Got LJBF'd IN BED!!! Long but good

[Billasec]

Backround: I h/u with hb8 a year ago but i wouldnt commit to relationship, she was heartbroken, i then got with one of her bestfriends.

We didnt talk much till this past month when she started crying and sobbing at my house during a party to me about how all guys treat her like ****...

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Ok, so

I have a few drinks the other night, and the chica calls me up and wants to come to a party im at with her friends, i go pick them up and shes acting like shes my gf and **** (holding my hand, sitting next to me, on my lap and me and her are wispering **** to eachother) but i can tell shes jealous for another guy, a friend of mine, whos there with his gf.

After a while, we leave and go to another of my friends house with some girls. We get there and she just hops on my lap and puts my sweatshirt around her. 30 min later she gets up and asks where the bathroom is and looks over at me as she walks up the stairs, i wait a min and walk up after her. The second i walk up the stairs she jumps on me and squeezes me really tight. I give her the kiss-test( hair behind the ear) but she says she has to pee and then she wants to get outta her and she winks.

We leave and as we get into the car she says " lets jsut go to your house, im hungry"

we get there and she pushes it a little further " im gonna need some clothes to sleep in"

:cheer:


At this point, ure prob where i was, I THOUGHT I WAS IN

o dear was i wrong.

we pick out a movie and jump into bed and she resting her head on my chest for a bit. I cant count how many times i casually try and up the kino but it doesnt go anywhere but her cuddling and spooning with me.

So i switch it up and lie with my back facing towards her, DEF GOT HER ATTN.

She immedialty jumps on top of me and straddles me and after a min or two or her joking with me about how shes gonna rape me she says "Billa, you make such a good friend" and then she brings how how much she used to like me. and then goes on to say how mad she was when i h/u with her bestfriend


A bunch of her friends call her, and she tells them she's sleeping over my house and all of them ask her if she's drunk and if she knows what shes doing

so the cuddling pretty much went on the rest of the night and then i gave her a ride home in the morn, and i didnt get ****.

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I then see her last night, i call her to see what her plans and she tells me shell call me later to meet up

we eventually meet up, when i go to her house to pick up her and her friend.

She's still doing the same thing ( resting her head on my arm, holding my hand, brining up how much she used to like me and making fun of me for h/u with her best friend.

I then retialiated and made fun of her for h/u with certain guys and us making fun of each other goes on for a while.

We go to a friends house, and all the sudden she is all over some other dvde

SHE IS ON HER KNEES with her hands on the dudes thighsand her chin on his crouch, right in front of me :woo:

She goes upstairs with him for atleast an hour and a half, me being bored as fvck has a few drinks and chills.

One of my boys goes upstairs to check on them and they come back down....he said they were taling and laughing, i dunno what to believie.

But they come back down and i get up a little later to leave and she starts begging me for a ride home.

Her and her friend get in, thinking i am drunk (wtf????) and the whole time i am driving she is GRILLING ME LIKE SHE GEORGE FOREMAN, just starring at me point blank with a silly ass smile.

I drop her off at home and its done...


Is this girl just trying to get revenge on me?

She is very sincere girl, def not an attention *****, but from the crying episode she def is emotional.

I dont know what to do about this, i had my chance last yr, but i didnt want a LTR
but now shes all i can think about.

 

[funkybuddha]

Man..there's a whole bunch of red flags there. If you really want her...then ask her wtf is going on. She gives you a LJBF schpeel..you're outta there. While you are trying to do this..keep your options open man...don't get hung up on one chic just because she's all over you. Call her bluffs as well..and see where it goes.

 

[Billasec]

lotta views, anyone else got input?

 

[Viking25]

Don't waste another minute with this ho!..

 

[sexysuave]

Yeah, I'm with you. I wouldn't waste any time with her. First of all, you should of really just tried to kiss her or do something when she was in your bed man. I'm not sure exactly how she was ignoring your tests, but sometimes you just gotta go for it and kiss her no matter what.

I think that was one of these situations. Here's what I'd do: Make it fairly soon so that you guys hang out again, 1 ON 1! and then end up at your house on your bed again, offer some classy drinks if she wants, if not, doesn't matter. Spend a while, FLIRT with her, tease her, try to build up sexual tension. Then at one point, try the kiss test or something, but even if you still dont' think confidently about it, move in CONFIDENTLY and kiss her anyways. Then just back of for a little momment and act like nothing happened. After a minute or so, go in and kiss her again, a little bit longer this time. DO NOT GET EMOTIONAL and tell her how you like her. Proceed with this, advancing further and further. Even if everything goes just perfect, do not ask her to be your girflriend or any such thing. Just keep being kool about everything and see her everynow and then and still be physical with her, but also see other girls on your own time. IF/WHEN she asks you to be her boyfriend or suggest somethign like that, make her your girl.

