going to work for 10 days every two weeks

[topher]

Ok hey everyone, i met a girl a couple months ago and we hit it off so great, we were in "love" and all that jazz and we got along awesome. Anyways a couple days ago she broke it off cause I was never around enough cause of work (10 days at work, 4 days off) and my pot smoking habit.

So in trying to dull the pain im going out looking for a new chick, but my question is how can I game a girl with only 4 days before my next work stint?

Yall say that you dont call for 3 days after getting the number, but by that time im packing up ready to leave again for 10 days. No time for a date, and when 10 days is up, theyve pretty much written me off.

So my only chance at puzzy is going to clubs which Ive done twice, but cant mack in a club for some reason, also im not a fan of stds from the club slutz.

I get paid a ****load for my job plus options in that company so I can't give that up for a girl.

Are there even girls out there that can be monogamous and not complain when their man is gone for 10 days a time and back for four?

On a side note, girls dont like guys that smoke alot of pot, i learned that the hardway and now has given me reason to quit.

Any thoughts or ideas would be appreciated.

topher

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by topher
On a side note, girls dont like guys that smoke alot of pot, i learned that the hardway and now has given me reason to quit.

Yeah, you might also want to consider the sh1tload of cash you waste and the amount of toxins you're inhaling.

You're looking for a girl that doesn't care that you're there and then gone, there and then gone, there and then gone? I don't see you being able to land any girl except sluts. Because sluts don't care about the whole emotional attachment. So you can F em', then leave and come back and F them again (they probably would have screwed around with a couple of guys by the time you got back).

If you want a "good girl", (relationship material), then I'm afriad your schedule is going to put a stop to that. I don't think you can really make a girl fall head over heels in 4 days. Are you going to be doing this for a long time? If it's only temporary, then focus on your work and bring in the cash. Then get a pimped out car/apartment/house and start fishing. You'll get plenty of bites.

If this is going to be a long term work commitment, then I really don't see around making a choice between the two. Just like a father can't be "the family man" and be working overseas every few days, you can't land a nice girl when you're gone more often than not.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by topher
Ok hey everyone, i met a girl a couple months ago and we hit it off so great, we were in "love" and all that jazz and we got along awesome. Anyways a couple days ago she broke it off cause I was never around enough cause of work (10 days at work, 4 days off) and my pot smoking habit.

Are there even girls out there that can be monogamous and not complain when their man is gone for 10 days a time and back for four?

On a side note, girls dont like guys that smoke alot of pot, i learned that the hardway and now has given me reason to quit.

Any thoughts or ideas would be appreciated.

My female neigbour has a bf who is in the military and he had been gone usually for months!

Sure there are some decent girls who can bear this.. but one of the biggest turn off for decent girls is pot smoking.

Also you can call her from work.. (did you? How many times?) or send some "mushy" stuff she likes like a card or something like that.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Re: Re: going to work for 10 days every two weeks

Originally posted by al77
My female neigbour has a bf who is in the military and he had been gone usually for months!

Sure there are some decent girls who can bear this.. but one of the biggest turn off for decent girls is pot smoking.

Also you can call her from work.. (did you? How many times?) or send some "mushy" stuff she likes like a card or something like that.

Yeah but did they BUILD the relationship while he went off to the army? I'm willing to bet they were pretty well established before he went off.

In this case topher is in the same situation except he's starting from GROUND ZERO. He doesn't have anything established before going off. And he only has 4 days to establish something.

Again I really doubt your neighbour had the same situation.

 

[topher]

I am staying at work this year for sure, I want to start up a club/bar soon and this is my stepping stone.

I am starting from ground-zero now but with my as-of-now ex we met 1 month before I started this years work, so I built what I thought was a strong relationship in that time, then work started and it lasted for another month but when she broke it off she told me she detached herself emotionally to ease the pain from me leaving all the time. And yes i did the mushy stuff, i called her every night, but it wasnt enough i guess. I dont blame her really, i wouldnt want my girl to leave for 10 days and only see me for 4.

Oh well now she says she wants to be friends and take it from there, is that a good/bad sign?

Either way, i like to play my 4 days off pretty hard (work hard = play hard) so I may end up banging some slutz to ease my pain even though I still feel empty inside from them. there is no better feeling than being in a loving relationship.

thanks for the replies.