
Recently I realized something. In today’s world, society makes things “right” and “not right”. One of the things in today’s society that destroys peoples’ lives is the fact that people mistake pleasure for happiness.
Most guys think they should be happy if they can score with women left and right. The guys who get laid every night believe they should be happy, but for some reason they aren’t. People believe that if they have material things, then they will be happy. They believe that since they aren’t a millionaire, they CAN’T be happy.
Humans want. Humans want and want and want. This is a basic quality of Human Nature. There is one thing that all humans naturally want though more than anything else. Happiness. Every human wants happiness and contentment. The problem is how people think they will achieve it. The very purpose of our lives is to achieve happiness.
Some people believe happiness can never be achieved. It can. Happiness can be achieved. To be truly happy, you must reflect on things that you have, and not things that you don’t or cant have.
Keep in mind our purpose in life, to achieve happiness. Now, here’s a strategy to help you out. Base every decision you make, on the question: “will this make me truly and ultimately happy?”. Now remember, you must look at it from a big picture point of view. Although something may bring momentary pleasure, will it bring you ultimate happiness? Will having that one who has brought you one-itis for years truly make you happy? No, it won’t. It may bring momentary happiness and pleasure, but over time you will return to your normal state of how you feel right now.
Most guys think this, “why aren’t I a Don Jaun? I try and try and try but no girl wants me! As soon as I could figure this out I would be happy and be a true Don Jaun”
Or here’s another one, “I score left and right!! I can get girls any time I want them!!! It seems though I am not happy, It seems like every time I want to be happy, I must go after another girl. I SHOULD be happy though!!!! Having girls SHOULD make me happy!!!!!!”
But for some reason it doesn’t. Why? Because you rest your happiness and your life in other people. Will it really make you ultimately happy? Will having that one night stand with that skanky ***** really make you happy? Or are you just doing it because you think it is SUPPOSED to make you happy?
Pleasure vs. Happiness ROUND 1!!!!!!!
Pleasure: I am the ultimate stress reliever!!!!! I am what man lives for!!!! Without me there would be no happiness!!!
Happiness: Really? Is that so? You say you are the ultimate stress reliever. You may relief stress for that specific moment, but ultimately you will build stress creating an unbearable desire in a man.
Happiness: You see? To achieve me takes discipline, motivation, and intelligence. Any fool with a mind can indulge in pleasure.
Pleasure: So I am easier to attain!!! I am superior!!!!!!
Happiness: Sure you are easier to attain. But if man would stop and think for a second, they would realize pleasure does not lead to happiness. They would realize the harmful effects in indulging in pleasure every time they have a desire for it.
Happiness: The purpose of every man’s life is to achieve happiness. You are an illusion created by society to prevent people from achieving me. You destroy life. The only reason why people indulge in you is because, A) it is in their human nature and B) they believe it will lead to me.
Happiness wins. You know why happiness wins? Because happiness is what everyone wants. Most people do not know how to achieve it though. Only you can achieve it. I will tell you this. No material item, no person, and nothing you can see or touch will make you ultimately happy. You have a mind. That is all that is required to achieve happiness. And finally remember to always ask yourself when faced with a decision, “will it make me ultimately happy?”.