Got a phone call tonight.

[midwestguy]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68718

Remember that soccer gal I said I liked? Well tonight I get a call from her cell and its a guy claiming to be her bf. Lindsay doesnt date I know, but I think she got one of her friends to call me and try to scare me off. He told me to leave his girl alone and kept cussing at me saying he would beat my asss and come to my work. I told him I got a new job and he said he would find out where I live and beat me asss. I asked him some questions that kinda threw him off so I doubt that he is really her bf. Regardless that was a classless act by Lin. He tried sounding all big bad and everyhing trying to scare me. Even if she had a bf why did she agree to a date with me then? Means shes not a honest person. What happens if someone did come to kick my asss?

 

[Mojo604]

Carry protection. And keep a baseball bat handy near your front door. just in case. I doubt this chump will come after you though.

 

[spukee]

Dude, no one's going to come kick your ass

You lost the girl though, I can tell you that much. Just chalk it up to experience, and let it go - there are a million other girls in your area that are more worth your while than this one.

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by Mojo604
Carry protection. And keep a baseball bat handy near your front door. just in case. I doubt this chump will come after you though.

Like I said She doesnt have bf cause I got that from other sources. He did say his name was Matt and Lin knows the Qbs on the team she said so I think she just had a guy friend call me in order to scare me. Also she said before on the phone Im not her type cause she said she likes sports. Is she a jock and only hangsout withher soccer mates and jocks? That statement hurt my feelings. Made me feel worthless all because I dont fit in.

 

[HKgunslinger]

Call the dude again, or find out some way to get in contact with him. DO IT! Tell him you want to talk with him, explain to him your side of what happened and that you knew nothing of her having a BF and that you ain't like that playing on someone else's turf and how that's not cool etc.

If he's really her boyfriend, he will respect you for straightening out this misunderstanding with him, and you won't have to worry about him beating your as, **** you might even make a new friend. It will come back on Lin's head and she will be in a world of **** for acting like a stupid c#nt.

If he's NOT her boyfriend, he will probably BS around to protect her and you can still let him know that the way she is acting is NOT acceptable behavior for either of you.

Either way, the point is to show Miss B!tch that you are more powerful than her and that her cheap, slimy tactics are bull**** and you see right through it! Tell her off, to her face if possible. Then cease to show any interest in her forever more. Maybe she will come to you, play hard to get like you still haven't forgiven her of her bull****, etc. Never let her imagine she has ANY power.

Worst that happens is you walk away with your self-respect intact.

'Slinger

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by HKgunslinger
Call the dude again, or find out some way to get in contact with him. DO IT! Tell him you want to talk with him, explain to him your side of what happened and that you knew nothing of her having a BF and that you ain't like that playing on someone else's turf and how that's not cool etc.

If he's really her boyfriend, he will respect you for straightening out this misunderstanding with him, and you won't have to worry about him beating your as, **** you might even make a new friend. It will come back on Lin's head and she will be in a world of **** for acting like a stupid c#nt.

If he's NOT her boyfriend, he will probably BS around to protect her and you can still let him know that the way she is acting is NOT acceptable behavior for either of you.

Either way, the point is to show Miss B!tch that you are more powerful than her and that her cheap, slimy tactics are bull**** and you see right through it! Tell her off, to her face if possible. Then cease to show any interest in her forever more. Maybe she will come to you, play hard to get like you still haven't forgiven her of her bull****, etc. Never let her imagine she has ANY power.

Worst that happens is you walk away with your self-respect intact.

'Slinger

or getting my ass kicked. Again I dont think hes her bf. Just a male friend cause she doesnt date or have a bf. Regardless why would she have a male do that? I tried explaining my side and he kept butting in and wouldnt let me finish and was very rude and ignorant. also I asked him a couple questions that threw him off so that also gave me a red flag he was just bull****ting me. Your right though about telling her off. She told me a couple weeks ago when I called her about me getting a new job she was friendly and I asked her if we could hang out sometime when shes in town and she said maybe and to call her in May. Is she Bi polar or something? I thought I heard her in the background. I called her cell back again to see if I could talk to that guy and left a message but she never returned my call. I dont work at that place anymore so I wont see her this summer when shes back in town from school but where I used to work is not far from my house and she doesnt live far from me. What would happen if Lin really did have her dad, brother or a friend come to my house to beat me? Should I file charges? If I ever see her around what should I tell her? Should I call her a *****?

