Good looking and nice...
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MascaraSnake
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Good looking with a degree of arrogance (maybe not to the exaggerated level of C and F) usually works the best. (And yes, I've had it both ways.)
tony-montana
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it only helps at the start. but your personality has to finish it off. if you ain't gone one you're doomed.
MascaraSnake
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I'm a marginally good looking guy (as in I have to have the right haircut, shave, clothes, etc. if I want to have any chance of looking good). Throughout high school I had no clue how to use body language (I'd openly stare at girls I liked), sometimes went days without bathing or shaving, and had the whole drama club convinced I was the reincarnation of Jeffery Dahmer.snowdog said:
If I came back from all of that and got laid at 20, you can do it, man...I just talk to everyone and have an endlessly sarcastic sense of humor.
If you didn't get laid yet so why are you dishing out advice that being nice and good looking is the key to get laid??!! This is the kind of crap (no offence) that is being spewed to nice guys by HB's, to make AFC's feel better about themselves. Then those HB's go to a club and get picked up by a smooth talking C&F playa who takes them to the back of the alley for a BJ before taking them home.snowdog said:
C&F has many purposes that will elevate your game beyond looks.
Women like Men with confidence and the right mix of C&F will help to convey that message. It shows that you ain't afraid of her, you make her feel good in your presence and you actually have some type of personality. A good sense of humor also shows that you are a hip guy that likes to have a good time, has some intelligence and doesn't take himself too seriously.
Your looks will take you to a certain distance but combine that with a killer personality, it will take you much farther.
The Deacon
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You can be good-looking and nice and get some. The answer doesn't lie in being "ALPHA," really. It just requires a little balls from time to time. (Being alpha doesn't hurt your chances at all though).
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It's possible to be good looking, ****y and nice...
If you are ****y, that doesn't mean you are arrogant or not a gentleman, it means you have a sense of humour and self-respect/belief.
If you are ****y, that doesn't mean you are arrogant or not a gentleman, it means you have a sense of humour and self-respect/belief.
Good looking and nice is my style. I tried ****y/funny for a long time, but it didn't go over well at all. The advice I got here was that if you are too good looking, if you are ****y on top of that, it just comes off as really arrogant.
Which is still a problem for me, being perceived as arrogant.
Which is still a problem for me, being perceived as arrogant.
Check out my give freely thread which talks about how there is 2 types of nice.
tsmith2334
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+1The Deacon said:
We should be advocating nice behavior on SoSuave. It actually works.
Uh... dude, I didn't make the first post. So I don't know why you're talking sh*t to me now. If you read my post carefully you'll come to the conclusion that I disagree with that statement as well.DJDamage said:
EDIT: Haha, now I understand. The starter of this thread is called snowman. There's a difference in a man and a dog, dude. haha
Thanks man, I'm well on my way. Check out the link in my sig.
Oops my badsnowdog said:Uh... dude, I didn't make the first post. So I don't know why you're talking sh*t to me now. If you read my post carefully you'll come to the conclusion that I disagree with that statement as well.
EDIT: Haha, now I understand. The starter of this thread is called snowman. There's a difference in a man and a dog, dude. haha