Gymnasium war report

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I've been seeing this girl at the gym recently, I'm actually at a block away in the football area gym.

She's in the gymnasium - weight rooms area.

She does cardio training in a group of both girls and guys - groups about 2-1 girls over guys (10-12 students) None of her gym pals are that goodlooking, the other guys are AFC's and too scared to say anything to her, regarding hooking up.

Now, I'm thinking how I could approach her? Since you're in a gym. You're meant to be working out, doing your thing. So it would be folly to try and approach her whilst she's in a cardio class with her strict tutor always 2yards away from her and the group.

We've exchanged eye-contact, but its relitively hard to figure out if she's sending any signals since she's working out, and plus me acting like I'm working out whenever I go over to there block. There's a real d!ckhead of a guy in my area, who goes over there when he see's the chicks coming and pretends he's working out - asks me to squat him EVERYTIME. When the group comes over to my part, they have to perform cardio excersies infront of all the guys, she usually gets a good telling off, because she seems nervous (probably cos all the guys stand around and watch the chicks in their sweatpants) and isn't doing what she's told to her ability - I noticed her looking up at me, when me and my buddy where laughing at some joke, she kept looking over at my space.

I want to work on this somehow? Attack her where she's weak, but its hard with all the maneuvers they do around the gym. She has 2 eyebrow piercings above her right eye, I have tattoos and piercings, how can I use as little resources given to me already, to advance? Thats atleast ONE THING we have in common and something to talk about.

I usually go on Wednesday's, Thursday's or/ and Fridays. I went today (Monday), which is the day I usually see her. I noticed what bus she gets on after class. I considered jumping on the bus with her onece or twice but this might come across abit "OMG creep stranger danger" mode.

What would be a good tip on how to approach her, or see if she's interested? I know one of her classmates who I went to school with since junior. Doubt if this will have any impact on advancing my move. My bud, told me I should " keep my plans low in the dark - and then strike like a thunderbolt when the times right - and just give the odd smile whenever she's on the radar. If she smiles back, keep doing this, for a while, but DON'T say anything " I'm forever checking whether she jumps on the phone whenever she leaves - to indicate if she possibly has a boyfriend or not.


I don't really like GYM APPROACHES. I'd rather do day-game given the chance if I sighted her. Another thing I'm concernced about is, one of her classmates who wasn't in today - I had already hit on, a long time ago, asked for her number - she told me she had a boyfriend. Can this affect me in anyway?
How should I go about pursuing this? any ideas
 

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Well, you already identified something you have in common that isn't school. Your piercings... So just go with that and stop hesitating. Then, while you are at it, ask if she noticed the "squat guy" and have a laugh. Maybe then ask her if she is training for something special; sports, porn career etc.

This is easy, seriously. Just make sure that about 2 minutes into talking, you exit and go work out with your friends. If you are really confident, you could ask when she typically comes to the gym and meet up with her for a workout.
 

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Duffdog said:
Well, you already identified something you have in common that isn't school. Your piercings... So just go with that and stop hesitating. Then, while you are at it, ask if she noticed the "squat guy" and have a laugh. Maybe then ask her if she is training for something special; sports, porn career etc.

This is easy, seriously. Just make sure that about 2 minutes into talking, you exit and go work out with your friends. If you are really confident, you could ask when she typically comes to the gym and meet up with her for a workout.
LOL ! "porn career etc "

She's training for 800metres - Cross Country. Sorry, but how does one do this, whilst she's IN A CLASS? her tutor is instructing her and me just coming over when they're all standing there is absolute ''stranger danger''. I'll look like a creep, trust me. Its not about me hesistating here, it's all about strategy and timing.

I'd rather you tell me, to pull over the school friend that I know and somehow, get involved via that way (even thats abit risky) They're ALWAYS active whether its talking to one another, excercising or moving to different parts of the gymnasium.

You're heading me up to fail with that advice - because I'll actually go and do it, I'm headstrong and upfront like that. But, this I cannot FAIL or look like a loser, since I have to go back here for my own training. Not everything is ESCALATION. Given the right time, and the right situation - then I will escalate to my ability. Its not like she is training with her friends randomly - just to get fit, she's in a class with a group of people with a STRICT A-HOLE of a tutor.

