gym parter?

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I met this girl about a month and a half ago in the college cafeteria. She said that she had a boyfriend but was up for going out. She showed huge signs of interest but said right off that she wasn't going to leave him. He lives a long way away from the college though so I figured that she would dump him eventually (she is just a 18 year old freshmen and they all dump there highschool boyfriends).

I took her on a few dates but she wouldn't let me kiss her so I stoped trying much. She wanted to go out 1 day so I told her I was going to lift weights and she could come with me if she wanted.

For the last month she has lifted with me 5 times a week and we eat together after. We flirt a bit while we lift and I have caught her (through the mirror) checking out my body when i am working out.

She hasnt seen her boyfriend since I met her or dated anyone else but she still wont let me kiss her. Another problem is I see hot girls in the gym and cafeteria everyday while im with her. Girls are always making eye contact and smiling but I don't do anything because I dont want her to see.

Basically I want a gym kino plan

I figure the gym is the best place to come on to her. I have tried to get her into the wrestling room but she wont go (she agreed the first time but it was filled with people and 1 dude was like "you 2 have to take your shos off because of ring worm"). So she aint up for that $hit anymore.

Any good kino ideas? Lay them out for me in detail. I want transitions from small to big. I already grab her sides durring dips, feel her muscles for development, ect... I want transitions to rubbing instead of sqeezing/holding.
 

MVPlaya

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Rather than the Gym thing, try this:

Your girl is your social proof, you've built rapport at your gym now. Now, just neXt her or LJBF (Let's Just Be Friends). She is a waste of time. There are good girls who won't kiss until the xTH time you go out with them and there are girls who just want to attention ***** you. What does it mean that she Wants to see other people but Can't leave her boyfriend right now or Ever kiss you? She's wasting your time. Get some of the other girls at the gym.

The official verdict: NEXT!

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also.... if you're really hung over this chick (*ONE-ITIS*) then you might want to go Ganji. Its a basic tactic to get women who seem to LJBF you or not give you anything more than a wink to understand you are a man of value. Check it out.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21610&highlight=ganji
 

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Don't waste your time trying to get with her. Right now she's acting as great social proof so go for the other girls. Why are you worried about her 'seeing' you hit on other girls? She's not going to kiss you but you feel like you have to be faithful to her?? Don't be silly.
 

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You WANT her to see you flirting with other girls.

Right now she is trying to (or already has) put you in the friendzone. So if you're "only friends" ;) ;) , what's the harm of you flirting with some other women in front of your "friend" ;) ;) ?
 

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Your in a tough spot. LJBF'd... I've been there. Our whole relationship revolved around working out, then doing something afterward. It never evolved and I put up with it too long.

One day after working out, cancel getting something to eat because you have a "date". See how she re-acts. She can't get mad. She has a boyfriend.

Weigh your options. Does being LJBF's with her out weigh everything else? Is she preventing you from meeting HB's? There is social proof there, but is it worth it?

Eventually, she will leave her boyfriend. But, you've made it into the friend zone. Once there, it's really hard to get out of...
 

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You have turned into her pet AFC! She is using you to have somebody to go to the gym and afterwards with. That's all. You cannot see it because you are blinded by oneitis...

NEXT, NEXT, NEXT! Do not let her get away with using your time and giving NOTHING in return.

DIetzcoi
 

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Re-thinking my prev-post...

Yeah, you need to do something NOW. Before you kick your self later for wasting time...

Do a search on some AFC horror stories...
 
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