GRRRRRRR!!!! Not picking up the phone

[tamales]

I am getting ready to go to work. But this sucks. Yeah, I am staying strong. I mean even after I sent him that email, he calls and acts like nothing. Men! I can't believe it. His message was, "hey sweetie, it's X, it's about 7:15, well just calling to say hi, we'll talk later."

Like hell we will. I think my email through him for a loop and well, enough already. Oh yeah, in that email I sort of copied stuff from some of your advice on here. I think it was excellent and thank Quick and some others. You really inspired me and well in turn hope to inspire others.

Toodles off to work. But trust me, if I can get through this and stay strong, anyone on the friggen planet can. So there's hope.

Don't pick up that phone, Don't pick up that phone, Don't pic up that phone!

And don't think that you can be friends afterwards when you have this bad. Move on and do nice things for yourself and get your mind off them. Every time you want to call, think about the really **** treatment they gave you and your self worth.

Or read some of the posts on here.

 

[Kwah]

Keep the faith. Heh, I've been single so damn long I've forgotten what its like to try to not talk to someone.

 

[FlyGuy]

Haha, persistent bastard! He knows he's got you hooked deep. Stay strong...

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Is this the old DJ guy?

M.A.C.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Meet up with some friends and catch a movie, or go out clubbing at the weekend. This will help take your mind off him

 

[tamales]

Thanks guys! Nice to get home and see some positve input. What comes around goes around and he called yet again tonight while I was at work and yep, acted like nothing has changed. What will it take for him. I honestly, think he misses me more than he bargained for and well, for him it's a game. I mean we have mutual friends and when I left him high and dry the other night ( he was taken aback at me saying no and leaving early) he even said he "had to have me one last time, that I turned him on more than any woman on earth" . Meanwhile his friend was showing a real and sincere interest in me. And has told another friend that my former DJ was an idiot to let me go.

Sure pal, go to the clubs. He doesn't want me back. NOt me. He just doesn't want his friends to know the real deal and know that I have moved on... Understand this so far.. I don't know and honestly, while it sucks eggs there gets a point where you are like enough already. I am there or at least trying my best to get there.

Although I did have a major slip up on the phone where he did get me excited. I was totally AFC and could kick the living **** outta of myself, so don't blame him for trying. He knows or thinks he will break me. And I tell ya, I may have lost many battles with this one but not the war.

I can do this and need encouragement to do so. So no flaming! Hard enough to work with a bunch of catty women in retail while I get my business going. Grrrrr. today was hell but have to keep positive.

I refuse to be his chumpette anymore and even if he came back crawling it would only be a matter of time before the same old **** resurfaced. I think he just wants to prove something. It's like I told you so. I must stay strong and will.

Really meant a lot to hear, stay strong as silly as that sounds

Kisses,
Tamales

 

[Downrock27]

way to go, just keep it up. It gets easier every day. I'm still dealing with it.

 

[Slickster]

Stay strong Tamales

You need distance from this guy

 

[Clint Eastwood]

Hang in there Tamales! It's just a matter of time before you find a great guy who will take your mind off what's his name.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Come up to New Hampshire Tamales, I will ensure your mind is 101% on me.

Like I said before, forget about him!

M.A.C.