Grinding (thought this could use its own thread)

[familyguyfan]

I know there are a lot of threads on dancing, but I thought this could use it's own one, because a lot of people seem to disagree on what to do in this situation.

When you are grinding with a girl and you get a boner, do you back off a little bit or just keep going with it? Answer in the poll.

I thought this thread would be good to get a good idea of what most people think you should do in these situations.

Personally, I've always thought you were supposed to back off until I came on here and saw a lot of people saying the opposite.

 

[Vincent]

It depends upon the relationship with the girl. If it's a girl you've dated before then she'll probably be ok with it, but if it's a girl that you're with for the first time you may want to back off.

 

[Maybnoob]

Trusts me girls like the feel, it makes them very horny infact. If the girl is mature and not some kimmature brat she wont mind.
This has happen to me once. My second in command got a little frisky and decided to do some jumping jacks. And it started to grind up on her. She could feel it as she looked at me in a chheky way and smiled, then she proceeded to grind even harder lol.
So i will vote yes.

 

[AdrenalynJunkee]

I agree. If you're grinding with a girl, she's probably attracted to you in the first place. By rubbin' it up against her, it's sort of a "Look what you just did" type thing. A girl will feel good knowing she just got you hard. Being the tease that most girls are, they'll probably grind a little harder.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by Vincent
It depends upon the relationship with the girl. If it's a girl you've dated before then she'll probably be ok with it, but if it's a girl that you're with for the first time you may want to back off.

Hmm. Well, I'm going to prom with this girl, and I've never really hung out with her one-on-one, but I have hung out with her before. So we're friends, but we're not good enough friends that something like that would be awkward, and we're not "going to prom as friends." So I guess it will probably be okay, but I'll have to see how the night is going before we start dancing.

 

[JSH]

dont get a boner, just dont react, imagine that you have your little kid brother or something in your lap, which is why the pressure is there. Its both the manual stimulation and the mental picture of what it will lead to that give you a hard on. Try and remove the second as its harder for her to see she is having an effect on you.

 

[AdrenalynJunkee]

Originally posted by JSH
dont get a boner, just dont react, imagine that you have your little kid brother or something in your lap, which is why the pressure is there. Its both the manual stimulation and the mental picture of what it will lead to that give you a hard on. Try and remove the second as its harder for her to see she is having an effect on you.

Why would you do that though? Grinding is supposed to be pleasureful. By taking out the pleasure factor, it's pointless. That's like imagining your mom while you're having sex. It "numbs you" and you rob yourself of the pleasure aspect of the whole thing.

 

[DJoneday]

AdrenalynJunkee has a very, very good point.

 

[paraguayandj]

bytches love 'em bones

 

[chill]

it realy boils down to the relationship that you have with the girl

 

[AdrenalynJunkee]

Originally posted by chill
it realy boils down to the relationship that you have with the girl

Indeed. Chances are though, if you're grinding with a girl, the "I like the way you look" relationship has already been established lol