Hey guys so I got this girls number and invited this girl to go to a concert with me. The concert is school related however( we're both in college) and she said we can go together there since she's already going with her roommate. Anyways I don't really think this is a formal "date" or anything but what are some guidelines on how to act since her roommates going to be there with her? . Should I still go in for the kiss or should I wait till a real date? Any advice is appreciated!
Going to concert with this girl
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Consider it a preliminary 'test' meeting and not a REAL DATE.
Act like you are on a coffee meetup with someone, to see if you really WANT to DATE HER as the next step.
A real date is just YOU AND HER, no 3rd wheel.
Yeah, a REAL winner - attempting to kiss close in front of her roommate? Ugh... HELLO... McFly... Anyone There??
Exodus
Act like you are on a coffee meetup with someone, to see if you really WANT to DATE HER as the next step.
A real date is just YOU AND HER, no 3rd wheel.
Yeah, a REAL winner - attempting to kiss close in front of her roommate? Ugh... HELLO... McFly... Anyone There??
Exodus
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Listen to GotED, he knows what hes talking about.
Go there. See if you even want to kiss her. She might be a revolting human being, that you're not even attracted to. You never know.
Gauge how high her interest level is. Then get back to us with how sh*t went.
Right now, don't over complicate things by planning out what you are going to do. Just go there with the intent to have the best fvckin time you have ever had and enjoy YOURSELF, in the process make her wet by being a boss. But dont over do it.
Realistically, I cant tell you anymore then that, because I dont know how high her interest level is. If its low i would say dont kiss her in fact if its low just go find another girl whose interest is higher, dont waste your time. But if her interest level is super fvckin high i dont see why you couldn't pull her away from her friend for some making out or whatnot.
BUT like I said, I dont know the interest level. So you should clarify that.
Goodluck
Go there. See if you even want to kiss her. She might be a revolting human being, that you're not even attracted to. You never know.
Gauge how high her interest level is. Then get back to us with how sh*t went.
Right now, don't over complicate things by planning out what you are going to do. Just go there with the intent to have the best fvckin time you have ever had and enjoy YOURSELF, in the process make her wet by being a boss. But dont over do it.
Realistically, I cant tell you anymore then that, because I dont know how high her interest level is. If its low i would say dont kiss her in fact if its low just go find another girl whose interest is higher, dont waste your time. But if her interest level is super fvckin high i dont see why you couldn't pull her away from her friend for some making out or whatnot.
BUT like I said, I dont know the interest level. So you should clarify that.
Goodluck
Be cool and don't try to kiss. The roommate is there and she will judge everything you do. Make a good impression on the roommate and you're in. She will push the girl to go out with you. Don't over do it and don't be fake.
Update:
Went to the concert last night, at first things were going smoothly, I did some light touching (arm around her shoulder and waist) and made her laugh a few times , took a couple pictures together but nothing too extreme, she didn't seem to mind ; it's also hard to really escalate at a school related concert especially with her roommate there. Throughout the course of the night however it seemed like her interest level grew lower. She looked bored and indifferent even when I tried talking to her. To make matters worse her and her roommate are like best friends so a lot of the time I would sit silently (such as when we were in the car or when we all ate together after the concert) while they both talked about something unrelated to me. I tried asking her to come party with me after the concert but she made up some excuse about how she was going to go to bed and how she's been trying to calm down on the partying lately. I got the feeling that they didn't want to party with me for some reason. It was only 10:30 , but I ended up just getting dropped off, I said bye to both of them and thanks and that was it. In a nutshell the night went from her being fairly interested, into her interest level dropping and her looking bored while mostly talking to her roommate. I have no idea why, I tried to have as much as fun as possible for the circumstances but now I'm confused on what to do. Could it be due to me being a year younger than her? Should I even call her so we can meet up one on one or should I just never talk to her again?
Went to the concert last night, at first things were going smoothly, I did some light touching (arm around her shoulder and waist) and made her laugh a few times , took a couple pictures together but nothing too extreme, she didn't seem to mind ; it's also hard to really escalate at a school related concert especially with her roommate there. Throughout the course of the night however it seemed like her interest level grew lower. She looked bored and indifferent even when I tried talking to her. To make matters worse her and her roommate are like best friends so a lot of the time I would sit silently (such as when we were in the car or when we all ate together after the concert) while they both talked about something unrelated to me. I tried asking her to come party with me after the concert but she made up some excuse about how she was going to go to bed and how she's been trying to calm down on the partying lately. I got the feeling that they didn't want to party with me for some reason. It was only 10:30 , but I ended up just getting dropped off, I said bye to both of them and thanks and that was it. In a nutshell the night went from her being fairly interested, into her interest level dropping and her looking bored while mostly talking to her roommate. I have no idea why, I tried to have as much as fun as possible for the circumstances but now I'm confused on what to do. Could it be due to me being a year younger than her? Should I even call her so we can meet up one on one or should I just never talk to her again?
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Forget about her.
Erase and replace my friend.
Low interest. Move on and find a better girl, for if you put anymore time into this one it will be doubly deleterious.
1) she will sense your commitment and engagement in her getting stronger which will push her away and make her interest level grow way lower then it already is. Clearly a waste of time.
2) Your investment in a girl with low interest with have zero positive effect on your life and your peace of mind. It will create stress, anxiety, overplanning and eventually failure. Once again, waste of time.
Take the time that you would invest in this low interest girl and spend it finding better girls that have higher interest in you.
IF you really want. hit her up in the summer like 2 months down the road and spark some light banter and ask her on a coffee date, just you and her, after you have spun some other plates. But for now move on. I see nothing but a low interest level b!tch.
Erase and replace my friend.
Low interest. Move on and find a better girl, for if you put anymore time into this one it will be doubly deleterious.
1) she will sense your commitment and engagement in her getting stronger which will push her away and make her interest level grow way lower then it already is. Clearly a waste of time.
2) Your investment in a girl with low interest with have zero positive effect on your life and your peace of mind. It will create stress, anxiety, overplanning and eventually failure. Once again, waste of time.
Take the time that you would invest in this low interest girl and spend it finding better girls that have higher interest in you.
IF you really want. hit her up in the summer like 2 months down the road and spark some light banter and ask her on a coffee date, just you and her, after you have spun some other plates. But for now move on. I see nothing but a low interest level b!tch.