Grass aint always greener: Oneitis

[HaleyBaron]

I think we all know that feeling. You get a girl on your rotation, you guys are having fun as fwbs. Then suddenly one day...she gets all jealous seeing you with other girls. Suddenly she becomes upset that you banging chicks and then starts trying to ****test and guilt trip you to become her only one. I've had to recently deal with two instances of this, and I had to split off from both women. I attempted to salvage it with a "just be friends," but their heads are compromised and they couldn't stop thinking about me with other women as long as we kept ****ing.

Grass aint always greener when you can get women. The only reason this is somewhat of a concern is because it makes having consistent plates tougher. I know we preach about keeping girls on the rotation but there's gotta be a limit.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You dont have to spin plates forever. U can do it until u find a girl who checks all/most of your boxes and wants sex more frequently than u or at least as much.

 

[HaleyBaron]

You dont have to spin plates forever. U can do it until u find a girl who checks all/most of your boxes and wants sex more frequently than u or at least as much.

That's the dream, isn't it. So far all the girls Im with do have a high sex drive. But they also want to keep me to themselves so they can **** me everyday. Im not about that.

 

[2Rocky]

For me it was meeting that girl who checked the boxes and then after a couple others, she still checked them.

I think if you are going to pull out of the fast lane, you have to feel like you could come out of the pits and get back into the race if you had too. "if this one doesn't work, I'll find another. it aint a fluke..." mindset