"While I don't think we have a future, there was a clear winner and loser here, and I don't like to lose. I at least want to have the OPTION to love her again if I so choose. Will her breaking come point come soon, if ever?"
Until the above paragraph becomes: "We don't have a future because I want nothing to do with her regardless of how she ever feels in the future."
You will be the loser.
Why?
Because the answer to your question is who the heck knows and you shouldn't care.