Going after the same girl again??

[Mr_Pink]

Well, let me explain. This is this girl I met back in Freshmen year (I'm now a Senior), and she is honestly, without a doubt the single most beautiful girl I have ever seen. She is that hot. Not only that, but she is also one of the nicest and smartest, now. When I first went after her in my Frosh year, I took the AFC approach. Back then, she was different from the way she is now, and kind of had that "I'm popular and better" attitude crap. When she broke up with her bf, I asked her to a dance and got shot down. However, she did so nicely and commented on how sweet she thought I was and everything.

Now, today. She's sick of all the superficial popular people around here all the time, and seems to be becoming friends with new people. I just started talking to her again, and am not taking the AFC approach at all btw, and in talking to her she said about how she's sick of everyone expecting her to be friends with people based solely on her reputation and all that. She's also made comments about being a big geek (like me), so she seems to be much more down to earth now. And from the little that I have talked to her, she is much, much nicer, and still has hot as ever.

So, I'm thinking about persuing her again, but my problem is that it's the summer. I saw her today during ACTs, but the only time I'll ever get to talk to her the next few months will be online and possibly up at our towns fair or something. So do you all have any idea how I can casually ask her out first to get to now her better, or get her number or something?? What would you do??

 

[Trigger]

Move on, man. I've fallen into the same trap before. You need to pursue other women. There are a gazillion other women in this world that are THAT hot or hotter. Grab your nuts and find someone new who you DON'T have a history with.

Don't become that 'nice, sweet, understanding' stupid son of a biatch who never gets laid. Prove to her that she was stupid to have turned you down in the first place. You aren't going to get anywhere good with this one.

In short, expand your horizons.

- Trigger -

 

[Legend]

I could'nt agree with trigger anymore.....he said it like he should. Its a lost cause....anyway if you are taking the ACT's you are in high school. She def. wont be interested in you, because you both of you are leaving for college at the end of summer. Forget her.....

 

[rbd]

I'm going to third that. Move on. Not worth it.

 

[Legend]

I got LJBF'ed by a chick and ended up still trying and getting everyting but sex from her. I'm glad i stuck it out. Had lots of fun chilling with her. Its over now because she never truly liked me, but it was cool while it lasted. Keep this going....its all a game....learn it and you will win.

 

[Walden]

Don't , do not , nicht var , on no account should you be subtle.

Tell her you want to shag her like a fairground mule and ask for her number (well, maybe be a little more subtle than that).

If she's into you , she'll give it to you (hehe), and if not , she won't.

This way it's all out in the open and even if she doesn't dig you , y'all can be friends.

 

[Jay26]

It can be done, but it's not worth it, like Walden said, ya gotta be bold if you're to have any chance.

You're better off putting your energy into pulling a new chick.