DO NOT keep seeing this girl as a FRIEND. Make physical moves on her no matter what. If she says "I dont' wanna loose you, but I just wanna be friends" you can respond with "hey, I'll be honest with you, I have a lot of friends, you can be my friend if you choose, but I am NOT going to guarantee you that I will not make physical passes at you. So the balls in your court, see ya." Try that response.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Originally posted by Billasec
...She is very sincere girl, def not an attention *****,

huh??? sure, it's worse than that, but at least that

sincere, hell! i might add

but now shes all i can think about.

she has you so played
now she can even begin reeling in another one in front of you!

you say (in effect) "wtf???" in your head but yet you still do the AFC-who-can-be-walked-on routine in practice

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

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[OneArmDeeJay]

Your Post Subject Title is misleading.

I thought I was going to read about a guy who got with a(n) LJBF not got played by one.

Listen homie you are her pawn nothin to it.

If I was in your situation, after a couple of tries trying to make out or if I wanted sex and tried and she wasn't having it.

I would of kicked the ho out. I would have told her if you here to play games then leave because I'm nobody's pawn.

And bro, why the h3ll would you stay at the party and gave her a ride home after you saw her with her chin on some dude's nuts right in front of you?

She did it right in front of you and you watched and not only did you watched you waited an 1hr and half later for them to finish and then drop her and her friend off.

Yeah she was smiling at you in the car all right, because she can’t believe how much power she has over you. She smiling cause she can play you like a fiddle and suck some dude off in front of your face and you still come back like a loyal dog.

Hahahha


You are just as bad as Juan Don. You two must be related or the same person.

Get rid of her and find some other girls.

 

[MindOverMatter]

SHE IS ON HER KNEES with her hands on the dudes thighsand her chin on his crouch, right in front of me

She goes upstairs with him for atleast an hour and a half, me being bored as fvck has a few drinks and chills.

but now shes all i can think about.

Read those two quotes, and try to figure out what's wrong with this picture. For all you know, they could have been laughing and talking after she gave him the bl0wjob of the year (then again, it's not like she threw herself at his nuts, right?)

If you just want to f*ck her, go for it. If you want a girlfriend, keep looking.

 

[Billasec]

Today i checked my voicemail and found out she left me a message shortly after i dropped her off, she sounded kinda sad, and she wanted me to call her back so we can "talk"


im thinkn you guys are right, im gonna make plans with her this weekend to hang out one vs. one and get at her sexually.

If it doesnt work out, then next!

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by Billasec
Backround: I h/u with hb8 a year ago but i wouldnt commit to relationship, she was heartbroken, i then got with one of her bestfriends.

We didnt talk much till this past month when she started crying and sobbing at my house during a party to me about how all guys treat her like ****...

...................................................................


Ok, so

I have a few drinks the other night, and the chica calls me up and wants to come to a party im at with her friends, i go pick them up and shes acting like shes my gf and **** (holding my hand, sitting next to me, on my lap and me and her are wispering **** to eachother) but i can tell shes jealous for another guy, a friend of mine, whos there with his gf.

After a while, we leave and go to another of my friends house with some girls. We get there and she just hops on my lap and puts my sweatshirt around her. 30 min later she gets up and asks where the bathroom is and looks over at me as she walks up the stairs, i wait a min and walk up after her. The second i walk up the stairs she jumps on me and squeezes me really tight. I give her the kiss-test( hair behind the ear) but she says she has to pee and then she wants to get outta her and she winks.

We leave and as we get into the car she says " lets jsut go to your house, im hungry"

we get there and she pushes it a little further " im gonna need some clothes to sleep in"

:cheer:


At this point, ure prob where i was, I THOUGHT I WAS IN

o dear was i wrong.

we pick out a movie and jump into bed and she resting her head on my chest for a bit. I cant count how many times i casually try and up the kino but it doesnt go anywhere but her cuddling and spooning with me.

So i switch it up and lie with my back facing towards her, DEF GOT HER ATTN.

She immedialty jumps on top of me and straddles me and after a min or two or her joking with me about how shes gonna rape me she says "Billa, you make such a good friend" and then she brings how how much she used to like me. and then goes on to say how mad she was when i h/u with her bestfriend


A bunch of her friends call her, and she tells them she's sleeping over my house and all of them ask her if she's drunk and if she knows what shes doing

so the cuddling pretty much went on the rest of the night and then i gave her a ride home in the morn, and i didnt get ****.

...........................................................

I then see her last night, i call her to see what her plans and she tells me shell call me later to meet up

we eventually meet up, when i go to her house to pick up her and her friend.

She's still doing the same thing ( resting her head on my arm, holding my hand, brining up how much she used to like me and making fun of me for h/u with her best friend.

I then retialiated and made fun of her for h/u with certain guys and us making fun of each other goes on for a while.