There is no POSSIBLE WAY for me to DIRECTLY approach her within that aspect and getting any positive aura out of it in the end. There's just no way, unless she was completly by herself or w/ a FEW of her friends, (still this is risky). But with a whole class, ..no-way.

1st step - Smiling and eye-contact to start off with, next time - This should be a good indicator whether she wants to be approached/ interest. So, this being said, if she does, what next and how?

You must not of comprehended what I wrote DDogg? ..This isn't a single chick training, she's never offguard (she has linebackers to the rear, left, right and centre). IT IS A CLASS, no BREAKS even :down:
 

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The ''GYM'' is probably one of the trickiest places to pick up chicks, they never really want to be bothered. Excluding the ones in tight spandex overalls revealing there bellybutton piercings and ladyhumps.

But the ones in sweats, tshirts and headphones are the ones who're serious about training and would rather not be bothered.

This is what I'm up against, but with overwhelming odds.

Deathground !!!
 

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So you mean to tell me that when she is coming in and waiting outside the fitness room for the class, you can't talk to her? You can't find any possible way to walk by and say "hi" or any possible in at all?

If you are worried about seeing her again in the gym, then don't say anything stupid or desperate. And by the way, if you can't walk up and introduce yourself just because there are two random guys next to her... what are you going to do when you get older?
 

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Ah, the gym's a bad place to pickup chicks, most of the time. The sterile atmosphere kills the mood.
 

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Duffdog said:
So you mean to tell me that when she is coming in and waiting outside the fitness room for the class, you can't talk to her? You can't find any possible way to walk by and say "hi" or any possible in at all?

If you are worried about seeing her again in the gym, then don't say anything stupid or desperate. And by the way, if you can't walk up and introduce yourself just because there are two random guys next to her... what are you going to do when you get older?
Me and my bud, always come an hour after they've already started the class. Whenever we come in, they've started. Thats just the time we agree on due to work and traffic beforehand.

If I had the VULNERABILITY to say "Hi", I would. Most definetly. But it hasn't even gotten to that stage yet, where she is easily seen to even say that. Its not one or two random guys next to her, its masses of people - not just guys.

They're all in a circle, me, coming in, introducing myself within that circle - calculates CREEP, not confidence. I'm not trying to find excuses, but its literally how I explain it.

Right now, its the knowing that she's in the premises and she knows I'm in the premises. Just by common-sense of "Oh common face ..oh she's/ he's here today".

They don't even go toilets, let alone have breaks. It's crazy.

So, Introducing and interrupting her whilst she's training? LOL, really? :crackup:

I'm making an FR on this. Like I said, I've been seeing her recently. I'll start off with indirect approaches - EYE-CONTACT/ BODY LANGUAGE/ SMILING - pro-active and straight to the throat. You're way off with introducing myself within a intense class of 800m runners - Only replybck if its pro-actively sufficient to what I'm saying, introducing whilst in a class without any sought of indirect inuendos beforehand- thats reactionary - and just asking to be rejected.
 

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Why not just catch up with her after the class? Is there something i'm missing here?
 

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Apparently this girl has 15 bodyguards armed with tazers circling her 24hrs a day and she only rides with presidential escort to prevent guys from talking to her in the gym...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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PHAT rabbit - I get what your saying, I guess it'll take some hardcore confidence talking to not only to her but EVERYBODY within that circle. They all seem like people I wouldn't really talk to (preppy, snobbs), but I guess with abit of lighthearted jokes and humour could break the ice. I'll be looking out for this, since theres so many jock-wannabe guys in my gym, and they all hate those guys, cos they walk around with there chest out and take up the room.

DJcorleone - I arrive after they've started the class, what makes you think I'm going to leave when they've/ she's finished. Just because she's leaving? Read my post dude.

Deafdogg - C'mon dude! atleast get it right, you're way off, she's in a reconnaissance T-38 tank and has infantry support. Thought you knew man?

PecoralisJunior - Snipers don't have AR-15's - These dudes had AR-15's! you forgot that. womp womp wompp.
 

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So why don't you just leave when she leaves to catch up with her?
 

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Really? Just up and leave whilst I was doing my workout beforehand, so suddenly leave to talk to her then when she's ready to go?

Bad idea I think - smells of desperation.
No just act like you're leaving early.
 
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