good kiss close?

[slickjesse]

i work with a HB9. for about the past month and a half we always joke about how we're married (due to a customer thinking we were). we started hanging out, always in kind of a party setting but she would get tons of phone calls and stick with me so i know she was ditching others to spend time with me. plus guys would come up all the time and say "hey you never call me" and she calls me all the time. well pretty soon everyone at work thinks we're going out. in fact we've just hung out like this.

well she called me tonight to see what i was doing. i said she should come over for some drinks. we did that for a while and then her friends were having a party and we went over there. she always kinos me a little bit but when it comes to situations where it could turn to more she doesn't seem interested. she was dropping me back off at my place and i talked her into watching a movie even though it was really late. i tried to kino by tickleing and just teasing her. she played along but still didn't seem interested when she probably knew what i was doing.

eventually she's leaving and i know that after all this month, what everyone at work says, and the fact we've spent this friday night together when she could be with anyone i had to kiss her. as she was leaving with no real opening for me i just walked up to her, leaned in, and kissed her. that went on for a couple minutes and the she said "i really have to go". i gave her one more kiss. she said "you wont let me leave" jokingly. i said "that was all you". she said "that was all you". opened the door and just said see ya without really looking at me. not seeming all that happy about it and kind of like it never happened. kind of hard to describe her tone i guess...but it was off from how it should have been after what happened.

what do you guys think? she makes time for me when tons of people are calling her and want to spend time with her. she let me kiss her and kissed me back. at the same time as much as she flirts it almost feels like shes not really interested. she could be just shy or timid about romantic type things but shes so outgoing, her friends aren't like that, and she knows shes hot. i thought kissing would "seal the deal" but i still feel like i dont know where i stand. any opinions?

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I think it took balls for what you did. I give you props for doing that.


I normally make sure the girl is feeling me back before or I make sure the kiss is mutal.

I think the girl had you in the firendzone. I think she didn't want to hurt your feelings that's why she didn't back away from you.


Don't sweat it.

 

[slickjesse]

so what from here? how should i act towards her from this point to help out the interest level (which i already feel has been fairly high)?

 

[Julian]

Props on the kiss as well. But remember man, its JUST A KISS. Its not like you committed your soul to the b1tch, sh1t man.

Next time you see her just DJ her, act like a smooth pimp and that kissing pretty girls is a regular thing for you. no biggy.

 

[slickjesse]

UPDATE!!!

first of all, thanks guys. im used to being with aggressive girls so this move was even bigger for me than it would be for a lot of guys. i figured tonight that i wouldn't call her....wait for her to call...that would show her post kiss interest level. well as soon as she got out of work she called me. i didn't pick up cause i was hanging out with some friends. she left a message saying call back. i call a couple hours later and tell her to come hang out. we watched a movie, i put my arm around her, and at the end we made out. she was much more into it tonight....i teased her by pulling away and she would keep kissing agressively. guess it all worked out! thought id let you guys know how this turned out.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

Good Job