Yoursmasterfully
Don Juan
Here is a question for ya:
Why would a woman want to spend time alone with a man, who did not first enjoy being alone and spending time with himself?
A great psychological principle asserts that those qualities that we see in others, reinforces those qualities most prominent
in ourselves.
Another principle suggests that though we think in secret, our thoughts come to pass,
our environment is our mirror, our looking
glass.
Under a separate cover, I suggest that the
origin of rejection from outside of us, finds
its causes inside of us.
If you know that people handle you in the
same way that you handle yourself. If
you have a self that you love, that you
appreciate, a self that you can count on,
a self that has worth, ability, skill and
value; the world in general will reflect
these qualities back to you.
No one, absolutely no one, is as cruel to
us as we are to ourselves. We are unkind
first to ourselves, and we then transmit
these vibrations to others, and without
realizing why, people feel inclined to treat
us unkind.
That is why you gotta cultivate a deep and unconditional love for yourself, first. If
you attempt to find love anywhere except
within yourself - you will make yourself of
a manipulator.
Learn to practice feeling whole, perfect and
complete even though you are at home on a
Friday night with no company.
Look for the good in every disappointing experience with the woman of your desire.
Be of the conviction that the whole universe is conspiring for your good, and that though
the good may not immediately appear in a
circumstance, it is nonetheless good anyway.
Armed with this mental disposition, you distinguish yourself from the uninitiated.
You'll handle tests, disappointments, mixed-
signals with more poise than you ever dreamed possible.
You are a master, not one who gets mastered.
You are the player, not the played.
You are the one who leaves a sweet taste in
the mouth of every woman who encounters you,
believe it, and become magnetic.
If you are weak, you must care enough about
yourself to study the pathway to evolving
that weakness into strength.
If you are prone to attachments and insecurities, it is incumbent upon you to
discover the whys of your emptiness.
You gotta, you just gotta have deep love
and respect for yourself first.
In addition to challenge, mental stimulation,
a sense of humour, a woman wants a man who
can teach her something, she wants the company of a man who can assist in wiping
the sleep from her eyes.
To the exact degree and extent that a man rules over himself, over the impulses that
tug and pull at him from below his waist.
To the degree that a man controls his own
passions, impulses, insecurities, and in-
abilities; he may be astounded to discover
that to the very extent and degree, the
female will allow him authority and leeway
in her life.
Yet you must demonstrate that you have attained a degree of wholeness, a degree of
peace, and degree of contentment with being
a single man.
Why would a woman want to spend time alone with a man, who did not first enjoy being alone and spending time with himself?
A great psychological principle asserts that those qualities that we see in others, reinforces those qualities most prominent
in ourselves.
Another principle suggests that though we think in secret, our thoughts come to pass,
our environment is our mirror, our looking
glass.
Under a separate cover, I suggest that the
origin of rejection from outside of us, finds
its causes inside of us.
If you know that people handle you in the
same way that you handle yourself. If
you have a self that you love, that you
appreciate, a self that you can count on,
a self that has worth, ability, skill and
value; the world in general will reflect
these qualities back to you.
No one, absolutely no one, is as cruel to
us as we are to ourselves. We are unkind
first to ourselves, and we then transmit
these vibrations to others, and without
realizing why, people feel inclined to treat
us unkind.
That is why you gotta cultivate a deep and unconditional love for yourself, first. If
you attempt to find love anywhere except
within yourself - you will make yourself of
a manipulator.
Learn to practice feeling whole, perfect and
complete even though you are at home on a
Friday night with no company.
Look for the good in every disappointing experience with the woman of your desire.
Be of the conviction that the whole universe is conspiring for your good, and that though
the good may not immediately appear in a
circumstance, it is nonetheless good anyway.
Armed with this mental disposition, you distinguish yourself from the uninitiated.
You'll handle tests, disappointments, mixed-
signals with more poise than you ever dreamed possible.
You are a master, not one who gets mastered.
You are the player, not the played.
You are the one who leaves a sweet taste in
the mouth of every woman who encounters you,
believe it, and become magnetic.
If you are weak, you must care enough about
yourself to study the pathway to evolving
that weakness into strength.
If you are prone to attachments and insecurities, it is incumbent upon you to
discover the whys of your emptiness.
You gotta, you just gotta have deep love
and respect for yourself first.
In addition to challenge, mental stimulation,
a sense of humour, a woman wants a man who
can teach her something, she wants the company of a man who can assist in wiping
the sleep from her eyes.
To the exact degree and extent that a man rules over himself, over the impulses that
tug and pull at him from below his waist.
To the degree that a man controls his own
passions, impulses, insecurities, and in-
abilities; he may be astounded to discover
that to the very extent and degree, the
female will allow him authority and leeway
in her life.
Yet you must demonstrate that you have attained a degree of wholeness, a degree of
peace, and degree of contentment with being
a single man.