Go to the root of the problem.

[terminator911]

Are you having trouble meeting women, starting conversations w/them and getting their numbers?

Have you ever stopped for a minute and asked yourself, why you have so much trouble with something that seems to be fairly simple?

Well, maybe you need to identify your enemy, or what exactly is it that is stopping you from doing so? And the answer is more simple than what you might think... YOU are your enemy, you are the only one holding yourself back from getting that beautiful girl, you are the root of the problem but YOU are the one who can actually solve it, too.

What exactly are we afraid of, rejection? Buddy, let me tell you something... you better start getting rejected or you will never come out of that shell, get out there, get rejected and get it over with. Soon enough you'll be laughing when you get rejected... your first times will be the more painful, but soon enough you will get used to it.

To tell you the truth, I'm tired of being afraid, I'm tired of not having the b@lls to talk to beautiful women, I'm tired of all the bullsh!t, I'm tired of seeing some ugly punk talking to the beautiful girls that I myself would like to talk to.

As I have previously said in another post, we have to expose our b@lls and get rejected, there's no other way around this. If we want to get the girls, we have to risk getting rejected. We have
to understand that not all girls will like us and that there are some beetches out there; but for
the most part, girls won't be harsh on you, they're human beings just like us.

This site is the tool, let's go to work... and let's get something else clear; we have to do the work, girls are not going to come to you, unless you are some super good looking dude with tons of money; which in that case they'll probably be gold diggers.

That's it for now. Take care and good luck.

terminator911



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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."

 

[BigBadJon]

Originally posted by terminator911:
As I have previously said in another post, we have to expose our b@lls and get rejected, there's no other way around this.
terminator911

Right on Terminator! Given the fact that people generally go to great lengths to avoid pain (rejection), often at the expense of experiencing pleasure (getting the hookup), It's a wonder that men get anywhere with women.

Add to this the fragile male ego and a dose of shyness, and what do you get? A perfectly good catch for a woman who sits on the sidelines watching everyone else have a good time.

There's no reason why any of us can't have the things we want as long as we are willing to change and put ourselves out on the line a little more.

 

[bobj]

"we have to do the work, girls are not going to come to you"

Uh huh. So how come I see a post on this board every week that begins "Hot girls talk to me and flirt with me all the time, but..."

Hmmmmmm?

Lordy O' that's frustrating.

 

[ChrisFl]

> So how come I see a post on this board every week that begins "Hot girls talk to me and flirt with me all the time, but..."

Probably because somebody's exaggerating.


So where do you guys go to meet women?

[This message has been edited by ChrisFl (edited 11-21-2000).]

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

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