Good Story - What's my next move?

[dji_21]

Had class with this girl for 2 weeks(now class is over). We worked together alot and she was really into me. One day I asked for her e-mail, she grabbed a pad and wrote it down and turned red and started stuttering, saying she checks it everyday. Only bad thing I did was I joked that I'd email her in a couple months (because we're both stupid busy till then- she knows that, but I wanted to try to point out my intention was personal in nature)

I think other people heard me ask - it was real alpha male. We live pretty far away, but I dont't really care about that.

What do I do now? I know Im going to keep the e-mail short, but should I just say I enjoyed having class with her and ask for her number? Or should I tell her I'm curious if she wanted to go out?

Any thoughts would be great.

 

[CarlitosWay]

Had class with this girl for 2 weeks(now class is over). We worked together alot and she was really into me. One day I asked for her e-mail, she grabbed a pad and wrote it down and turned red and started stuttering, saying she checks it everyday. Only bad thing I did was I joked that I'd email her in a couple months (because we're both stupid busy till then- she knows that, but I wanted to try to point out my intention was personal in nature)

I think other people heard me ask - it was real alpha male. We live pretty far away, but I dont't really care about that.

What do I do now? I know Im going to keep the e-mail short, but should I just say I enjoyed having class with her and ask for her number? Or should I tell her I'm curious if she wanted to go out?

Any thoughts would be great.

Wtf do you want to be with a woman or do you want a long distance pen pal? I mean Skype her at least. Email "?!?! C'mon what is this 1995? Talk to her on a phone, send an email make up an excuse say "I don't use my email really".

Don't just ask for her number, you have to deliver it right. "Yeah I'm not busy this night, we can chat over the phone for a bit, sweetie what's your number?"

Talk about her day, tease her about funny stuff. Just get her to open up. Find out what her fav foods are, where she would like to travel to, her dreams and all that kind of jazz. Find out what she's passionate about and what makes her tick. To get to know her inner essence, alongside building sexual attraction, is one of the most powerful things you can do.

 

[runner83]

I sense this could easily turn into a meaningless pen pal thing if you're not careful.

If she lives a long way away, I'd suggest you minimize your time investment for this one.

But, if you want her, you need to get her number. And remember not to spend too much time on the phone!

 

[dji_21]

Thanks for the advice. She's a good one... I normally wouldn't try a long distance thing like this but...

I'm not going to try to be ****y or funny in the e-mail, just straight to teh point... but how should I ask for the number? How long should I wait

 

[runner83]

It's not like phone numbers are top secret information. Just ask for it.

If she was into you and wants to take it any further, she'll give it to you. If not, it'll save you a lot of wasted time down the track.

 

[L B]

If you know she's into you, just pick an activity and ask her to join you through email. If she replies with yes, then you're golden. Get her number and proceed. If no, then you just saved yourself a lot of time and energy.

I did this a lot when I was in college, and it worked out very well for me.