We go to a friends house, and all the sudden she is all over some other dvde

SHE IS ON HER KNEES with her hands on the dudes thighsand her chin on his crouch, right in front of me :woo:

She goes upstairs with him for atleast an hour and a half, me being bored as fvck has a few drinks and chills.

One of my boys goes upstairs to check on them and they come back down....he said they were taling and laughing, i dunno what to believie.

But they come back down and i get up a little later to leave and she starts begging me for a ride home.

Her and her friend get in, thinking i am drunk (wtf????) and the whole time i am driving she is GRILLING ME LIKE SHE GEORGE FOREMAN, just starring at me point blank with a silly ass smile.

I drop her off at home and its done...


Is this girl just trying to get revenge on me?

She is very sincere girl, def not an attention *****, but from the crying episode she def is emotional.

I dont know what to do about this, i had my chance last yr, but i didnt want a LTR
but now shes all i can think about.

Well honestly man you fu*ked up...now you have hope if your f*ck buddy situation with turns into something more...

 

[MackJr]

Originally posted by Billasec
Today i checked my voicemail and found out she left me a message shortly after i dropped her off, she sounded kinda sad, and she wanted me to call her back so we can "talk"


im thinkn you guys are right, im gonna make plans with her this weekend to hang out one vs. one and get at her sexually.

If it doesnt work out, then next!

I don't think this is going to work. if she wants to "talk", she's trying to distance herself from you.

I'm not sure what to do, and I'd ask the more experienced DJs for help, but I think you have to say something like, "no talking we do or we do not, there is no talk."

 

[Luveno]

I suggest that you move in and make out with this girl next time she's over your house in your bed.

If she constantly refuses, it means she's using you for an emotional tampon and a free drive - in other words, she doesn't respect you. This gives you complete freedom to kick her out of your place right at that instant.

Would you be a good host to someone who obviously doesn't respect you? No. You wouldn't. You'd remove them from your home.

You don't want this girl as a girlfriend anyway. Heck, she had her chin on some stranger's balls in public. Elegant women do not do that. She is a harlot.


If she CONSTANTLY refuses your advances, I would KICK HER OUT of your house and never associate with her again. It's stupid to kick a dead horse.

 

[milkman]

Originally posted by Luveno
I suggest that you move in and make out with this girl next time she's over your house in your bed.

Without having read anything else in this thread, this sounds to be good advise.

 

[GropeDope]

Damn bro she had her head on your friggin chest in bed...something obviously stopped you from moving in to kiss her, or you would have done it right there and seen what happens. I know you say you tried kino and it didn't lead anywhere but maybe you needed to just full on kiss her. I dunno...for all you know she was waiting for you to try something like that so she could pull back and reject you but you were afraid to try. So I don't know what to tell you. Something didn't feel right to you so you just didn't go for it at that point.

But then you pull a fast one on her as a test, and she responds by f*ckin "play straddling you" and making comments like "I'm gonna rape you" and you don't take advantage of these key moments?? It's no wonder she called you a friend right after that.

She threw herself at you subtly without trying to act like a total slut about it, and somehow you didn't catch the signs or something. Maybe it was different than how I'm interpreting what you wrote, but it sounds like you rejected physically rejected her so she verbally rejected you back.

At this point she probably doesn't see you as anything but a friend now. I'm sure you will have another chance with her, but don't be surprised if you end up getting rejected at this point. I dunno what to tell you.

That's my opinion

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Move on bro for your sakes.

 

[GropeDope]

I just realized he's only 16 so he can't be dealing with a girl older than him.

They're really stupid and easy at that age so he probably will have another shot.

 

[Billasec]

Re: Billasec Listen up.

Originally posted by Jcrew
Billasec-

This week you are going to be "the man." Why? Because you are not going to get the runaround any longer. You are going to put a stop to her manipulative ways.

This is what your going to do.

Go out with her again. But this time when you snuggle with her, kiss her on the cheek or head. Watch her reaction.
If her reaction is positive than move in for the kill.
If her reaction is negative then get up from the couch and say " I'm leaving. I'm not going to put up with this anymore."
She will say "What?"
Then say, "I really like you and all you want to do is toy with me, I'm outta here!"

The old adage is..."People want what they cant have." The moment she senses you are walking out on her she will panic.
People fear loss. Its a brilliant sales skill that was taught to me 5 years ago and it works everytime. I'm a sucker for it too. You are basically showing her you dont need her.

I have tryed his method many times when Im being teased by a woman and I have had every single woman pull me back in and the clothes come off. Powerful stuff. Use it on her.


Jcrew

WOW, your right on target, i didnt push the game as far as i could have. I dont think at any point that night was i uncomfterble or akward. I NEED TO STEP OUT OF THAT BOUNDRY AND MAN THE FvCK UP.