Go out somewhere new!

[dElAvA]

Always take a girl out to somewher either both of you don't spend alot of time at or only you do. I had to make a plan quick cause an oportunity arose with a girl I've liked for a while and shes showed interest in me. So I told her we would go play pool at a local pool hall then go hang out at the music store. Both of these places were in a large mini mall - area of the town next to me. This girl happens to be the queen of the area. Try directing the night while the girl knows ther area better than you and is mostly bored with it. Course I thought pool would be good but she latter informed me shes spent every weekend there. She got bored quite quickly and lead the way through 3 different stores my only saving grace was were both big music people so the record store was really interesting cause we shered musical tastes. In trying to figure out her taste I told her she had to pick one one cd that I would get for her so she gets biance knowls crap while I know damn right well she was looking at metal most of the time, but confusion is a whole other issue. So take my advice be new and different always show the girl something new.

 

[Eternal]

You bought her a cd? Please tell me you banged her to justify that...

 

[Zelemont]

I hate when people come try to give advice without even reading the bible.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Im gonna make a post off your post right now.

Dont worry about taking the girl somewhere new, just take her somewhere that she can have F-U-N. Thats right, FUN, a very simple concept. Show them a good time and youve done have your job. Now the ohter half of your job, DONT BE BORING. Like our friend here, he was obviously boring which made her think everything was boring. So...disregade everything he said.


There you have it....

 

[dElAvA]

Thanks guys your so encouraging
1. I have read the DJ Bible both the High School and Classic versions.
2. I bought her a CD because were both musicly inclined people and shes been evasive as to what she really likes.
3. Us guys are always so extreme either we think we blew it or we think were gonna score on the next date. Turns out even though what we did together was the same thing shes done every other night for the past year She endend up having a really good time, of course I thought because It wasn't new and different it was a train wreck. She asked me if we could do something I would enjoy so Im taking her to a concert were the band I manage is performing shes really excited about it and oh were going to a party in the town center tonight and were watching the fireworks together tomorrow night. I guess I was being to hard on myself and know that I know she enjoys our time together I'll be eve more relaxed and more charming.
Thanks for cracking the wip anyway though guys