Had sex with my ex wife

[Chosen1]

Don't really know what to say been divorced for a couple months. I really don't know what the hell happened. I went over to "see my son" which was nice and she was lookin at me funny. Then we started makin out and we just started fvckin. She asked me questions like was I in a realationship when the last time I had sex, blah blah blah. Then to top this all off another girl I've been talkin to called me twice before I went over, to see my son. I was like what the fvck this girl never calls me and she called me twice when I went out to the moves weird. To be honest I don't want a realationship with anybody. I just want my money, and I'm gonna play the field what do you guys think.

 

[Thundernuts]

More often than not thats just what your ex wants, remember deep down women are really sexual they just don't want to be labeled as sluts. I mean hey your going to see your kid, might as well get some ass to right?

 

[Chosen1]

Damn right I said to myself hey I love seeing my boy but I'm horny and got mine . She said she still loves me though which is weird cause she divorced me I'm not really interested in love now myself.

 

[The Duke]

Women tend to say all sorts of things! Never forget that.

Been there done that...........I don't recommend having sex with your ex. Your heart and her's as well needs to heal so you can get over your divorce. Time together will just delay that process. Having sex will just make things emotional and cloud each others thoughts.

Get out there and play the field. Go live life...........you are a free man......enjoy it.

 

[everywomanshero]

I think it's pretty common for ex wives to use the ex husband as the fall back guy for a while post divorce. Usually, it happens like this:

The guy she was nailing that she divorced you hoping to have a relationship with gets cold feet or pisses her off, she's angry, she saw him with another woman, heard he took another girl out, or whatever. She feels angry/frustrated/hurt, and she wants to feel better about herself so then she does the ex-husband. If the guy completely ditches her, she may even try to get you back.

 

[Solomon]

Dawg I've been following your post

and I'm really starting to think your a troll

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176836
original post where she you getting divorced (including her pic, no comment on that)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178380
^^here your saying you never talk to her

and now your banging her, personaly dude, no disrespect to you or your wife. But you can do better then her man, and the fact that you having sex with her shows to me you don't have a lot of options or you haven't learned.

Been there(AND DONE THE SAME MISTAKE MANY A TIME) so I can relate but you gotta move on

 

[Chosen1]

Dawg I've been following your post

and I'm really starting to think your a troll

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176836
original post where she you getting divorced (including her pic, no comment on that)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=178380
^^here your saying you never talk to her

and now your banging her, personaly dude, no disrespect to you or your wife. But you can do better then her man, and the fact that you having sex with her shows to me you don't have a lot of options or you haven't learned.

Been there(AND DONE THE SAME MISTAKE MANY A TIME) so I can relate but you gotta move on

everybody says I can do better and I don't want to be with her. I don't talk to her anymore she just started calling me out the fvcking blue. I have a lot more options then I did before. I'm just wanted to get mine ya know. I thought it was freaking weird and I told her. I was just horny at the time and don't want to start any relationship right now. I'm also trying to follow the dj bootcamp and apply what I learn. Trust me when I say this I am moving on and she knows it.

 

[Chosen1]

Nah, I want to p.s this. When I was with her I couldn't do anything. No sosuave or nomarriage.com. Nothing I have my freedom more money and more women that I talk to. She did me so dirty and now she's "lonely". I'm not lonely anymore I touch on girl at work and I'm constantly talking to people now. I couldn't even go out and get my hair cut, or clothes. Like I say this is the happiest I've been in 3 years and if she called me begging to be back with me and threatened even suicide I would say no.

 

[Thundernuts]

thats why she wants you so bad, she knows your changing. I mean, she probably called it off because she was getting bored, but she might have second thoughts. I know you said you won't, but i want to reinforce your though, don't get back with her. Now on sex...maybe two more times at the most.

 

[Maxfarsigth]

Do not end up like Alan from Two and a Half men. Because that is what it really looks like.

 

[Chosen1]

I just don't want to get her pregnant

 

[Bluntmaster]

I just don't want to get her pregnant

Let me guess... you banged her raw didn't you?

 

[Igetit!]

Trust me when I say this I'm moving on and she knows it.

Oh...so you're moving on,right? Ok,but what happens the next time you go to see your son?


If the only way you can see your child is by going over to her place,then you're going to be seeing this woman A LOT. You're going to be going over to her place many,many times over the next few years.


So what happens the next time you're over there and you happen to be "horny"? Or the time after that? And the time after that?


I don't really see how you can "move on" from someone while repeatedly putting yourself in situation to have sex with them over and over again,not to mention the emotional attachment you'll have from seeing her the two or three times a week when you go over there to see your son.


But hey,if you say you're moving on,we'll take your word on it.

Nah, I want to p.s this. When I was with her I couldn't do anything.

You couldn't do anything? And who's fault was that? You're a MAN,aren't you? Back then you were both a father and a HUSBAND. It's your JOB to lead,guide,and protect your family.


If you "couldn't do anything" because of this woman,then the failure was on your part. You say that she did you dirty. As in what?




I think Thundernuts may be on to something. She apparently is seeing something different about you and my guess is that she DOESN'T LIKE IT.


