Poon King has seriously the best advice again. However, there is more to the story.
Im am still a recovering from AFC but I think there is still something I can contribute here. Hope it adds value to the thread and your goals.
1. Having this goal is good but may prove counterproductive. Should you find that is this case this may be why. Girls can definitely pick up on a motive or agenda. Even when you are really good you are at masking it. So, if your goal is a sex close in two dates you will have to be 100 percent at masking that agenda. To do this, you may actually need to find your inner AFC again. Or develop it.
1a. This is why I think so. I actually have discovered I am very good at getting girls with anything over 51% percent interest to sleep with me right away.(also, opening up to me as to why) Even in my chump days, I got almost no resistance. Its the maintaining that frame that brought me here, but I digress. Here are the things girls have said to me.
" I dunno why, I just felt comfortable with you" ( To expand on this she wouldn’t let me touch anything below her waist after a 13hr date. I tried three times. Then, I gave up and left. She was actually pissed that I was leaving. I told her I wanted her to be able to sleep well for work tomorrow. Next time I went there she told me “Im not on birth control” while both our tops were off. I told her” That’s ok. That’s not what I am here for anyway.” She said “ Well do you have a condom our do you want to just pull out” and she proceeded to rip off all our clothes and f^ck me for hrs.
" Because I knew you didnt really want to and that made me want to" (I actually didn’t want to F^ck this girl so I pushed her off me. Made her crazy for me.)
" Because you made me feel safe" ( told her “There are a thousand ways to be intimate. Hand massages and looking at the stars with good music are just as intimate as sex.) (Problem is, I meant it. Told you AFC has certain benefits)
" Because you were so mature" (about a particular situation she mentioned)
" Because you were so honest with me" (told her about other girls I was seeing and said I wanted her to be able to make an adult decision about being with me) I was in fact honest with her.
“Because I never met anyone like you before you’re different” ( Just acted interested in their lives and I identify where you can. Be genuine if possible, or again, fake it till you make it.
There are others but the overall sentiment, I am here to tell you is this: You must be (or act) so unconcerned about sex that they categorize you as something completely different then they are used to dealing with. This drives them wild.
Its funny actually, I feel bad telling you this because during some of those interactions and others, I actually didn’t give a sh!t because I was a sweet guy. I kept my eyes on theirs and never ogled them. I made them laugh with me and at me. I was a gentleman.
HOWEVER, in retrospect, another key to this, is HEAVEY kino. I didn’t know it till I found this website, but I was never afraid to touch and be sensual in touch, no matter what. Italian upbringing maybe?
2. Communicate you DO NOT WANT sex verbally. Communicate YOU DO WANT ONLY SEX non-verbally. KINO.
3. Again, if sex is your only goal(not usually mine) you must demonstrate interest and indifference all at the same time. Master that and youll be pulling enough chicks to by 30 packs of condoms.
4. Mystery:
Again balance is needed here. Tell stories but never share details.
I am dating a girl right now that has no problem screwing my brains out and has no idea what my last name is. She knows (mostly what I do) (She knows mostly about previous relationships) (She now knows where I live, but not how to get there) ( She knows the HOUSE I GREW up in{ I got lucky here and was near there} BUT when she asked my last name I changed the subject hard and got her talking about herself.
5. Be a gentleman: I open doors but don’t stumble over myself to do so. I pay, but I make them leave the tip. I always have an extra sweatshirt in my car and ask if they are cold. I always ask if they are thirsty hungry or need to pee. I always push people out of their way to make room for them to walk. I always walk on the side of traffic. I always brace them if I brake to hard when driving. I always offer my jacket. I always stand when they stand at a table. I always get out of my car when picking them up. I always dress well. I always prepare them for a date but never tell them where we are going.
6. Mirror:
If a chick responds to the above, continue. HOWEVER, if she is sh!tty, or entitled, or trashy, or drinks to much, or in any way misbehaves… Mirror that behavior. If she sh!t tests you, give it right back. Then you are dealing with a different breed. You can still be a gentlemen but don’t kiss their ass with it.
EXAMPLE: I had a girl I was seeing for a few weeks. I offered her breakfast
( a breakfast I shopped for just to impress her) and she was being sh!tty. “Im not hungry. Im going to leave soon” So I said Fine. Im hungry, Im going to cook. If you like it, eat it. If not, don’t. I am making coffee too” Well, that ***** instgramed my breakfast and texted me later that I was an amazing chef. ( Full DISCLOSER… I never saw her again. Broke my heart. Yet, I did sleep with her. Many, many times.) That’s your goal, so it fits still.
Lastly, I am trying to help with your goal, with my different perspective. I see though, that this will only work with girls that have a elevated interest in you to begin with. 51% or higher I would say. Other then that, the other guys here on SS are more equipped to help. Listen to them!
Enjoy and good luck. Keep us posted.
P.S PM me for pictures or furtherance of advice. I don’t want anyone thinking Im talking out of my ass here. Real experience even though I am still learning.
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