Guys maybe we are looking in the wrong places?

[women haze]

They say...you lie in the gutter all you will find is rats.

Maybe we as men who want self respecting women need to switch up where we find them?

It's time we look at the church

Hear me out...think about it, we keep looking for women in the gutter of society like NIGHT CLUBS...
Useless places where women don't take men seriously anyways only want a free drink from a guy or a girls night out..useless for finding a mate.


We need to look towards more positive circles for women..Non profit charities, CHURCH, etc

Women with principals ....looking into the gutter like Nightclubs and POF just seems fruitless to me more and more now.

I don't know what do you guys think.....

 

[Jaylan]

In my experience, church and charity girls are too goody goody and prude. I like a girl who has got a lot of edge. Id run circles around a good girl and prolly get no tail for all the effort =/

I am generalizing here, but there may be some rough and tumble gals in that field of good girls. The same way there are some diamonds in the rough at clubs. Plus in my experience, there are a good amount of club girls who could make decent relationship gals. I am talking about the ones who go there to dance and maybe meet someone here or there. Not the ones who go to get railed every other week.

I mean I love to party and consider myself a good dude, so I am sure every place has its thorns and roses.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Well think about it.. The night clubs and bars attract all walks of life. In a bar you will meet a drunkard bum, but also a well endowed man.

The thing is, you have to think about how well the response goes.. For instance, a girl who gives her number to you (a stranger in her eyes) at a bar will most likely do this to many people. Even if you're a very awesome guy, she might overlook it because SO MANY men are after her.

It's like she's playing as in outfielder in baseball but there's a ton of different fly balls coming at her with a given span of time. Know what I mean?

 

[Aspiring1]

You get different types depending on what bar you are at. I went to a hipster/bluegrass dive bar this past weekend and everyone there was cool as hell. The girls weren't the hottest you will find (a fact which I reminded myself of when I realized a girl I hadn't bothered to hit on in a class a few years ago was one of the best looking ones there), but they were friendly and easy to start conversations with. Most of them seemed to be pursuing careers and degrees, as well.

Generally, I agree about day game though. My primary goal for being here is to work on my game so that I can meet women just going to the grocery store. Most bars are a waste of life.

 

[Blackmm]

One good thing about churches is that more chicks will go alone vs the clubs when they go with the girl pack. Plus in church, you can't really be *****y or cut a guy down like they were in a club without being looked down at by the congregation.

 

[zekko]

Nothing wrong with meeting a girl in a church, but bear in mind that finding a girl in a church is no guarantee of her morality.

I know a guy who assumed this girl had values because he had met her in church, and she talked a good game. So he married her. He then had to go back to his service in the army. When he came home the next weekend, she was in bed with some other guy. Oops.

But meeting a girl in a bar or a nightclub is the WORST place to find a quality woman. I'm not saying it can't be done, but the odds aren't as good.

 

[Solomon]

Its weird OP I was thinking about making the same type of post a couple weeks ago in the MM section but honestly I didn't wanna deal with the negative reception. To me learning Game is weeding out time wasting women or women who arent worth my time. Having gone to the church most of my life (but moreso recently) the women are completely different then the typical barfly.

These women are respectful, passionate, traditional, curtous and feminine. The problem with most women at bars and clubs is their is no spiritual (not religions) balance in their life. Sure these women are gorgeous but a lot of them don't grow to a deeper understanding of life that the average person goes through.

I'm not saying all church girls are good to me a girl can go to church all she wants and still be a shotty women (one of my exes was like this) But like Pook said how does she value spiritual matters? that women to me who i can connect with on that level would be the ultimate one