Good Friends - Take it to the next Level.

[Dave111]

I've been good friends with this girl for a couple of years now. Met her at uni. She's a really good girl, bubbly, always laughing etc. I think she's a cool girl. We hang out quite regularly, go to cinema, out clubbing etc

Anyway up till now, we've just been really good friends, and we get on like a house on fire. I dont think she's had a boyfriend before and recently she's been contacting me a lot more and just generally texting me and asking what I'm up to. When we do go out I tease her and use all the ****y/funny stuff on her, and I think it's bee working on her pretty good.

The thing is that recently I ended up at a party and had a threesome with a couple of girls. When she heard about this she laughed and told me "Well its good to try everything out once in your life". With this, I got the impression that she didn't seem to bothered, and thus told me that she probabley wasn't interested in me at all.

I always doubt myself though when it comes to thinking if girls like me and even though she's showing signs that there could be something else for our relationship, I still somehow doubt it. I'm fine flirting with her and teasing her, but because we've been friends for this amount of time, I'm finding it hard to see a way of taking this relationship to the next level.

I'm fed up going out a pulling random girls in clubs and I think this girl is real girlfriend material.

does anyone have any advice for us on how to possibley show her that I'm interested in her as more than a friend?

 

[crackhead]

Nope, but man how was that threesome? Break it down!

 

[Dave111]

No advice then?

Come on lads, someone must have something to say. I really like her and the threesome thing was a one off!.

Do u think that the threesome thing will have put her off me or do you think that it will increase my chances to get with her?

 

[Dave111]

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Bump

 

[Elimidate]

Breaking the friend zone is tough but nothing is impossible.

First off, do you use KINO on her?

This is your fist test, if you do and she does back then gradually use it more and more to check her IL. Once it's high enough, and at the right time, go in for the kiss test. Just keep moving things up to the next level! She'll let you know if she doesn't want it.

As for the threesome, she may have been jealous and bothered by it but laughed to brush it off. No doubt though, shes still thinking about it so it may work as social proof.

Elimidate

 

[dogstar]

I think this is what's called the Friendship Zone of Ultra Hell. But the way I see it, if you don't just want to be friends then don't settle for that without putting in any effort! You want more then go and get it buddy!

By the way, I'm in the same type of situation. Now, I too have decided to go out and get what I want. Why settle for something when I could put in some effort and get something greater? And if it doesn't work out, big whoop man. It'll just make be more prepared for my future experiences with girls. Good luck to us both.

Oh, and if it means anything to you, I think I'm going to try the tickle method. This seems the most ordinary for friends, but can lead to more, if I'm not mistaken. I don't know from experience, but soon I will.

Again, good luck dude.

 

[HappyHobo]

Hey how about you not talk about your sexual experiences with your friend.. there's an idea..
hwo would you feel if she told you she just got gangbanged but 4 guys at a party????????

Your hormones would be turned ON cuz youw ould say to your self " hey this girl is easy and slutty im goin to get me a slice of her"
But as a girlfriend you would not think she is the one....
you would be turned off and would not be interested in her
that is probably how she is feeling towards you.

 

[dogstar]

Even if what he said is true, if you really want to be more than friends then go for it. Otherwise you'll be stuck thinking about what could have happened....