Ok...so this girl LJBF'ed me about a year and a half ago and since then I've been working away from my AFC status. I've read in this forum that skating is a pretty good date. Coincidentally this girl puts on her msn name that she just went skating. I ask her to go to another skating rink because they have an event there next friday and she said "yes, but there'll be nothing else friends don't do."
Before the flaming starts, keep in a mind a few things:
1) I KNOW it's not a "date". Honestly I am still a little bit interested in her since she's hot (HB9) but unlike before, I am also seeing other women at the same time instead of putting her on a pedestal. I am not working hard at all to make her fall for me, but if she DOES, that would be good too.
2) I am 20, if that matters.
3) I haven't been skating since 10-12 years ago.
So I am going out with her for three main reasons:
- to approach girls (maybe even score this girl with jealously as a bonus)
- to learn skating so I could take my future dates to rinks
- learn about the area near the rink since it offers events year-round
How would you approach girls in my situation? I usually pick up girls at school or at the mall, so this type of environment is new to me. Is it a good idea to ask female strangers to teach me skating?
Also, how should I treat this girl? Should I cut off all forms of kino to make her want me more? I am pretty sure that if I did not touch her physically in any way that day, she will eventually initiate contact and I was thinking of saying something like "nono... you said no touching, remember?" playfully. That has happened before and she ended up almost jumping on me to cuddle up when I did that. Or should I still try to initiate kino and escalate?
Thanks.
Before the flaming starts, keep in a mind a few things:
1) I KNOW it's not a "date". Honestly I am still a little bit interested in her since she's hot (HB9) but unlike before, I am also seeing other women at the same time instead of putting her on a pedestal. I am not working hard at all to make her fall for me, but if she DOES, that would be good too.
2) I am 20, if that matters.
3) I haven't been skating since 10-12 years ago.
So I am going out with her for three main reasons:
- to approach girls (maybe even score this girl with jealously as a bonus)
- to learn skating so I could take my future dates to rinks
- learn about the area near the rink since it offers events year-round
How would you approach girls in my situation? I usually pick up girls at school or at the mall, so this type of environment is new to me. Is it a good idea to ask female strangers to teach me skating?
Also, how should I treat this girl? Should I cut off all forms of kino to make her want me more? I am pretty sure that if I did not touch her physically in any way that day, she will eventually initiate contact and I was thinking of saying something like "nono... you said no touching, remember?" playfully. That has happened before and she ended up almost jumping on me to cuddle up when I did that. Or should I still try to initiate kino and escalate?
Thanks.
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