Hey guys this weekend I was given the wonderful oppurtunity to test out some DJ tactics at a bar and at a college apartment complex. Please keep in mind I do plan to return to these same places and follow to see how effective my initial approaches were.
At the bar I decided to test eye contact/smiling and playing hard to get. While at the college apartment complex I used Neg Hits and Kino. Granted DJ's normally a whole "tool box" to deal with a woman, but I wanted to see which two of these styles will have the better effect.
Location: Bar
Target: Cute female bartender
Why: Because they are a challenge due to being hit on by very dude that walks in the place.(Plus I like the idea of a woman who knows how to make a good drink.)
Method: Eye Contact/Smiling and playing hard to get.
Okay I'm out with some friends and we go to this nice bar in my home town. Its a nice joint and there's a young crowd. The female bartender is cute, an 8, so I thought I might test myself. We start out at the bar and get our drinks, my friends and I are talking. The girl is cleaning up behind the bar a little and I make direct eye contact for a good 5 to 10 seconds and smile. She cracks a very slight smile. I go back to drinking and talking with my buddies, but occasionally we make eye contact every so often and she'll linger by me after she gets me my drink.(Even after I laid the tip down) But for the most part I begin to ignore her, eventually she stops right in front of me and asks me "are you a cop?" I answer no and she smiles and says "promise?" She goes on to ask my buddies in a quicker manner and then cards us. I'm the last she cards and smiles as she looks at my picture, unlike with the rest of the cards she looked at. So I ask her why she thought I was a cop, but she instead of telling me she slides down to the other end of the bar and tells them why and not letting me hear. She just smiles at me and walks to the other end of the bar for a bit. After a bit she is looking and smiling at me and I ignore her. After awhile when she didn't seem to expect it I said alright you gotta tell me why you think I was a cop. She said that she was afraid that I was going to arrest her for giving a cop posing as an underage drinking a beer, and that she would be fined 5000 or 3000 dollars.(She couldn't make up her mind on the sum of money) I said she had nothing to worry about and I ask her some questions about herself, we talk and smile again except this smile is much wider than last time. Noticing this I decide its about time to go to another area of the bar as if I was leaving. After waiting a bit and chit chating with other folks I return to the bar. The girl immediately notices my return and is staring at me. I make sure she see's me checking her out and then I smile at her as nicely as I can. Not only does she smile with her teeth she even blushes and asks how her favorite "policemen" are doing. After chilling for a bit we head back to my buddies's college apartment complex.
Location: Apartment complex
Target: Two cute female athlete's
Why: Their cute, inshape and what more reason do you need?
Method: Neg-hits and Kino
Alright I'm back from the bar and sober. I see these three girls two of which are cute playing some catch football. A buddy of mine and I decide that they might want to play a game so we go over there and I just put my hand in the air signaling that they should throw the ball to me. They do of course and then I toss it back and we start talking and get into a game. We are playing touch tag and I accidentally, I SWEAR (no seriously), tag her on the breasts. She jokes and said I was coping a feel, I neg hit her by saying I didn't feel anything good in a joking manner. She pretends to act a little mad but makes it obvious she is not. She later takes off an outer shirt to reveal an itsy bisty little tank top. So I jokingly say just ignor the distraction guys because she has no other skill then that. She starts laughing and smiles then after I call hike she rushes me and tags me grabbing my pipes and giving a good squeeze. The other girl was on my team and for her we chatted and I applied kino, and neg hits saying she should have the wind to play this since she's an athlete, we joke and everytime we make a good playing in stead of high fiving we put our arms around each other. Some after at the end of each play we were putting our arms around each other. At the end we head back to my friends apartment and talk for awhile, then we head back to their apartment to watch some tv. Unfortunately some drunk guy came stumbling along and the girls decided to help get him home.(Drama) After that we all decided to call it a night and the girl walked me and buddies back to our place. I said that my friends could wait for me and I could walk her back to make sure she gets back alright. She says no she can handle herself and jokingly flexes, I respond by saying you mean like this and flex just my triceps which she notices. As we talk before we head up she says "well i guess your expecting a huge" smiling at me. And I said "yeah i am" so she smiles and hugs me pretty good rubbing my arms a bit and I finish by saying "its always nice to be hugged by a pretty girl" her eyes dilate and she smiles and giggles a little, she aids "well next time your up her, come knock on our door and maybe we can do something that night." Then she just smiled and walked away, and I called it a night.
(To be continued with a follow up test)
Initial Results: Both methods seemed to have worked well, I know that all three girls will be around the next time I go up in a few weeks so it will be interesting to see which approach left a stronger impression.
My Predictions: Its my belief that I will be able to close a number on the college girls quicker than the female bartender, because both girls were going for me and making it obivous and even invited me back. So I should definately close on one of those two.(Though I think the appearance of some drunk guy they new who was in dire straights probably threw a wrench into things) I left things with the bartender vague just to see if she will remember me or was flirting to get some bussiness. So next time I go there we'll see what happens.
