Got rejected by a girl I reall like, feel like dropping contact with all girls

[Kal0051]

So I got rejected by this girl I really liked. Text her to meet up and all I get back is "I don't think we're hanging out again". WTF?!?

So now I feel like crap and just feel like dropping contact with the few girls I'm talking to and just going single for a while. This includes the girl I almost ****ed (who I never really liked anyways).

I don't know why I feel like this, she's just some girl. It doesn't make sense.

 

[oscarxp25]

I know how you feel, man. Same thing happened to me a month ago. DO NOT drop your contacts with other girls. If you do that you won't be able to distract your mind away from this one girl. Continue living your life and meet another pretty lady.

 

[alwayslead8821]

Yeah man don't take a step back.. Sometimes it's easy to want to say Fvck it, but just use it as a learning experience. Your skin is now harder even though it sucks.. Try and look through what you did wrong and fix them for the next time.
Start thinking was I to nice? Did I give her to much of the power? Was I not an alpha male and I didn't lead? Fix them and learn!

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

You pushed it all the way to a cold hard rejection. You should be proud. It could have been worse. You could have *****ed out.

 

[iliketennis]

pick yourself up

 

[Weezy]

It will pass, I just went through the same..

In a week you'll feel normal and be glad you didn't drop your other plates.

 

[Atlasoh]

go talk to other girls. you'll feel much better.

 

[2crudedudes]

what exactly did you do that prompted this response?

 

[Kal0051]

hmm, yeah was feeling a little bummed out this morning. I guess the reason is because out of all the girls I'm talking to this one was the only one I would date and possibly get into a relationship with (and to be honest I'd like to try being in a relationship). So kinda disappointed. Feeling a bit better right now, mainly because I ran into a girl I went out with a while ago (she disappeared for a bit over xmas and new years). We're going out next week so honestly that helped a bit.

 

[nismo-4]

OP, you were outcome dependent.

On a real, what you need to do is see if these other girls like you for who you are. That's why it's good to have a safety net.

I know, I'm not highly sought after by women. I'm trying to be successful.

 

[Captain]

You need to meet more women and have more options so you stop being affected by one rejection so much.

 

[Kal0051]

You need to meet more women and have more options so you stop being affected by one rejection so much.

lol, more like I need better options

the girls I am talking to aren't that great and honestly I don't like them that much. This doesn't count the girl I ran into yesterday that I'm seeing next week, I do kind of like her.