going down....

[speedo_meme]

I know some of you have had this problem. My gf won't go down man, and it sucks. Nothing I appreciate more than a good blow job. I also like returning the favor.

Problem is, I know she's done it before, but I think she had a bad experience with a former bf. He had sweaty balls or some sh*t like that, and it's tainted her in a bad way. I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO SUFFER BECAUSE SOME SCHMUCK CAN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS NUTCHEESE!!!!! She also says she doesn't like getting eaten out because it makes her just want to have sex.

Her sex drive is there, we do it alot, and I can get her off on a trigger. That's not the problem. She's just not into oral, but I am. I'm all about some good 69 too. Should I try the shower angle? It better not be hopeless, so someone please gimme some good advice.....

 

[gixxer]

Sounds like she has a bunch of hangups and likes making excuses. Bottom line is she isn't as into you as you think. My last LTR (5 years) she never went down on me and had all sorts of excuses. When we broke up I couldn't believe how many girls I met that LOVED to suck d!ck and swallow - and even would ask for it. Bottom line is, if she's not all over you all the time in every way she's not into you or is really hung up sexually.

Personally, I'll never date a girl that isn't into EVERYTHING sexual again. Way too many wild ones out there to waste time with a cold one.

I think you're giving her complete control of the frame by asking her for it and talking about it and letting her say no. If a girl told me she didn't suck d!ck I would leave so fast there would be a trail of smoke.

Stop debating with her about it and find a girl that fukks like a porno star :cheer:

gixx

 

[speedo_meme]

gixxer you know good and well that girls are different as far as sexual preferences, it's got nothing to do with whether she likes me or not.....

please spare me from any more of these "f*ck all girls, they are nothing more than something to ejaculate in" replies. I've got a quality girl here, I'm not going to dump her because she doesn't suck d*ck right now. I asked for advice on how to get her to enjoy oral sex, so any more advice?

 

[Lawyer101]

Why don't you incorporate some food-type toys into your sex life. One day, just bring some whipped cream and put it on her bottom. Then start eating it in a playful way. That way she'll think you are just playing around, but then she'll start enjoying it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've got a quality girl here

Quality girls give head.

 

[SAYNO]

Good Point

Originally posted by gixxer
Sounds like she has a bunch of hangups and likes making excuses. Bottom line is she isn't as into you as you think. My last LTR (5 years) she never went down on me and had all sorts of excuses. When we broke up I couldn't believe how many girls I met that LOVED to suck d!ck and swallow - and even would ask for it. Bottom line is, if she's not all over you all the time in every way she's not into you or is really hung up sexually.

Personally, I'll never date a girl that isn't into EVERYTHING sexual again. Way too many wild ones out there to waste time with a cold one.

I think you're giving her complete control of the frame by asking her for it and talking about it and letting her say no. If a girl told me she didn't suck d!ck I would leave so fast there would be a trail of smoke.

Stop debating with her about it and find a girl that fukks like a porno star :cheer:

gixx

Hey, I am totatly in agreement with you man, if a girl don't give head thats a real deal-breaker for me. I mean she don't have to do it all the time, but she should at least try. The strange thing about is I'd bet you a million to 1 that she'd do it for a guy that she was really into.


Sayno'

 

[Omni]

Don't approach her sexually, or respond to her seduction attempts, for however long it takes for her to try to push the issue, then tell her that you're not feeling into her sexually right now... and if she has one ounce of desire for you, she's going to be eager to find out, and do, whatever it takes to get you back on track.

Be sure you're clean, clean, CLEAN, that you don't have a jungle of barbed-wire pubic hair, and that you've got flavored massage oil available in case she seems to be hesitant about licking you.

If you want a repeat performance, don't push down on her head or come in her mouth unless asked to; save that stuff until she's into it.

 

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Originally posted by Lawyer101
Why don't you incorporate some food-type toys into your sex life. One day, just bring some whipped cream and put it on her bottom. Then start eating it in a playful way. That way she'll think you are just playing around, but then she'll start enjoying it.

T.V advice, this isnt going to achieve sh!t.

Originally posted by gixxer

I think you're giving her complete control of the frame by asking her for it and talking about it and letting her say no. If a girl told me she didn't suck d!ck I would leave so fast there would be a trail of smoke.

Gixxer nailed it, by actually talking about this with her youve probably fvcked any chances of her sucking it.
I found with reluctant b!tches theres a few ways to approach it:

* Up your frame of dominance.
* Never ask or talk about it. (should never ever be talking about this sh!t anyway)
* Lick her out and guage when shes well and truly in that zone then pull her into the 69er position.
* Alternatively lick her out , watch for the zone then simply move up to where her head is on your knees and guide her head onto your d!ck while continung to finger her, dont nut the first time you do this and keep it short, you just want to show her its really not that difficult, then reward her by punishing her cvnt. Rinse and repeat.

Mind you again youve already talked about head with her and she knows exactly where your coming from so the above advice could very well be useless.
Btw Gixxer was right again in that she IS making excuses, if Brad pitt came along or someone who she perceived having similar value to her in her chick mind as Mr Pitt she would be sucking it like a champ. Dont forget that.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Easy fix: Take a shower together.

 

[speedo_meme]

well I appreciate the advice, and I think you guys are right to an extent. I know married couples that don't do oral. Why? Who knows. I guess some people don't like it. Now, me and this girl are at that stage when we don't really know if we're serious or not, and she's kicked all her AFC's and beta backups to the curb, so it seems. Even when we first started going out, and we were f*cking all day everyday, she didn't show any signs of wanting to do oral, and she was VERY into me, trust me. I just am starting to think she's not into it period, and I refuse to believe it's because she's not into me. H*ll, having sex should mean more to a girl than a *******.

So basically as far as "what should I do" goes, I should go down on her and make her like it, then she hopefully returns the favor? Right out of the shower, of course...

 

[Aaron B]

all the advice you need has already been posted above