I feel you bro, this is coming from a guy who loves the beauty of science but who's suffered all the social consequences of this choice, especially girls wise.
I think during the time when you didn't have that many options, it was a tough but it's over. If your new environment actually allows you to have more interaction with women and you are actually a "catch", you will do MUCH MUCH better.
I'm talking from experience.
Two years ago, I was stuck with my small (although top ranking) engineering college back home, the female/male ratio was like 1/5, and more than half of the girls were not even slightly attractive. I felt like a piece of sh*t (NOT Da Shyt
), even the ugly girls who had "nothing" would treat me poorly.
Then I came to the States as a grad student at a 50/50 school. Althoughthe odds are still bad (absolutely ZERO chicks through "normal" academic activities), it's still a HUGE improvement, now at least I see/meet chicks on campus, bars, clubs, friends' parties. And I suddenly get all these positive vibes from chicks now that I never thought were possible. I finally realized that "hey, my market value is actually pretty decent".
My point is: if you are truely a worthy guy (meaning not just some AFC who blames his lack of success on the environment), negative environments CAN NOT hold you back forever, because the environment will not be "hostile" forever.
So good luck for your new start and keep on pimping!