You being happy,having more freedom,and being more outgoing....ALL OF THAT is a threat to her being able keep you under her thumb,so this sex from her is her using her greatest weapon to see if she can still control and manipulate you,and like bees to honey,it's apparently starting to work.



You're a FOOL if you think you can repeatedly go over to this girl's house,spend time there (even if it's to see your son),have sex with her,and still maintain all this new "freedom and happiness" you say you have.

Solomon was right in what he was said.

I just don't want to get her pregnant.

You don't want to get her pregnant? Well you could STAY OUT from in between her legs,I mean that's always been shown to prevent pregnancy,however,I don't see you using that as a viable option.



Ha,ha....you don't won't to get her pregnant,yet you did the one and ONLY THING that causes pregnancy,lol.

 

[jophil28]

The guy she was nailing that she divorced you hoping to have a relationship with gets cold feet or pisses her off, she's angry, she saw him with another woman, heard he took another girl out, or whatever. She feels angry/frustrated/hurt, and she wants to feel better about herself so then she does the ex-husband. If the guy completely ditches her, she may even try to get you back.

^^ Ahh, yes - woman are indeed people of substance

 

[jophil28]

I think Thundernuts may be on to something. She apparently is seeing something different about you and my guess is that she DOESN'T LIKE IT.

Take it from me - the most devastating thing for an ex wife to deal with is seeing or hearing that you are doing well and succeeding. They absolutely hate it .
Ex wives tend to stay stuck in their circumstances which presided at the time of separation. They shore up their sisters support and work their girl's committee hard to ensure support.
Your name will be constantly blackened in an attempt to make her feel better. She wants others to believe that she was "victimized" by you and her decision to divorce was in the interests of "her" child .
You will variously be accused , behind your back, of being -
"abusive", "controlling", "possessive, " "a loser," selfish ", irresponsible and lazy " , "demanding " ...blah blah... anything to shift fault and blame onto you for the marriage breakup.

Her willingness to f**k you during visitation was some kind of attempt by her to draw you back under her control. BY doing that she felt that she had regained power over you once again. Ii may have felt good for you, but know that she got more out of it too namely a feeling of power and control.

Be aware that she may try to seduce you again in an attempt to regain more control over you - remember that women believe that their pvssy is all powerful.

Keep it zipped buddy.

 

[Chosen1]

Oh...so you're moving on,right? Ok,but what happens the next time you go to see your son?


If the only way you can see your child is by going over to her place,then you're going to be seeing this woman A LOT. You're going to be going over to her place many,many times over the next few years.


So what happens the next time you're over there and you happen to be "horny"? Or the time after that? And the time after that?


I don't really see how you can "move on" from someone while repeatedly putting yourself in situation to have sex with them over and over again,not to mention the emotional attachment you'll have from seeing her the two or three times a week when you go over there to see your son.


But hey,if you say you're moving on,we'll take your word on it.


You couldn't do anything? And who's fault was that? You're a MAN,aren't you? Back then you were both a father and a HUSBAND. It's your JOB to lead,guide,and protect your family.


If you "couldn't do anything" because of this woman,then the failure was on your part. You say that she did you dirty. As in what?




I think Thundernuts may be on to something. She apparently is seeing something different about you and my guess is that she DOESN'T LIKE IT.


You being happy,having more freedom,and being more outgoing....ALL OF THAT is a threat to her being able keep you under her thumb,so this sex from her is her using her greatest weapon to see if she can still control and manipulate you,and like bees to honey,it's apparently starting to work.



You're a FOOL if you think you can repeatedly go over to this girl's house,spend time there (even if it's to see your son),have sex with her,and still maintain all this new "freedom and happiness" you say you have.

Solomon was right in what he was said.




You don't want to get her pregnant? Well you could STAY OUT from in between her legs,I mean that's always been shown to prevent pregnancy,however,I don't see you using that as a viable option.



Ha,ha....you don't won't to get her pregnant,yet you did the one and ONLY THING that causes pregnancy,lol.

We all know that part of the reason she wanted me to "see my son" was to get control over me. The reason I say I'm moving on is cause I can talk to fvck and do whatever I want. I can actually have female friends/fvck buddies now which is great. Believe me their is no emotional attachment involved. What jophil28 said is pretty much true. She told people at work her family everything that I was an a-hole abusive demanding blah blah blah. Now guess what, I really am an a-hole and people love it. Solomon might be right about me not having many options but I'm no troll. I just wanted to discuss this.

The icing on the cake is she's not asking me for money anymore but things for my son??? Like I said I have never been divorced before I'm loving my new found freedom and my expanding expanding list of female friends it's great. I will add this before I quit this discussion I don't care who or what she fvcks I just don't care anymore, which I think is sad. This won't last much longer though

 

[Kailex]

Did the warpiggy squeal "Weee weee weee" all the way home?

 

[Chosen1]

Did the warpiggy squeal "Weee weee weee" all the way home?

Nah I'm still talkin to other females though fvck dat. People lookin at me home like wtf don't go back to that please don't, I won't.