 

[tmpgstx]

This is an a typical drama queen/AW case.

She doesn't have a boyfriend per se because she is most likely sleeping with more than one person - you know .. the friends with benefits thing? Typical of AWs.

He is not her BF .. and wouldn't have let him talk to me like that. I would've ripped him a new ass.

I wouldn't waste your time with that sorry bytch. I know it's hard when you like someone but realize there are alot of 'messed' up people out there with hangups, insecurites - you name it.

She did a very immature/childish act in having that moron call you. You'd think she was still in high school or something? Maybe she is?

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
This is an a typical drama queen/AW case.

She doesn't have a boyfriend per se because she is most likely sleeping with more than one person - you know .. the friends with benefits thing? Typical of AWs.

He is not her BF .. and wouldn't have let him talk to me like that. I would've ripped him a new ass.

I wouldn't waste your time with that sorry bytch. I know it's hard when you like someone but realize there are alot of 'messed' up people out there with hangups, insecurites - you name it.

She did a very immature/childish act in having that moron call you. You'd think she was still in high school or something? Maybe she is?

Will be 21 and is a goalie for a university. Cute girl. Strange cause shes a very polite person at work and very friendly, but when it comes to wanting to go out it sounds like shes not good at all with relationships. Seems like she was a nice person, but when I wanted to date her she turned sour fast. I dont know why. Why would she turn on me like that?

 

[tmpgstx]

You really do need some more experience with girls i think.

She turned on you like that because she's flakey. AWs are always really nice. They often have an act, and have it down to a tee.

If when talking to her at work, did her actions seemed somewhat forced? Were her smiles geniune? The reason i say is because they literally have a script (like insert smile here) etc. Stay away from these types Dawg .. seriously. They'll only get you into trouble .. trouble you don't need.

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
You really do need some more experience with girls i think.

She turned on you like that because she's flakey. AWs are always really nice. They often have an act, and have it down to a tee.

If when talking to her at work, did her actions seemed somewhat forced? Were her smiles geniune? The reason i say is because they literally have a script (like insert smile here) etc. Stay away from these types Dawg .. seriously. They'll only get you into trouble .. trouble you don't need.

She was friendly. She agreed to go ut with me, but then would give excuses, shes busy also she didnt want to give her number to me and said she would promise to call me. She is flirty sometimes too with me.

 

[tmpgstx]

Ok .. yeah .. typical AW. Read Pooks post in the DJ Bible about these types. He nailed it on the head.

I had a very similiar situation .. she said she would go out, would call .. same thing, but when push came to shove .. she flaked out, and it wasn't a test or anything either.

She just wanted another 'admirer' to her collection and when i called her on it, she blew up in my face, got all defensive.

Now .. get this .. another guy is doing exactly and going thru exactly right now with her as i was. She lured him in, and now she know she's got him .. can play with his emotions, look all wanted to other girls by this guy and her other 'admirers' etc.

It really is a deep seeded problem .. many AWs have serious personal issues ..

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Ok .. yeah .. typical AW. Read Pooks post in the DJ Bible about these types. He nailed it on the head.

I had a very similiar situation .. she said she would go out, would call .. same thing, but when put came to shove .. she flaked out, and it wasn't a test or anything either.

She just wanted another 'admirer' to her collection and when i called her on it, she blew up in my face, got all defensive.

Now .. get this .. another guy is doing exactly and going thru exactly right now with her as i was. She lured him in, and now she know she's got him .. can play with his emotions, look all wanted to other girls by this guy and her other 'admirers' etc.

It really is a deep seeded problem .. many AWs have serious personal issues ..

