Going to college..but still want this girl...Advice?

[daym]

Aight..so i've liked this girl for 4 years and i've never made a move on her. She's knows I like her too. We've talked on and off each year. But this year it got better. I took her out to lunch and etc. But we don't talk ALOT ALOT. We talked more this year though. I took her to prom and etc. But now, we've just graduated from H.S. and as much as my friends say just forget about her and etc., I still want her. I know it sounds so damn common..but she is the PERFECT girl. I find nothing wrong with her..and if anything..i'd be dating a girl with the same personality as her. She's going to a college in the L.A. district (California) and i'll still be up in the bay area.

So my question to you guys are .. do you think I shoould even try anymore? I would be willing to go for this long distance relationship thing and etc. but i dunno..all my friends say there are plenty of fishes in the sea kinda thing.

From opinions from her friends..they told me that she's just plain freakin hard to get (which is so true)..and she just hasn't decided like which kind of guy she likes to be with.

So yea..mainly..i just don't want an opportunity slip by like this. What should I do?

Thanks. FIRST POST!! I really look forward to getting advice from you guys/girls. This site is TIGHT ahhaha

 

[Thraxeh]

leave her, i know it sounds gay, but ur going to college were theres heaps of other girls to meet, and have fun with. are u acctuly girlfriend/boyfriend ?

 

[Drastic Mentality]

REPLY to DAYM....

haha...daym daym daym...you remind me of my situation...it is like an exact replica of what i was dealing with. I too just graduated from HS, liked this one girl soo much for 4 years, got ice cream together, long walks , blah blah. to sum it up, i thought this girl was a perfect 10, smart, very attractive, nice body, etc...

and for 3 years, i was all over her, and she knew it, I know she liked me too, now that IM LOOKING BACK AT IT!! like you, i didnt make my move. so instead, i was put into the "FRIEND" category for 3 years. but this year, i told myself that i would no longer obsess about any girl..im a FREE AGENT!!

and NOT surprisingly, ever since i stopped caring about her (showering her with compliments, following her to class)...she started wondering.."hey, whats wrong, this chump isnt worshipping me today?"

and so my friend, thats when the tables turned, now she wants me more than i'd want her, bc once you let the girl know you want her, the game is over, there is no more "thrill of the hunt" if you follow my drift. for Gods sake, she is going to my college after learning im going there!!

no matter what you do daym, never let the HB know that you want her, or else the game is lost, she loses interest in you, so this girl you like...f*** her!!!! there are MILLIONS of girls in california, so dont ever put a girl on a pedestal...there is ALWAYS a better girl somewhere down the street, literally!

and ill leave you with these words that I found throughout the DJ sites, "HESITATION leads to MASTURBATION" ---so true.

DrasticBK@aol.com

 

[Drastic Mentality]

one more point i should have made in the previous post....NO GIRL IS PERFECT, (a 10)....the maximum i give a girl is 9.5 (and she better have a personality, body, SMILE, and be smart), bc no girl has it all....everyone has their flaws daym, and you are a newbie, someone is gonna yell at you soon for asking the same question that was posted a million times....my best advice? or should i say...

MAKE SURE TO visit the "Weapons of Mass Seduction" thread posted by Mr. Fingers/Senor Fingers

he is my mentor! lol, his very detailed and comprehensive style of writing really motivated me to get up and change--IMPROVE myself...i should say. so b4 you ask any more questions, MAKE SURE to read his thread bc its the best friggin thing you'll read on this entire site, later

DrasticBK@aol.com

 

[blienk]

Originally posted by daym
Aight..so i've liked this girl for 4 years and i've never made a move on her. She's knows I like her too.

Ok, this is all that matters. If a girl knows that you've liked her yet you still haven't gone on a date, then it's done. You're probably deep in the friends zone and you might as well move on.

Read the DJ bible and start checking out other girls.