Got HB8.5's number in grocery store. Here's how...

JPFromTally

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I've been harping about using casual conversation starters to get it started with women. This is is a perfect example.

I'm at the grocery store and I see this really cute girl in the bread aisle. She passes by and her asss looks so nice and tight - she's got kind of a dancer's body which I really like except she's about 5'7" - and gorgeous blue eyes.

So a little later I'm waiting to order some cold cuts and she pulls her cart up next to me. I look in her cart and she's got some organic milk and I look at her and then point to her cart and say, "What kind of milk is that? I've never heard of organic milk."

She says, "Oh, it's actually for my roommate. I usually just drink soy milk."

I say with a little smile, "What's wrong with just regular cow milk?"

She says, "Well soy is a lot sweeter and I love it with my cereal." She proceeds to tell me she's a cereal junkie and that she's a junior in college, bla, bla, bla, blabidi, bla.

After about 6 or 7 minutes and her not telling me she has a boyfriend (remember, this is key!) I use my tried and true line, "It's fun talking to you but I've gotta run. Give me your number so we can hang out." I say this in a no big deal manner while whipping out my cell phone. She proceeds to give it to me and I smile and say something like, "Easy on those Frosted Flakes!" She giggles and says, "They're Special K!" I say, "Yeah, sure. You're just gonna go home and dump sugar all over them!" She's giggling the whole time.

You see how easy that is? No cheesy lines like "Are you single?" or "I saw you from across the room and wanted to see if you were as interesting as you are beautiful" or "Do you like magic?" or anything like that.

Talk to her like she's a normal human being and then follow up. Just keep practicing at it.
 

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This is how I work. Nothing is pre-determined, I just go in calm and casual, nothing stupid or cheesy, and let the convo flow.

Good post.
 

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JPFromTally said:
After about 6 or 7 minutes and her not telling me she has a boyfriend (remember, this is key!)

So true, that basically states her interest level right there.

Don't you love it when girls actually have a boyfriend and don't tell you about him though:)
 

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JPFromTally said:
I've been harping about using casual conversation starters to get it started with women. This is is a perfect example.

I'm at the grocery store and I see this really cute girl in the bread aisle. She passes by and her asss looks so nice and tight - she's got kind of a dancer's body which I really like except she's about 5'7" - and gorgeous blue eyes.

So a little later I'm waiting to order some cold cuts and she pulls her cart up next to me. I look in her cart and she's got some organic milk and I look at her and then point to her cart and say, "What kind of milk is that? I've never heard of organic milk."

She says, "Oh, it's actually for my roommate. I usually just drink soy milk."

I say with a little smile, "What's wrong with just regular cow milk?"

She says, "Well soy is a lot sweeter and I love it with my cereal." She proceeds to tell me she's a cereal junkie and that she's a junior in college, bla, bla, bla, blabidi, bla.

After about 6 or 7 minutes and her not telling me she has a boyfriend (remember, this is key!) I use my tried and true line, "It's fun talking to you but I've gotta run. Give me your number so we can hang out." I say this in a no big deal manner while whipping out my cell phone. She proceeds to give it to me and I smile and say something like, "Easy on those Frosted Flakes!" She giggles and says, "They're Special K!" I say, "Yeah, sure. You're just gonna go home and dump sugar all over them!" She's giggling the whole time.

You see how easy that is? No cheesy lines like "Are you single?" or "I saw you from across the room and wanted to see if you were as interesting as you are beautiful" or "Do you like magic?" or anything like that.

Talk to her like she's a normal human being and then follow up. Just keep practicing at it.
Nice work man. Thumbs up with the C&F about the frosted flakes.

How long did you spend with her? Cause if its a short interaction, what you did was perfect, but if it was any longer than 10 mins i wouldn't have asked for the number as i was leaving.
 

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Nice

I prefer this kind of approach too.

Good luck mate.

Keep us updated.

JJ
 

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:rockon: Big props JP. :up: Some people around here need to get this drilled into their heads (casual convos).









oh and uhhh btw...FSU sucks! Sorry, had to get that in there. Big Gator fan here. haha!
 

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This is what I like to see,no beating around the bush or nothing,just to the point and out. Congrats!
 

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That's pretty smooth JP. It's Damn Smooth. As a matter of fact, I'm getting kinda.......................... :crackup:

Just fukkin with cha! Good work.
 

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I met my girlfriend in a supermarket as well.

She was a cashier, and still is. In the summer I go for a run and always drive there to buy a fruit shake afterwards.
Right from the first day I noticed her. nice tight ass in the spandex pants ;)
blonde hair, 5'6, the works...
I kept noticing her watching me whenever I came in(i wear wife-beaters, so it shows off my sexy biceps), so I figured what the heck, and decided to use her aisle for once.
So I get up there and Wuuut, the lady infront of me has about 10 bottles of diet coke...I crack some stupid joke "jesus, going on a diet?" that got them both laughing.
So I get up to my turn and start chatting, like about her work and whether they make her work nights and weekends(this is great, because if a girl's been working there awhile then working nights and weekends reallly reallly REALLY pisses them off..and when a girl's pissed about something, she's happy to talk about it), so she started like lecturing me about why she hates the store. I just stand there making EC and nodding, letting her rant. She's still holding my Fruit shake at this point, her task at hand completely forgotten in her tirade about work...I say kinda wryly "so u gonna let me have my drink or do u want me to take your shift?" for some reason she laughed...and I knew it was time to eject: we'd established rapport, she knew next to nothing about me aside from that im a cool guy, and i got her emotions going...
Just as she's putting the shake in a bag, i say "Hey, tell ya what..what's your cell number?(i noticed it beside the register) next time you don't work saturday, ill call ya!" that was another joke, b/c in her rant she said she works all day saturday. so she gave me her number and i called her the friday(it was a wednesday at the time)

We've been going out for 3 months now :)
 

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asdfghjkl said:
Don't you love it when girls actually have a boyfriend and don't tell you about him though:)

Just because you have a car, does that mean you wont find a good deal on a better one and trade in the old one?
 

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Love it man too easy same with quicksilver both very good nice and simple and didn't break a sweat this is what more of us need to do just be casual.
 

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Nicely done JP :up:
Grocery stores and supermarkets are great spots, even just to practice.

Quiksilver said:
and when a girl's pissed about something, she's happy to talk about it
I literally laughed out loud when I read this. :crackup:
 

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I make it a habit to just mention something casual to every girl I see. Sometimes, a conversation develops... sometimes not. No big deal.
 

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A man after my own heart. I also use situation conversation starters. It just feels so much more natural and open than canned pickup lines. Believe me, girls DO appreciate a genuine approach rather than one with a canned routine. They can smell the difference.
 

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whats the flakage like for the numbers you get like this? I find it can be high enough as you don't talk to them for that much time. I get real numbers but they either never return a call afterwards or respond for a short while but don't end up going on a date.
 
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