Goals regarding women

[Rainman4707]

What are your goals regarding women?

My goal was is to find a girl who I want for a LTR & ultimately create a family. I want kids.

I'm interested to find out what the guys goals are on this forum considering I've spent a lot of time interacting with them.

 

[Tictac]

1. Where am I going?

2. Who do I want to come with me?

End

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Rainman,
Can you see the value of putting your age down?...Old Will spoke of the Seven ages of Man,yours is the age when every intelligent Man as a duty to his race and forbears should reproduce...Howls of anguish from the Mice LOL!

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Tictac,
When it comes to pithy brevity and the ability to cut to the quick,you take the cake...your last contribution says soo little but then again soo much...I would not like to haggle Business with you...Good Luck!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Right now I don't have any regarding woman. I'm not actively pursuring any. I haven't taken a extended break in a very long time, it's time to reboot & do that. Maybe come summer time.

I'm @ crossroads & working on myself right now. Possible find a new company to work for and get to that next level.

My only debt is 2k on my car, looking forward to paying that off & get some maintenance done. I can easily put another 100k miles on it.

 

[ubercat]

Yeah - I'm on sabattical too. Just got out of 10 years of LTRs including 2 live-ins so I figure I've at least earned a year off for bad behavour. So far is good - lost 10 kg and still slightly social. Fixing up old house, paying down mortgage - should be read to buy an investment property this year if job hangs together. Approach and dating is fun - but sucks time. Still doing a bit of PUA study and fake cold approaches to keep my hand in. Not MGTOW yet ;-) Probably do sum OLD to keep the pipes clean once the bod and $ goals reached. I tell people 'I'm happily single' and I am.

 

[ubercat]

Arrgh I mean DJ not PUA. I'm definitely more Cary Grant than Vin Diesel

 

[ubercat]

Weird 1st post previewed but didn't. Anyway long story short I'm on sabbatical too after 10 years of LTRs. Losing weight, playing sports, fixing old house and stashing cash. Probably some OLD later on to ease back in once I've reached a couple of goals.

 

[Roni_88]

I want to get to the point of dominating myself and put my stuff first before any woman.. I've progressed tons but there's always more room for improvement.

Deep inside even those that say that they despise women want a good woman ( I know, a lot of variables to this meaning) I am no exception to wanting one as well.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

To never EVER have one believe or say that I am in touch with my "feminine side.' The only feminine side that I'm touching is hers.

 

[glass half full]

Taking a break right now. Getting health issues under control, then going to get back into shape and get job secure.

Then comes the poon. Undecided...part of me wants to "play the field".
And part of me wants to bed down with one good one.

Leaning towards #1, you only live once, Wtf!!

 

[Rogue One]

Bang as many 30 year olds as possible.

I am almost 40. I was with one woman from the age of 19 (married at 21) through 37, that means 18 years and pretty much all of my adult life with one woman. If it weren't for my kids, the relationship would have ended before I turned 30.

The divorce was nasty. Watching her destroy all of my dreams for my children was even worse. I can't picture myself in that situation ever again.

Now...the end of the summer will mark a year since the legal divorce. I have been living like a monk for nearly two years, partially because I couldn't afford much, moreso because my ego and self-esteem were totally shattered and I just couldn't convince myself to try to meet women. I have been exercising and studying and both have yielded positive results.

I want to build a nice harem. I don't want to be bothered with someone else's kids. I don't want to sleep over and build a pillow fort. I want my own house and space. I want to be able to choose from several good looking women on any given night to have some fun.