Hanging out as "friends"

[J0sH]

This chick wants to hang out and get to know me as "friends" first, then she says she'll decide whether or not we will be intimate.

How should I act when we hang out? Should I act like its a normal date anyways or just keep it friendly with some light kino and what not?

Any help would be appreciated.

thx

 

[AFK Protector]

Forget her. She thinks she owns you and is trying to control you right from the start. You gotta take control. Say, "no how about, we go on a date and if I don't like you enough to be intimate, we can be friends."

To me, it seems like she's feeling like she's better than you or you're not good enough for her stuck up @ss.

 

[fezz]

I wouldnt do it man. This sounds like a fast trap into the friends zone. If she was really interested in you, she wouldnt want to hang out with you "just as friends" first. It seems like she is trying to take control by her deciding what you two will be. Don't go out with her as friends.

 

[JSH]

Um no, so you asked her out and she said lets be friends and see how it goes from there. Eitehr get her to give a flat out rejection by strongly coming on to her or stear clear.

 

[J0sH]

No, its not really all like that.

I didn't really ask her out or anything. I have been kinda talkin to her and stuff just getting to know her, I never asked her out personally. Then, she told one of my friends she wants to get to know me better and hang out as friends first and see where it goes.

hope that clears it up a lil better, but I am still thinking the same thing you guys are anyways.

 

[nath]

Originally posted by AFK Protector
Forget her. She thinks she owns you and is trying to control you right from the start. You gotta take control. Say, "no how about, we go on a date and if I don't like you enough to be intimate, we can be friends."

To me, it seems like she's feeling like she's better than you or you're not good enough for her stuck up @ss.

i havent read any responces and i only the read the first line of that reply and i agree.


**** HER MAN UR THE ****NIG PRIZE WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WID U PPL

u fukn control her
not the other way around