Well that sums it up, if you guys want to throw in some independent analysis your more than welcome in fact I encourage it.
-Grey Fox
At the bar I decided to test eye contact/smiling and playing hard to get. While at the college apartment complex I used Neg Hits and Kino. Granted DJ's normally a whole "tool box" to deal with a woman, but I wanted to see which two of these styles will have the better effect.
Location: Bar
Target: Cute female bartender
Why: Because they are a challenge due to being hit on by very dude that walks in the place.(Plus I like the idea of a woman who knows how to make a good drink.)
Method: Eye Contact/Smiling and playing hard to get.
Okay I'm out with some friends and we go to this nice bar in my home town. Its a nice joint and there's a young crowd. The female bartender is cute, an 8, so I thought I might test myself. We start out at the bar and get our drinks, my friends and I are talking. The girl is cleaning up behind the bar a little and I make direct eye contact for a good 5 to 10 seconds and smile. She cracks a very slight smile. I go back to drinking and talking with my buddies, but occasionally we make eye contact every so often and she'll linger by me after she gets me my drink.(Even after I laid the tip down) But for the most part I begin to ignore her, eventually she stops right in front of me and asks me "are you a cop?" I answer no and she smiles and says "promise?" She goes on to ask my buddies in a quicker manner and then cards us. I'm the last she cards and smiles as she looks at my picture, unlike with the rest of the cards she looked at. So I ask her why she thought I was a cop, but she instead of telling me she slides down to the other end of the bar and tells them why and not letting me hear. She just smiles at me and walks to the other end of the bar for a bit. After a bit she is looking and smiling at me and I ignore her. After awhile when she didn't seem to expect it I said alright you gotta tell me why you think I was a cop. She said that she was afraid that I was going to arrest her for giving a cop posing as an underage drinking a beer, and that she would be fined 5000 or 3000 dollars.(She couldn't make up her mind on the sum of money) I said she had nothing to worry about and I ask her some questions about herself, we talk and smile again except this smile is much wider than last time. Noticing this I decide its about time to go to another area of the bar as if I was leaving. After waiting a bit and chit chating with other folks I return to the bar. The girl immediately notices my return and is staring at me. I make sure she see's me checking her out and then I smile at her as nicely as I can. Not only does she smile with her teeth she even blushes and asks how her favorite "policemen" are doing. After chilling for a bit we head back to my buddies's college apartment complex.
Location: Apartment complex
Target: Two cute female athlete's
Why: Their cute, inshape and what more reason do you need?
Method: Neg-hits and Kino
Alright I'm back from the bar and sober. I see these three girls two of which are cute playing some catch football. A buddy of mine and I decide that they might want to play a game so we go over there and I just put my hand in the air signaling that they should throw the ball to me. They do of course and then I toss it back and we start talking and get into a game. We are playing touch tag and I accidentally, I SWEAR (no seriously), tag her on the breasts. She jokes and said I was coping a feel, I neg hit her by saying I didn't feel anything good in a joking manner. She pretends to act a little mad but makes it obvious she is not. She later takes off an outer shirt to reveal an itsy bisty little tank top. So I jokingly say just ignor the distraction guys because she has no other skill then that. She starts laughing and smiles then after I call hike she rushes me and tags me grabbing my pipes and giving a good squeeze. The other girl was on my team and for her we chatted and I applied kino, and neg hits saying she should have the wind to play this since she's an athlete, we joke and everytime we make a good playing in stead of high fiving we put our arms around each other. Some after at the end of each play we were putting our arms around each other. At the end we head back to my friends apartment and talk for awhile, then we head back to their apartment to watch some tv. Unfortunately some drunk guy came stumbling along and the girls decided to help get him home.(Drama) After that we all decided to call it a night and the girl walked me and buddies back to our place. I said that my friends could wait for me and I could walk her back to make sure she gets back alright. She says no she can handle herself and jokingly flexes, I respond by saying you mean like this and flex just my triceps which she notices. As we talk before we head up she says "well i guess your expecting a huge" smiling at me. And I said "yeah i am" so she smiles and hugs me pretty good rubbing my arms a bit and I finish by saying "its always nice to be hugged by a pretty girl" her eyes dilate and she smiles and giggles a little, she aids "well next time your up her, come knock on our door and maybe we can do something that night." Then she just smiled and walked away, and I called it a night.
(To be continued with a follow up test)
Initial Results: Both methods seemed to have worked well, I know that all three girls will be around the next time I go up in a few weeks so it will be interesting to see which approach left a stronger impression.
My Predictions: Its my belief that I will be able to close a number on the college girls quicker than the female bartender, because both girls were going for me and making it obivous and even invited me back. So I should definately close on one of those two.(Though I think the appearance of some drunk guy they new who was in dire straights probably threw a wrench into things) I left things with the bartender vague just to see if she will remember me or was flirting to get some bussiness. So next time I go there we'll see what happens.
Well that sums it up, if you guys want to throw in some independent analysis your more than welcome in fact I encourage it.
-Grey Fox
