GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

neonlimited

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ok this is really really hard, tonight gf #1 wants to hang out, so i told her yes, but now friend is having a bonfire at her house and gf # 2 is gonna be there, and she knows i have nothing to do tonight somehow, (well she doesnt know im hanging w/ #1) so heres my plan so far

work 2-5
hang with #1 till about 8 or so, then goto the bonfire for the night... is that ok?? i feel so bad
 

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You have two girlfriends?


I think you're going to have to pick one. If you don't, you will lose both of them (when one finds out).

I'm not sure as to your situation tonight - you may have to pick one over the other. I'm sure girl #1 might catch on if you suddenly leave at 8 pm.
 

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Thats why you get girls on opposite ends of the city. My friend tried what your doing with 2 girls on the same vball team...didnt last long.
 

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well they goto diff schools man, i dont want advice on dumping one, i just need a good excuse.. i dont plan on dumping either anytime soon
 

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Tell one of them that something came up and that you're busy. Tell her your free tomorrow, or earlier today, etc so you can reschedule.
 

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When you tell girls/gf that your seeing other girls, they see you as a challenge. IF SHE IS NOT OK WITH IT, DUMPED HER ASS!!!!


YOU WILL FIND OUT THAT IF YOU TOLD HER THAT YOUR SEEING OTHER GIRLS AT THE BEGGINING OF THE RELATIONSHIP THEN SHE WILL BE FINE WITH IT. BUT now since you waited, i dont know.
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
When you tell girls/gf that your seeing other girls, they see you as a challenge. IF SHE IS NOT OK WITH IT, DUMPED HER ASS!!!!


YOU WILL FIND OUT THAT IF YOU TOLD HER THAT YOUR SEEING OTHER GIRLS AT THE BEGGINING OF THE RELATIONSHIP THEN SHE WILL BE FINE WITH IT. BUT now since you waited, i dont know.
I have to disagree with you. Telling your gf your seeing other girls is pointless, even if its at the beginning ofthe relationship. That negates the point have having a gf i suppose. If everything is unofficial then its all up for grabs.
 

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Whyshy, if your girlfriend told you she was seeing other guys, would that be fine with you? Or should your ass be dumped too?
 

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yeah whyshy... dun type in caps if you dont know what ur talkin about lol
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Long story short your really horny and you need to stick with one and if you cant then you dont deserve either. Imagine if u end up like a teen show ur gonna call one the other's name by accident and get screwed in the @$$
 

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as Saucehead say " Pimp them both till one of them leaves" (from the bodybuilding.com forum on PUA) even if they both leave guess what there are 5 gazillion baziollion girls in the girls
 

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
yeah whyshy... dun type in caps if you dont know what ur talkin about lol
Alright buddy it seem that you dont know what your talking about!!

Who am i going to believe, some chump online who tries to be pimping (no offense) and who doesn't pimp in real life.

OR

Derek Vitalio/David DeAngelo

I pretty sure it was David.

Anyways one of the said to date more than one woman at a time so she knows that she has to work for your approval. WHY?
Because you don't need her and you don't really care if you have her or not, this creates ATTRACTION.


Damn you guys are chumps, you think just because you found this site and read a few articles/DJ bible that your the biggest DJ in the world. Just because you sit at your computer all day and answer post to get to a master don joan, DOESN"T mean that you know what your talking about. Get out there and get some real experience.

By the way, I haven't learn much on sosuave.com. I learned some small stuff, but not as much as i did from derek vitalio,david, etc.
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
Alright buddy it seem that you dont know what your talking about!!

Who am i going to believe, some chump online who tries to be pimping (no offense) and who doesn't pimp in real life.

OR

Derek Vitalio/David DeAngelo

I pretty sure it was David.

Anyways one of the said to date more than one woman at a time so she knows that she has to work for your approval. WHY?
Because you don't need her and you don't really care if you have her or not, this creates ATTRACTION.


Damn you guys are chumps, you think just because you found this site and read a few articles/DJ bible that your the biggest DJ in the world. Just because you sit at your computer all day and answer post to get to a master don joan, DOESN"T mean that you know what your talking about. Get out there and get some real experience.

By the way, I haven't learn much on sosuave.com. I learned some small stuff, but not as much as i did from derek vitalio,david, etc.
yeah...

DATE more than one woman at a time.

not be in an "exclusive" relationship with more than one woman at a time and tell them both about it. that's shooting yourself in the foot.

and neon, frankly if you aren't smart enough to work out this situation on your own (and it really isn't that tough) then you shouldn't be trying to juggle two girlfriends.
 

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post their pics. well pick one foryou.
 

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2 girls

You could save face and tell them both but that is too honest I always wanted 2 girls that were cool with each other try and do that if you can
 

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Originally posted by neonlimited
ok this is really really hard, tonight gf #1 wants to hang out, so i told her yes, but now friend is having a bonfire at her house and gf # 2 is gonna be there, and she knows i have nothing to do tonight somehow, (well she doesnt know im hanging w/ #1) so heres my plan so far

work 2-5
hang with #1 till about 8 or so, then goto the bonfire for the night... is that ok?? i feel so bad
That’s what you get and you should feel bad.

It was stupid to have 2 GF you knew the inevitable outcome yet you decided to do it anyway. Serves you right of what’s going to happen to ya.

You and many others contribute to the saying "Pretty women are a dime a dozen but a good man, know that’s rare to find."
 

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what always works is saying "an important family issue came up"
they will not argue there if they ask what say "you feel like talking about it at a later time with her"-----also this draws in more attraction from here because it creates "curiousity" sub-consciencely.
 

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Re: Re: GOD DAMNIT having 2 gf = hard. NEED HELP

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
That’s what you get and you should feel bad.

It was stupid to have 2 GF you knew the inevitable outcome yet you decided to do it anyway. Serves you right of what’s going to happen to ya.

You and many others contribute to the saying "Pretty women are a dime a dozen but a good man, know that’s rare to find."
i dont know what you are talking about, my situation is now fixed, and IMO i love dating two girls, if I have nothing to do one night I just call one of them up and they will drop everything for me... whats bad about that?
 
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