If I saw her right now Id call her a ***** to her face. what are some ways to get back at her?

 

[tmpgstx]

Oh .. and i was going to say .. they don't want a relationship with a serious guy. For one, they don't feel worthy of it, and for another it threatens their existence as an AW. They know the serious guy wouldn't like all of her 'guy' friends etc.

The way to get back at her is not giving her attention ..

The one in my situation i no longer give attention, but she trys to get me to smile back at her .. gives me a real sexy look and smile when she sees me now.

She's looking for my acceptance. She does it right in front of the other guys who are following her around like puppies .. it's really odd to watch .. can't believe i let myself fall for that.

Usually AWs are very attractive. This one is a 10. She's very alluring, talks a great talk every time etc.

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Oh .. and i was going to say .. they don't want a relationship with a serious guy. For one, they don't feel worthy of it, and for another it threatens their existence as an AW. They know the serious guy wouldn't like all of her 'guy' friends etc.

The way to get back at her is not giving her attention ..

The one in my situation i no longer give attention, but she trys to get me to smile back at her .. gives me a real sexy look and smile when she sees me now.

She's looking for my acceptance. She does it right in front of the other guys who are following her around like puppies .. it's really odd to watch .. can't believe i let myself fall for that.

Usually AWs are very attractive. This one is a 10. She's very alluring, talks a great talk every time etc.

Lin is pretty hot too.

 

[tmpgstx]

Oh yeah .. but they THRIVE on attention.

A couple of key things i've noticed about AWs are:

1) They're always doing something to change their appearance, namely with the hair - like dying it once a month etc. They'll also get the new 'rad' cuts that they see in magazines.

2) They'll only sleep with the male equivalent of an AW - that is a guy who thrives on attention from girls also.

3) Many are in sports. They may enjoy the sport, but more importantly they know it will keep them in shape .. i mean afterall, their image is everything

4) Many would rather die than gain 15lbs. Their weight is that much of an issue, because again .. they'll feel they won't be wanted.

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Oh yeah .. but they THRIVE on attention.

A couple of key things i've noticed about AWs are:

1) They're always doing something to change their appearance, namely with the hair - like dying it once a month etc. They'll also get the new 'rad' cuts that they see in magazines.

2) They'll only sleep with the male equivalent of an AW - that is a guy who thrives on attention from girls also.

3) Many are in sports. They may enjoy the sport, but more importantly they know it will keep them in shape .. i mean afterall, their image is everything

4) Many would rather die than gain 15lbs. Their weight is that much of an issue, because again .. they'll feel they won't be wanted.

She never changes her hair. Here is a pic of her. Kinda old though from the newspaper site.

http://prepsports3.stltoday.com/Soc...s3/images/02GSCCJSCW0150 Lindsay Ringkamp.jpg

 

[ketostix]

Yeah she's a cvnt. She isn't interested in you, but doesn't have a good reason not to be so probably in her delusional female mind she rationalized by having this AFC call you she was letting you down easy . The good news is she's not all that hot anyway. She's definitely an AW, they're all similar but not necessarily identical. That guy's not going to do anything.

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by ketostix
Yeah she's a cvnt. She isn't interested in you, but doesn't have a good reason not to be so probably in her delusional female mind she rationalized by having this AFC call you she was letting you down easy . The good news is she's not all that hot anyway. She's definitely an AW, they're all similar but not necessarily identical. That guy's not going to do anything.

If he doesn should I call the police?

 

[tmpgstx]

Hmm .. yeah she is pretty hot.

Does she have any tats? Ankle, shoulder?

 

[midwestguy]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Hmm .. yeah she is pretty hot.

Does she have any tats? Ankle, shoulder?

Average size. Nice hair and cute smile too! At first when she said she would go out and do something with me I felt happy and looked forward going into work which is rare for me. Felt really good. Of course I got a new job coming up and shes up in school. Now I feel like sh*t after tonight. At work her last day she said she didnt like to date at work and said I wasnt her type. I wanted to punch the wall and throw things but then i would have gotten fired. Why did she turn on me?