So I met this girl at a Club (we both 27 ), a week later we met for coffee talked a bit. went on the first date for drinks at the end of the date I went for the kiss and she told me she didn't kiss on the first date, I jokingly said that it was our second date so I pushed her toward me and she gave me this dry ass kiss. When on a second date two day afterward and I end up making out with her but it felt to me like more of a shore from her than real desire, so first red flag, the other thing is that she never had allow me to pick her up we alway meet at some place. So this weekend I ask her out to dance she tells me that she is not really in the mood but she goes on on asking me if an free Saturday morning which I said no... Saturday she texted telling me that her plans with her family were cancel , if I was free. I tell her yeah so we agree on a time and place..a couple of hours later she texted me that she was sorry but her plans with her family were back on but that she was going to be at this bar later on that I was more than welcome to join her ..I declined then later at night.....the thing is that this girls initiates all the time , she text me every day "goodmornig for me to have a nice day" ..send me pictures of her all the time I usually take a least an hour to reply and some time when I don't ..she text again.... so any though?
Guys I need input on this plate
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VladPatton
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Stick with it, but don't put super effort in it for now, you never know. If you're free, go out. If you're not having a good time and you feel she's looking for a girlfriend with a d!ck, drop her and don't waste your time and money.
OlympicTim
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Pursue her, keep doing what your doing.
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
However if you don't go out with her go out and try to meet other girls. You clearly can do it because you already met her so keep it up bro
Maximus Rex
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Yet another d*ckhead who doesn't know what a plate is.
pyros
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She is not into you. She may 'like' you, but she has her mind (and her vagina) somewhere else.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
This is more than likely going nowhere.
Just go on another 'date' with her if you have absolutely nothing better to do.
Based on my experience, I wouldn't contact her anymore unless she suddently displayed way more interest, and she made out with me like crazy.
No more ****ty kisses, thank you.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
First of all this is not a plate; a plate is a girl who you are already ****ing.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Second this girl is playing the typical game of making you wanting her more and make you investing without you getting what you want (her worn out pvssy).
This can be easy or mindfvck depending on how you play it. Start ignoring her ass for some days don't reply or just reply with one word answers or just reply with only one emoji (my favorite). Then she will freak the fvck out if she is really interested then you will invite her over for some dinner at you house and then you escalate physically and see if she goes along with or not if not move the fvck on.
There are literally 3.5 billions pvssies in this wasteland.
Tictac
Banned
If you're going to 'push as much as you can', next her now. You've already lost.
The best way for him to learn to test what works and what doesn't work so let the guy has a chance old man because you never know!
Pretty much this. She didn't want to kiss on the first date, second date you said making out with her was a chore. She's going to make you work hard for sex, but only because she's not really interested in having it with you IMO. Meanwhile she's content to keep seeing you for attention and validation. It's a sh*t deal.
You should stop initiating with her and pursue other girls. She'll either get the message and want you more (easier sex), or disappear and save you the time.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Tictac
Banned
Wager?