Thatsalotoffish
Don Juan
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Alright Sosuave, I dunno what happened but things just clicked for me and that was it, felt like old times.
Where I work basically I am about 90% positive there is this girl that digs me, but the problem was I never had the balls to like take it further, like I could talk and make her laugh and ****, even like hold eye contact but never anytin more.
Like for instance at the start of the day, when I was passin by her she smiled but skirted past me in the corridor like cause she was afraid to invade my space and I could tell she was nervous about it.
Anyways I had to like get past her at one point, now normally I would have just tried to slide on by and avoid contact, but instead as I was passing I gently put my hand on the small of her back and just like made the room for myself.
By just doing such a simple thing it gave me confidence in such a stupid way.
Anyway it comes lunch time and I discover I am on the same break as her (where I work the staff are split into 2 seperate breaks), anyways I am comfortable like just talking to her and stuff (as already stated) and in fact things were even more relaxed and fun (maybe I was just more confident I dunno).
To my point anyway, when I was standing up from the table to put away my glass and plate, I decided to actually just say 'Seeing as you are the woman around here you can go and return my dishes
' Basically she was like no no and then I just started walking off and then she like chased after me telling me to pick up my plate.
I just turn around and calmly walk up to her, and then I place my hands like on her shoulders and just turn her around and then pointing my finger over her shoulder to the plates I say go pick em up they are waiting, anyways she refuses then we do like playful pushing and shoving on each other as she attempts to drag me over to the table.
Anyways the rest of the day there is more of this banterous back and forth between us and my point is like NEVER before did I even get close to her personaly space, and by grabbin my balls and forcing myself into hers and taking the initiative, she has now got the sort of 'go ahead' and is able to return/initiate it with me, instead of being like nervous when passing me and skirting past. Like before there was humour and mebe mild flirting and ****, but theres suddenly more.
Like I know for instance if it ANYWHERE but work I would have been able to escalate further but that was not the case.
Just by doing this today, has made me realise how powerful kino can be, and it just felt so natural and right, I cant believe I hyped myself into such stupidty about not doing it earlier.
I am just wanting to ask you guys on Sosuave, did I do good? And what should be my next step be? I think I know the answer tbh ^^ but would like to hear how I could go about it
Where I work basically I am about 90% positive there is this girl that digs me, but the problem was I never had the balls to like take it further, like I could talk and make her laugh and ****, even like hold eye contact but never anytin more.
Like for instance at the start of the day, when I was passin by her she smiled but skirted past me in the corridor like cause she was afraid to invade my space and I could tell she was nervous about it.
Anyways I had to like get past her at one point, now normally I would have just tried to slide on by and avoid contact, but instead as I was passing I gently put my hand on the small of her back and just like made the room for myself.
By just doing such a simple thing it gave me confidence in such a stupid way.
Anyway it comes lunch time and I discover I am on the same break as her (where I work the staff are split into 2 seperate breaks), anyways I am comfortable like just talking to her and stuff (as already stated) and in fact things were even more relaxed and fun (maybe I was just more confident I dunno).
To my point anyway, when I was standing up from the table to put away my glass and plate, I decided to actually just say 'Seeing as you are the woman around here you can go and return my dishes
' Basically she was like no no and then I just started walking off and then she like chased after me telling me to pick up my plate.I just turn around and calmly walk up to her, and then I place my hands like on her shoulders and just turn her around and then pointing my finger over her shoulder to the plates I say go pick em up they are waiting, anyways she refuses then we do like playful pushing and shoving on each other as she attempts to drag me over to the table.
Anyways the rest of the day there is more of this banterous back and forth between us and my point is like NEVER before did I even get close to her personaly space, and by grabbin my balls and forcing myself into hers and taking the initiative, she has now got the sort of 'go ahead' and is able to return/initiate it with me, instead of being like nervous when passing me and skirting past. Like before there was humour and mebe mild flirting and ****, but theres suddenly more.
Like I know for instance if it ANYWHERE but work I would have been able to escalate further but that was not the case.
Just by doing this today, has made me realise how powerful kino can be, and it just felt so natural and right, I cant believe I hyped myself into such stupidty about not doing it earlier.
I am just wanting to ask you guys on Sosuave, did I do good? And what should be my next step be? I think I know the answer tbh ^^ but would like to hear how I could go about it
